• What to do if a guy with aspergers likes you?

    Best answer: I think you have to do some study about people with Asperger's if you want to understand him more. People with Asperger's are just like you and have sexual instinct that is pre-programmed in our brains at birth. Attraction is magic to some people but it is scientific to me. The right combination of shape, smell and sound (voice)... show more
    Best answer: I think you have to do some study about people with Asperger's if you want to understand him more. People with Asperger's are just like you and have sexual instinct that is pre-programmed in our brains at birth. Attraction is magic to some people but it is scientific to me. The right combination of shape, smell and sound (voice) will lead someone to you. If you are attracted to them back, the "magic happens. The interesting things is that the scientific attraction is set that way in humans to better guarantee successful births between the two people. So the scientific part is the FIRST part of attraction. After that, you have to live in the 21st century where we all evaluate COMPATABILITY. you will first judge him on sexual attractiveness and than go on to examine compatibility. Now you know what to do.....go do it.
    6 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • How do I stop wanting a relationship!!!?

    Best answer: It's very easy to throw your hand in the air and give up.....who said this was going to be easy? I met my wife at age 28....you giving up now is shorting yourself of that possibility. Meeting the right person is a combination of luck and skill. If up until now you have been relying on luck more, you need to increase your skill and... show more
    Best answer: It's very easy to throw your hand in the air and give up.....who said this was going to be easy? I met my wife at age 28....you giving up now is shorting yourself of that possibility. Meeting the right person is a combination of luck and skill. If up until now you have been relying on luck more, you need to increase your skill and figure out how to "get yourself out there" and exposed to more gentlemen that are interested in relationships. The lucky thing is that you are at the PERFECT age to be with someone your own age that is mature. The vast majority of guys have matured as much as they will for the rest of their lives by their late twenties, have sowed all the wild oats they are going to by their late twenties, start thinking of what it would be like to start a family and have a higher chance of either being financially secure or have a solid start to that end. Keep in mind that the older a person is, the more baggage they carry with them that you must deal with, forgive and help the man move on in a healthy way. You might also have relationship baggage that you have to think about and take care of so you present yourself in the best possible way. Involve yourself in situations where you are doing what you love and at the same time have men seeing you do that. Example...you are an avid bike rider....ride often and in places where you are seen by many men.
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • How do you talk during sex?

    Best answer: The right answer is to be real.....if talking dirty is your natural self....you do that. If he likes it, he'll stick around. If he doesn't, you'll know it. If you are acting falsely and talking dirty just because you think he'll like it....first you will prove you are immature and 2nd, the moment you get tired of acting... show more
    Best answer: The right answer is to be real.....if talking dirty is your natural self....you do that. If he likes it, he'll stick around. If he doesn't, you'll know it. If you are acting falsely and talking dirty just because you think he'll like it....first you will prove you are immature and 2nd, the moment you get tired of acting like someone you are not, he'll know the difference and gotten used to the dirty talk you don't want to do anymore. If you want my best advise from real life experience.....don't say any of that stereotypic crap....instead be in the moment and talk about how you like what he is doing at the moment which tells him he's doing it right to please you. Talk to him honestly to make adjustments to what he does so it's better for you...example "That's a little too hard, a little more gentle and that will turn me on more....." or the opposite!
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Does he like me or is he just using me for sex?

    Best answer: OK, relax a second and let's together look at reality. I am much more experienced and older than you so I hope you decide to listen. a 15 year old boy is not skilled and mature in relationships. His body is mature enough to have sex, that's for sure. IF I give him the benefit of the doubt and he wasn't JUST in this to get... show more
    Best answer: OK, relax a second and let's together look at reality. I am much more experienced and older than you so I hope you decide to listen. a 15 year old boy is not skilled and mature in relationships. His body is mature enough to have sex, that's for sure. IF I give him the benefit of the doubt and he wasn't JUST in this to get in your pants, his life experience with girls is pretty low. What to say to a girl and hold a conversation is beyond the skills of many 15 year olds. Girls mature in their thinking much faster than boys. If it is a relationship you want with him and he proves he is worth something beyond a horndog that sees you as a vehicle for sex, YOU MUST LEAD. Keep talking to him about what he likes and where he has been and what his plans are. Ask him what he likes to do and ask if you can do it with him (not sex). If he is worth it, he'll want to do what you like too (not sex). Until you really grasp what's up here, you'll be crying more as you are expecting more out of him than he is likely capable of giving as a 15 year old guy. Science and society have said that guys do not fully mature in their thinking until their late 20s. Until then, the woman/girl has to be smarter and wiser.....and this was written by a guy!
    13 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • How do i get my girlfriend to have a manage a twa?

