You need to get back out there and start looking for the warning signs from the start. Just because you got hurt badly doesnt mean you avoid women.One thing most people fail at is looking for signs that someone isnt worth being with.It could be they have bad behaviour,addictions,obsessions,etc. You need to know what the warning signs are real quick...
You need to get back out there and start looking for the warning signs from the start. Just because you got hurt badly doesnt mean you avoid women.One thing most people fail at is looking for signs that someone isnt worth being with.It could be they have bad behaviour,addictions,obsessions,etc. You need to know what the warning signs are real quick so you can make better decisions so you can walk away. You also need to learn all the good signs too. You are responsible for your own life.Once you learn the warning signs you'll always be looking out for them.
Try these- Warning Sign Books For Men:
1)Booby Trapped.Men Beware! The Dirty Seven Sisters:A dating guide for the 21st Century. By June Marshall.
2)The Complete Idiot's Guide To Handling A Breakup. By Roseanne Rosen.
3)The Worst Case Scenario Survival Handbook:Dating & Sex.
4)Ultimate Betrayal. By Danine Manette.
5)Women,sex and dating for the single man. By Perry Rose.
6)Hollywood Dating Blunders.
By Jim Carroll and Dennis Foose.
Also,try this approach too:
1)Always start by looking for the women who are interested in you. They are the ones who look at you and they smile at you.Some might just stare at you.Those ones are your choices right from the start. It should always be mutual interest.
2)If a woman doesnt notice you it means she isnt interested in you.Sometimes,it means you arent their type.Move on.Dont approach them.You will get rejected. Always move on straight away or you'll miss out on others.
3)Smile back at those women who look at you and they smile at you and say "Hi" or "Hey".
4)Then go over and introduce yourself to her.Just say:"Hi,my name is.....,I just wanted to meet you".
5)Find out her name by asking her what her name is.
6)The best topic to talk to a woman is her.Start by getting to know her.You are trying to bring a new person into your life.Ask her questions about herself so you get to know all about her.Ask a lot of questions over 3 or 4 dates.It shows her you are interested in her. Find out about her sooner not later.And you find out if you are on the same page or arent compatible you move on sooner.
7)She should ask you questions about yourself so she can get to know all about you too.It shows she is interested in you too.
8)There are certain things you need to look for from the first moment you meet:
a)Her good qualities.
b)The compatibilities between you and her.Its about what you and a woman have in common.
c)Warning signs. The things you dont want to put up with.The deal breakers.Divorce courts are full of them.
d)You need to know what you want in the future,eg:marriage,family of your own,etc.There are some women who wont date a guy who doesnt know what they want in their future.
9)At some point you and a woman will find out if you and them are compatible/have a lot in common or not. If you do,continue seeing them.If not,call it a day and move on,start searching again.Have standards.Learn about someone sooner not later.You can move on quicker if things arent right.