• Is my boyfriend a jerk?

    No, No. No. No. You can't MAKE it work. It does naturally and right now it isn't. No. You can't MAKE him more sensitive. "He's already made and a poor job of it." He's about as sensitive as a telephone pole. No. You shouldn't be OK with racist videos unless you are a racist too. No. You shouldn't slap him.... show more
    No, No. No. No. You can't MAKE it work. It does naturally and right now it isn't. No. You can't MAKE him more sensitive. "He's already made and a poor job of it." He's about as sensitive as a telephone pole. No. You shouldn't be OK with racist videos unless you are a racist too. No. You shouldn't slap him. Instead, what you should have done is put on your coat, turn around and go back to your house. There is an old saying "Love is blind." oops! that saying is all about you....sorry for the honesty but if you do not hear it, you will keep doing the same old thing which I predict will get worse. Leave now while you are ahead in the game.....he hasn't hurt you yet physically but all signs are pointing to that eventuality.
    6 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Did I just get used for sex?

    First, you don't suck in bed......otherwise you two wouldn't have been together all night....that's just you wining so stop now. Yes, she got what she wanted......her plan from the beginning was to do this but if she said what her plan was from the beginning, she might have risked not having one wonderful night with you (in her... show more
    First, you don't suck in bed......otherwise you two wouldn't have been together all night....that's just you wining so stop now. Yes, she got what she wanted......her plan from the beginning was to do this but if she said what her plan was from the beginning, she might have risked not having one wonderful night with you (in her mind). Quite obviously, she doesn't want commitment and you found out in a hard way for you. I might have felt the same for women I made love in the past that were people that I felt had potential for more. That's the kind of guy I am and the kind of guy I assume you are. The trouble here is that she isn't like either of us. One night of fantastic sex with further commitment was her plan. Move and find the same great sex with another that sees a potential for staying together after the sex works well.
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • What to do if a guy with aspergers likes you?

    Best answer: I think you have to do some study about people with Asperger's if you want to understand him more. People with Asperger's are just like you and have sexual instinct that is pre-programmed in our brains at birth. Attraction is magic to some people but it is scientific to me. The right combination of shape, smell and sound (voice)... show more
    Best answer: I think you have to do some study about people with Asperger's if you want to understand him more. People with Asperger's are just like you and have sexual instinct that is pre-programmed in our brains at birth. Attraction is magic to some people but it is scientific to me. The right combination of shape, smell and sound (voice) will lead someone to you. If you are attracted to them back, the "magic happens. The interesting things is that the scientific attraction is set that way in humans to better guarantee successful births between the two people. So the scientific part is the FIRST part of attraction. After that, you have to live in the 21st century where we all evaluate COMPATABILITY. you will first judge him on sexual attractiveness and than go on to examine compatibility. Now you know what to do.....go do it.
    6 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Boyfriend called another girl pretty?

    Listen, my friend......when I got married, my wife said "You can look all you want, but you can't touch." My wife is wise to the ways of men. She knows that other women are artwork to our eyes. It's part of our nature to enjoy beautiful women. If you do not accept that as a girl/woman, you are setting yourself up for some pretty... show more
    Listen, my friend......when I got married, my wife said "You can look all you want, but you can't touch." My wife is wise to the ways of men. She knows that other women are artwork to our eyes. It's part of our nature to enjoy beautiful women. If you do not accept that as a girl/woman, you are setting yourself up for some pretty frustrating times ahead. The real true test of a guy's worth is whether he touches what he sees. If he has the will power not to pursue what he sees and wants, that is the start of what you want to see. You have to be #1 and the only one to touch in the eyes of a mature boy/man.
    6 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Hiw to get rid of an obsessed boyfirend?