    Best answer: you just ask......why you couldn't think of that answer is Beyond me. Common sense. Are their risks in asking? Yes, so you better proceed cautiously and not ask until you are 100% sure she would be in favor. You might make her mad at worst and confused at yoru intentions at best. Without knowing your GF, no one can predict what... show more
    Best answer: you just ask......why you couldn't think of that answer is Beyond me. Common sense. Are their risks in asking? Yes, so you better proceed cautiously and not ask until you are 100% sure she would be in favor. You might make her mad at worst and confused at yoru intentions at best. Without knowing your GF, no one can predict what her answer will be. You are the best judge of that.
    9 answers · Singles & Dating · 6 years ago
  • Please answer for my question.?

    Best answer: so I didn't know what Guster was either and I looked it up. It said you were going to be using Twitter with this girl. So you will be "talking" to this girl. Same as face to face then....be interested in her and ask questions about her to get to know her.
    Best answer: so I didn't know what Guster was either and I looked it up. It said you were going to be using Twitter with this girl. So you will be "talking" to this girl. Same as face to face then....be interested in her and ask questions about her to get to know her.
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 8 years ago
  • Long question. Bear with me.?

    Best answer: Yes you are majorly smitten but you might not like to hear that it might be overly so. Some people stay in relationships that are negative. They have their own reasons for doing so. As an outsider looking in after reading just one paragraph, I can't know everything that is going on but I would say this...... fighting a lot in a... show more
    Best answer: Yes you are majorly smitten but you might not like to hear that it might be overly so. Some people stay in relationships that are negative. They have their own reasons for doing so. As an outsider looking in after reading just one paragraph, I can't know everything that is going on but I would say this...... fighting a lot in a relationship is only OK if you two can figure out what is causing the problem and solve it (put it to bed!) Without a solution to the problem that caused the problem that caused the fight, you are doomed to keep on fighting about the same thing over and over. In relationships where the sex/touching/physical part of great part of the relationship but there is little else to hold it together, the relationships don't last long term. Let's hope that this is not you.
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Meeting a guy of the internet? Should I go with my gut instinct?!?

    Best answer: OK, what is the safest course...... agree to meet him in a public place with lots of people around, like a Starbucks. Steer the conversation into exploration of what he is like, what he likes and what he does so you hear it from his mouth. The tone of his voice and his eyes reveal bad or good intentions in most cases. If the hair on the... show more
    Best answer: OK, what is the safest course...... agree to meet him in a public place with lots of people around, like a Starbucks. Steer the conversation into exploration of what he is like, what he likes and what he does so you hear it from his mouth. The tone of his voice and his eyes reveal bad or good intentions in most cases. If the hair on the back of your necks stands up, have a planned and logical exit strategy already in place. Don't make that part up at the last minute and let it be swift. Do not give him your address under any circumstances on a first meeting. This is something that is done after many meetings where trust is developed. Be constantly on guard to see how fast he "wants you in bed." Sexual attraction is nice to know but the speedier it is in a relationship is often a predictor for how fast the relationship is over!
    7 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Is it normal for my boyfriend to fantasize sleeping with other women?

    Best answer: OK, my advise is When you are on the train tracks and a speeding train is coming toward you, get off the tracks. He is the train and if you spend one more minute investing your life in him, you are just asking to get run over. Be smart and run away from this train wreck of a boy/man.
    Best answer: OK, my advise is When you are on the train tracks and a speeding train is coming toward you, get off the tracks. He is the train and if you spend one more minute investing your life in him, you are just asking to get run over. Be smart and run away from this train wreck of a boy/man.
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • How to get over a guy who cheated on me who i was in love with?

