I found out tonight that my wife is pregnant, I was shocked because she has been "taking" birth control regularly since we got married because she and I decided we wanted to wait until she and I were both threw with our phds to have kids. She will be through at Christmas, I still have another year. Apparently she is pregnant because she has been flushing her birth control down the toilet every night, I wasn't using a condom because I felt pretty sure that if the birth control failed than it was just meant to be for us to have a child then. I don't know how I should feel about this pregnancy, because it is one that happened because of lies. It is my child, and I am excited about being a daddy but still, this is bittersweet. Is it wrong for me to feel this way? A.) I've always been a terrible speller, my phd is in political science, and I have a law degree, one spelling error does not detract from my education.
B.) Yes, she IS pregnant, I've seen three pregnancy tests that have confirmed this. C.) She admitted to flushing these pills down the toilet every night or washing them down the sink. When she came and told me she was pregnant, I was shocked of course, I began asking questions about how this had happened, she got upset, started crying and admitted to this. She wanted my sympathy, and was agitated when I would not give it to her.