    ...and try a little psychological experiment on yourself right now.....imagine what it would be like to marry that guy and be stuck with that behavior for a long time........EWWWWW YUK!! I'll say that you are crazy or messed up in the head if you want the pain and frustration that comes with someone like that. You want us to think you are... show more
    ...and try a little psychological experiment on yourself right now.....imagine what it would be like to marry that guy and be stuck with that behavior for a long time........EWWWWW YUK!! I'll say that you are crazy or messed up in the head if you want the pain and frustration that comes with someone like that. You want us to think you are crazy? no? So do something about it!!! Dump his butt and don't let him think he can act that way with you. I pity the poor girl that learns his abusive ways next after you are done with him.
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Who am I supposed to think about when I masturbate if im not attracted to anyone?

    this is not an answer that anyone could possibly tell you unless they had probes on your brain and did a test by running pictures in front of you and measured brain waves. So fix yourself and come up with your own answer. It sounds kinda harsh but life doesn't always have clear answers.
    this is not an answer that anyone could possibly tell you unless they had probes on your brain and did a test by running pictures in front of you and measured brain waves. So fix yourself and come up with your own answer. It sounds kinda harsh but life doesn't always have clear answers.
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • So this is kinda a weird question but I'm curious... if you really truly and with all your heart love someone, why are you able to get mad at them, or fight with them?

    being in love is not always the same......and people in love have individual needs that sometimes run opposite to their partner. puppy love or first love is the most fragile and could be broken by a fight. Young love is the 2nd most fragile.....only because the participants have the least experience to work through problems. Developed or mature... show more
    being in love is not always the same......and people in love have individual needs that sometimes run opposite to their partner. puppy love or first love is the most fragile and could be broken by a fight. Young love is the 2nd most fragile.....only because the participants have the least experience to work through problems. Developed or mature love often lasts through fights. The reason the people fell in love is referenced and skills are employed to come to a compromise.
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Help me escape the friend zone!!!?

    you can't.....that's like having some sort of control over her brain.....she will be attracted to you or not.....out of your control. Attraction is scientific......the brain is preprogrammed at birth to look for a certain shape, smell and sound....if you do not have the ideal combination of those, she won't get turned on and you will be... show more
    you can't.....that's like having some sort of control over her brain.....she will be attracted to you or not.....out of your control. Attraction is scientific......the brain is preprogrammed at birth to look for a certain shape, smell and sound....if you do not have the ideal combination of those, she won't get turned on and you will be in the friend zone. She might have what you need but the magic only happens when both have what each other needs.
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Is this a friends with benefits type thing?

    Every relationship has to start somehow and this one started sexually. Whether feelings and attachment comes after that remains to be seen and can only be seen by the test of time going by. I guess if you like the sex and wanna see if deeper stuff starts to happen, keep going. If you want to be compared to other relationships that started that... show more
    Every relationship has to start somehow and this one started sexually. Whether feelings and attachment comes after that remains to be seen and can only be seen by the test of time going by. I guess if you like the sex and wanna see if deeper stuff starts to happen, keep going. If you want to be compared to other relationships that started that way, I can predict/guess that it won't last but only you and he know what the answer will be. You likely are, but protected sex is mandatory because you don't want a pregnancy from a relationship as shaky as this is right now.
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Long question. Bear with me.?

    Best answer: Yes you are majorly smitten but you might not like to hear that it might be overly so. Some people stay in relationships that are negative. They have their own reasons for doing so. As an outsider looking in after reading just one paragraph, I can't know everything that is going on but I would say this...... fighting a lot in a... show more
    Best answer: Yes you are majorly smitten but you might not like to hear that it might be overly so. Some people stay in relationships that are negative. They have their own reasons for doing so. As an outsider looking in after reading just one paragraph, I can't know everything that is going on but I would say this...... fighting a lot in a relationship is only OK if you two can figure out what is causing the problem and solve it (put it to bed!) Without a solution to the problem that caused the problem that caused the fight, you are doomed to keep on fighting about the same thing over and over. In relationships where the sex/touching/physical part of great part of the relationship but there is little else to hold it together, the relationships don't last long term. Let's hope that this is not you.
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • I'm 24 and feel like my life is passing me by?