    Best answer: If you honestly can't, then don't. Give him another chance but under very strict guidelines that you won't stand for any cheating while you two are official and that this is the last time he will have with you. Make him do a std testing series if he truly wants to be with you. If he does, maybe he has changed his mind and... show more
    Best answer: If you honestly can't, then don't. Give him another chance but under very strict guidelines that you won't stand for any cheating while you two are official and that this is the last time he will have with you. Make him do a std testing series if he truly wants to be with you. If he does, maybe he has changed his mind and will work hard to make you happy. I know that cheating hurts the heart but people make mistakes and need to learn from them. If he truly can be only with you, he learned from the mistake. If he can't, toss him to the wind as he can't or won't for a long time and your heart deserves better.
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • I'm nervous about going to a boys house?

    Best answer: OK, this is so hard to do long distance....If I were standing there and looking in your eyes, it would be better as I am dead serious. Your nervousness is your common sense telling you not to do this. "Curiosity killed the cat" is the old saying....in this case, you might be tempted by his invite.....you are 14 and your body is... show more
    Best answer: OK, this is so hard to do long distance....If I were standing there and looking in your eyes, it would be better as I am dead serious. Your nervousness is your common sense telling you not to do this. "Curiosity killed the cat" is the old saying....in this case, you might be tempted by his invite.....you are 14 and your body is giving you signals that it is ready for that....that's hard to ignore....It's so obvious that he wants to use you for sex and the likelihood of you getting hurt emotionally after it's done is high as a 17 year old guy isn't likely to be looking for a serious relationship at all let alone with a 14 year old. There are so many sad stories of young girls who get pregnant and have abrupt changes to their life that my heart goes out to you to beg you to ignore your body's signals and give in to wise words...stay away. he might be a "nice lad" on the surface but those of us who are wise know about "wolves in sheep clothing."
    9 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • My crush of 6 months is in my bed almost naked?

    Best answer: If she is your crush, you don't want to do anything to endanger a future relationship. Don't do anything that is risky, including having sex with her. I don't see anything wrong with snuggling up with her if you have that much self control but if not, don't. Drunk people often say what they wouldn't say if they... show more
    Best answer: If she is your crush, you don't want to do anything to endanger a future relationship. Don't do anything that is risky, including having sex with her. I don't see anything wrong with snuggling up with her if you have that much self control but if not, don't. Drunk people often say what they wouldn't say if they weren't drunk. Her true feelings might have come out that she is attracted to you so let her say those words when she is NOT drunk and then maybe, under willing undrunk terms, you two can make love.
    12 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • When do I kiss my girlfriend?

    Best answer: Sorry but I had a little giggle reading this......I just got done typing the same advice for somebody else about first kisses......In your mind, this is monumentally important......and because it is you are spending a lot of brain power trying to "make it special"......In my life, I have learned a lesson.....things I have built... show more
    Best answer: Sorry but I had a little giggle reading this......I just got done typing the same advice for somebody else about first kisses......In your mind, this is monumentally important......and because it is you are spending a lot of brain power trying to "make it special"......In my life, I have learned a lesson.....things I have built up in importance rarely live up to the hype. I have had much more joy when I lived in the moment. That's why your friend said "It just comes natural." She's right. in a way, you are trying to create an "un-natural" situation.....planning it out...best time.....best way......best technique. My best advice is to relax about this, stop planning and FEEL more than THINK. FEEL the right time that her heart is one with yours....the kiss that happens then IS monumental.
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • I shouldn't like him but I do..? Helpppo?

    Best answer: Ok this is complicated advice...it's going to sound like I am saying "go for it" at the same time I am saying "don't go for it." 1st. Age doesn't know attraction. Your age and his age doesn't matter in matters of the heart BUT you can't just go for if you are underage like you can if you are legal... show more
    Best answer: Ok this is complicated advice...it's going to sound like I am saying "go for it" at the same time I am saying "don't go for it." 1st. Age doesn't know attraction. Your age and his age doesn't matter in matters of the heart BUT you can't just go for if you are underage like you can if you are legal age. One year from now, the story changes as you can, as an adult, make adult decisions and "go for it". BUT be aware that as you enter the adult world, you pay personally for bad decisions....not your parents,who need to protect you until you are an adult.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 4 years ago
  • Jealousy makes you nasty!?

    Best answer: You said it yourself.....you like the drama. Until you DON"T like the drama, there is no advice to give you. Until the time you really are ready for advice, you are like the person who is drowning in the water but yelling "Don't help me!"
    Best answer: You said it yourself.....you like the drama. Until you DON"T like the drama, there is no advice to give you. Until the time you really are ready for advice, you are like the person who is drowning in the water but yelling "Don't help me!"
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 years ago
  • A girl i liked rejected me 2 years ago but now she likes me... what should i do?

    Best answer: Get over it and start fresh. You were a different person back then and she was a different person back then. Explore each other now. If you are the kind of person that holds a grudge against others, YOU are not ready for a relationship with her at this time. That's why I said "get over it." Those words might get you... show more
    Best answer: Get over it and start fresh. You were a different person back then and she was a different person back then. Explore each other now. If you are the kind of person that holds a grudge against others, YOU are not ready for a relationship with her at this time. That's why I said "get over it." Those words might get you upset at me but I don't care......you wrote in here for the best advise and I gave it to you......my dad once said that sometime the greatest advice for the moment isn't what you want to hear but you need to anyway. That's the kind of advice I give. I once heard it called "tough love." What do you think?
    12 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 years ago
  • I'm 16 and he's 20, were gonna have sex?

    Best answer: There are plenty of people out there like you....doings things unwise despite the number of people saying to do otherwise.....so I won't tell you what I think of a 16 year old making it with a 20 year old. Does sex hurt for the first time? For some it does and for some it is just uncomfortable and for some it is pleasurable. I guess... show more
    Best answer: There are plenty of people out there like you....doings things unwise despite the number of people saying to do otherwise.....so I won't tell you what I think of a 16 year old making it with a 20 year old. Does sex hurt for the first time? For some it does and for some it is just uncomfortable and for some it is pleasurable. I guess you will find out what it is for you. If I tell my boyfriend to stop and he doesnt , what do I do? This is a question that, if you were an adult and mature, you would have answered for yourself, before you got into a sexual situation. This is a big red flag you aren't ready. The answer for you is that you DO NOT have sex with someone you don't COMPLETELY trust with your welfare and safety. By asking this question, you gave all of us the ammunition we needed to tell you what you don't want us to say. Will I bleed? Some do and some don't....you will find out for yourself what is true for you. I'm one of the top answers in this category with common sense wisdom. It will be your choice to listen or not. To me, you are like the person in the lake who is drowning but yelling....."Don't save me!"
    6 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 years ago
  • What is a true love? how will it come?

    Best answer: True love doesn't come or arrive. It develops. Through the test of time, you know it's there when: 1) your partner is there through thick and thin, trouble and celebration 2) your partner has your best interest at heart at all times. Supports your dreams and you the same back. 3) your partner schedules time to maintain,... show more
    Best answer: True love doesn't come or arrive. It develops. Through the test of time, you know it's there when: 1) your partner is there through thick and thin, trouble and celebration 2) your partner has your best interest at heart at all times. Supports your dreams and you the same back. 3) your partner schedules time to maintain, sustain and grow the relationship. Time that is on purpose scheduled to be together in activity is mandatory for love to grow.
    6 answers · Singles & Dating · 8 years ago
  • Is excess of love harmful?

    Best answer: That depends on the person. Some people can't get enough love and never feel smothered by another person. Others need love but not overly so. They feel smothered by the other or feel that the other person is too clingy. This person would be me. I don't like clingy. I needed a woman who was very independent and could think... show more
    Best answer: That depends on the person. Some people can't get enough love and never feel smothered by another person. Others need love but not overly so. They feel smothered by the other or feel that the other person is too clingy. This person would be me. I don't like clingy. I needed a woman who was very independent and could think on her feet. I wanted a woman that loved me but didn't "need" me. I found her. She's my wife.
    7 answers · Singles & Dating · 7 years ago
  • I told him I like him then walked away...?

    Best answer: I don't blame him for walking away. Not to be too hard on you but you didn't handle it with much tact. Look that word up of you do not know it. You also acted wishy washy.....you really wanted to open up but were guarded and had your walls up at the same time. Love is a risky thing and you really didn't want to take a... show more
    Best answer: I don't blame him for walking away. Not to be too hard on you but you didn't handle it with much tact. Look that word up of you do not know it. You also acted wishy washy.....you really wanted to open up but were guarded and had your walls up at the same time. Love is a risky thing and you really didn't want to take a full risk so you held back. You said it yourself "I don't think I want to be in a relationship." Summary: You went halfway in risk and weren't tactful in your delivery of the message. Solution: try again if you are willing to drop the walls comepletly away and risk to lay bare your loving heart.
    5 answers · Singles & Dating · 7 years ago