Everything was going great and then he left w/o a word...Why do men do this? When I say left, I mean he bought a one way ticket out of town to see his family & shortly thereafter he started ignoring me... I feel so hurt I thought we had something four months in. He even told me he wanted it in the beginning and proceeded to say "that it was more," throughout the relationship ... before he left town I saw him (because he begged to see me) he even went so far as to say "call me while I'm gone," (which I did, w/ no return) and he agreed to spend time w/ me when he got back but he never gave me a definite date so I asked if he was coming back & why he stopped talking... but I've gotten nothing that was weeks ago. I feel blindsided! Why make future plans w/ me or even say you "want it" if you don't?! Why leave me hanging....? What makes it even harder on me is the fact that I got out a of 3yr relationship in march of this year, and when I met this new guy he said he wanted to take things slow and that he understood where I was at in life... and that he wanted to do what my ex couldn't do and that was be w/ me. Which I let him do because I was ready to start fresh for a change...and to finally get it right w/ someone. I never did anything to deserve this!!!!