    Your feelings (which are valid) and the truth have nothing do with each other. the truth is that you are a ship on the sea on a voyage.....right now the water is rough....you could give up and go nowhere....but those strong enough to go on reach a destination. So how strong are you.... Just like being on the sea.....you just look out and see... show more
    Your feelings (which are valid) and the truth have nothing do with each other. the truth is that you are a ship on the sea on a voyage.....right now the water is rough....you could give up and go nowhere....but those strong enough to go on reach a destination. So how strong are you.... Just like being on the sea.....you just look out and see water and get depressed......that's what you are now. You just have to keep reminding yourself that there is a place to land where you can stand on solid ground. In human terms that means a solid job, a house to live in, plenty of money to buy the things you need AND a relationship with someone you love. My wife was 28 when I married her. You have plenty of time to meet that special guy.
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • I need a girlfriend ! (pic)?

    Immature..."I need a girlfriend." Mature "I want a girlfriend." Immature...wanting a girlfriend and only showing a picture....wanting someone based on looks only. mature....providing a pic but also an explanation of where you live, what you are like, what you like to do, what grade you are in and how old you are. Now to the... show more
    Immature..."I need a girlfriend." Mature "I want a girlfriend." Immature...wanting a girlfriend and only showing a picture....wanting someone based on looks only. mature....providing a pic but also an explanation of where you live, what you are like, what you like to do, what grade you are in and how old you are. Now to the worst thing....Yahoo answers is not a dating site. It is an advice site. This is not meant to be a place where you advertise for a GF. Good luck to you.
    8 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • I'm only 13- and a 17 year old wants to sleep with me?

    OK, you're mad. You have two paths to walk soon.....the one of anger and revenge which is immature and likely to ramp up the situation into more trouble than it is now OR one of maturity and thinking and gratitude that he was in your life a short time to teach you that there really is something to the old saying "a Wolf in sheep's... show more
    OK, you're mad. You have two paths to walk soon.....the one of anger and revenge which is immature and likely to ramp up the situation into more trouble than it is now OR one of maturity and thinking and gratitude that he was in your life a short time to teach you that there really is something to the old saying "a Wolf in sheep's clothing." Little Red Riding Hood didn't fall for the wolf and neither did you. You survived without damage....so far.....but I will take it all back if you go down the negative path. Things to do: -without anger, tell all your friends about that situation so they don't fall prey to the wolf. -avoid him at all costs...no contact at all electronically or physically.
    6 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Why do I feel uncomfortable with guys?

    You CAN but it's going to take a period of time, usually one of short periods of frustration like the ones you described before the memory of him and the time you had passes. It seems like it won't pass, but it will. The reason you back off and feel uncomfortable is that you still feel part of him. You can not give yourself to someone else... show more
    You CAN but it's going to take a period of time, usually one of short periods of frustration like the ones you described before the memory of him and the time you had passes. It seems like it won't pass, but it will. The reason you back off and feel uncomfortable is that you still feel part of him. You can not give yourself to someone else when he "owns" part of your heart. Taking the time you need to do a full "flush" of him out of your system is what you need. Don't let yourself get on an intimate level with someone yet. It's too soon and I think you are doing that to try to force the memory to go away instead of letting him go naturally with time. You said it yourself.....you are trying to "hook up." That's just another way to say "have sex" without emotion and attachment......just sex for pleasure. You sure you want that right now?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Is It Weird Having My Belly Button Licked?

    Nothing is weird if you like it and it doesn't harm you. Sexual activities is supposed to be pleasurable. Light sexual activity like that is seen as a preparation for heavier sexual activity in the future. You wrote that he "messes with you." That's what that means.
    Nothing is weird if you like it and it doesn't harm you. Sexual activities is supposed to be pleasurable. Light sexual activity like that is seen as a preparation for heavier sexual activity in the future. You wrote that he "messes with you." That's what that means.
    5 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Meeting a guy of the internet? Should I go with my gut instinct?!?

    Best answer: OK, what is the safest course...... agree to meet him in a public place with lots of people around, like a Starbucks. Steer the conversation into exploration of what he is like, what he likes and what he does so you hear it from his mouth. The tone of his voice and his eyes reveal bad or good intentions in most cases. If the hair on the... show more
    Best answer: OK, what is the safest course...... agree to meet him in a public place with lots of people around, like a Starbucks. Steer the conversation into exploration of what he is like, what he likes and what he does so you hear it from his mouth. The tone of his voice and his eyes reveal bad or good intentions in most cases. If the hair on the back of your necks stands up, have a planned and logical exit strategy already in place. Don't make that part up at the last minute and let it be swift. Do not give him your address under any circumstances on a first meeting. This is something that is done after many meetings where trust is developed. Be constantly on guard to see how fast he "wants you in bed." Sexual attraction is nice to know but the speedier it is in a relationship is often a predictor for how fast the relationship is over!
    7 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • How do you talk during sex?

    Best answer: The right answer is to be real.....if talking dirty is your natural self....you do that. If he likes it, he'll stick around. If he doesn't, you'll know it. If you are acting falsely and talking dirty just because you think he'll like it....first you will prove you are immature and 2nd, the moment you get tired of acting... show more
    Best answer: The right answer is to be real.....if talking dirty is your natural self....you do that. If he likes it, he'll stick around. If he doesn't, you'll know it. If you are acting falsely and talking dirty just because you think he'll like it....first you will prove you are immature and 2nd, the moment you get tired of acting like someone you are not, he'll know the difference and gotten used to the dirty talk you don't want to do anymore. If you want my best advise from real life experience.....don't say any of that stereotypic crap....instead be in the moment and talk about how you like what he is doing at the moment which tells him he's doing it right to please you. Talk to him honestly to make adjustments to what he does so it's better for you...example "That's a little too hard, a little more gentle and that will turn me on more....." or the opposite!
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • What are orgasms like as a woman?

    you have already violated one of yahoo's rules for this section of singles and relationships. There are rules that govern how graphic you can be here. It's like you don't care that 12 and 13 year olds are on this reading such stuff. The ungraphic answer to your question is "similar to you" in their own unique way. show more
    you have already violated one of yahoo's rules for this section of singles and relationships. There are rules that govern how graphic you can be here. It's like you don't care that 12 and 13 year olds are on this reading such stuff. The ungraphic answer to your question is "similar to you" in their own unique way.
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Does he like me or is he just using me for sex?

    Best answer: OK, relax a second and let's together look at reality. I am much more experienced and older than you so I hope you decide to listen. a 15 year old boy is not skilled and mature in relationships. His body is mature enough to have sex, that's for sure. IF I give him the benefit of the doubt and he wasn't JUST in this to get... show more
    Best answer: OK, relax a second and let's together look at reality. I am much more experienced and older than you so I hope you decide to listen. a 15 year old boy is not skilled and mature in relationships. His body is mature enough to have sex, that's for sure. IF I give him the benefit of the doubt and he wasn't JUST in this to get in your pants, his life experience with girls is pretty low. What to say to a girl and hold a conversation is beyond the skills of many 15 year olds. Girls mature in their thinking much faster than boys. If it is a relationship you want with him and he proves he is worth something beyond a horndog that sees you as a vehicle for sex, YOU MUST LEAD. Keep talking to him about what he likes and where he has been and what his plans are. Ask him what he likes to do and ask if you can do it with him (not sex). If he is worth it, he'll want to do what you like too (not sex). Until you really grasp what's up here, you'll be crying more as you are expecting more out of him than he is likely capable of giving as a 15 year old guy. Science and society have said that guys do not fully mature in their thinking until their late 20s. Until then, the woman/girl has to be smarter and wiser.....and this was written by a guy!
    13 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Do girls like skinny or muscular guys?

    my best guess is that GIRLS like muscular sexy dudes and WOMEN like either as long as their inside qualities are compatible. When a girl/women sees qualities in a boy/man that she likes, she can decide to over look a lack of physical amazingness.
    my best guess is that GIRLS like muscular sexy dudes and WOMEN like either as long as their inside qualities are compatible. When a girl/women sees qualities in a boy/man that she likes, she can decide to over look a lack of physical amazingness.
    15 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago