• If your spouse said they would be happier without you because they would have more money and less money troubles. How would you take that?

    your spouse says that when the kids are gone that they wouldnt have to worry about paying child support and if they got rid of you they could be happy again because they would be rolling in the $$$$
    your spouse says that when the kids are gone that they wouldnt have to worry about paying child support and if they got rid of you they could be happy again because they would be rolling in the $$$$
    13 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 3 years ago
  • My boyfriend couldn t *** during sex?

    My boyfriend and I were having sex for his birthday we had a lot of foreplay and tried lots of positions we were going for about an hour and he couldn t *** we eventually gave up I feel like I didn t satisfy him and feel like it s my fault though he says its not
    My boyfriend and I were having sex for his birthday we had a lot of foreplay and tried lots of positions we were going for about an hour and he couldn t *** we eventually gave up I feel like I didn t satisfy him and feel like it s my fault though he says its not
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Dealing with the Ex-Wife and their Children?

    I have been dating an older man for about 5 months now. We began our relationship by moving very fast! We started working together back in March and after about a week he started to pursue me. I thought he was a wonderful caring guy from the beginning, but their was a few things that bothered me. We worked together, he was older. He just went... show more
    I have been dating an older man for about 5 months now. We began our relationship by moving very fast! We started working together back in March and after about a week he started to pursue me. I thought he was a wonderful caring guy from the beginning, but their was a few things that bothered me. We worked together, he was older. He just went through a divorce, and had two young children. Well after only a week, I decided to give it a go. I do not regret putting myself in this situation. I love him very much and don’t want to give him up. His ex-wife knows about me, she even knows that I’m 18 years younger then him. And from what he has told me, she was glad that he was moving on and making a new life for him self. What I don’t think he told her, even though I said he should! Was that fact that we live together, and have lived together from the beginning of our relationship! (fast I know!) Well, the problem is at this very moment he is picking up his 2 boys to spend the next week with him! He just told her in the Air port that I live with him! We will not be staying in the same room. He will stay in the guest room with the kids, and I will stay in our bedroom. The boys will only be staying here for 2 days. Then he will be taking to his mothers for the rest of the week ( I work this week, he does not). He told me this over the phone, ending the call with “I will have to think about what is best”. More then once I offered to not give up my place until I met the boys; he wanted me to move in! I even said maybe I should stay with my parents or get a hotel! Nope…….So hear we are with an understandably pissed ex-wife! And me having no idea how to handle this. I’m only 24, and this is a lot to deal with. I’m terrified of losing him, I do love him. We have even been speaking of getting engaged, going as far as looking at rings. He needs to do what is best for kids; I wouldn’t want it any other way. He should never worry about losing them, or his ex-wife making it hard for him to have them. But at the same time, I feel so selfish because I don’t want to give him up! Please help…………
    12 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 1 decade ago
  • Worried I won't ever find love?

    I wonder a lot if, I will ever find someone to love again? It has been a year now since, I had a relationship that actually meant something. It's hard at times, but never tearful, like it has been lately. I miss the companionship, having the butterflies in my belly, the joy of seeing someone who actually wants to see you, compared to someone who... show more
    I wonder a lot if, I will ever find someone to love again? It has been a year now since, I had a relationship that actually meant something. It's hard at times, but never tearful, like it has been lately. I miss the companionship, having the butterflies in my belly, the joy of seeing someone who actually wants to see you, compared to someone who has to see me. I have wondered several times if maybe something is wrong with me. After a year of online dating. Nothing excites me... That scares me, is it a sign that something is truly wrong with me? I miss that feeling I got in my past two relationships. Maybe they were love and I lost out... Any suggestions or advise? I am 27, I have a college education, a good job, I'm back in school working to finish my prerequisite courses to get into a masters program to become a Physicians Assistant... I have an amazing family, I have a cousin who is my best buds and keeps me busy. But, there is just always that sadness of missing out. After I had cancer, I knew my life would always be different..., but I am healthy and I have been for 4 years now. It's just really hard, watching all my friends get married, have babies, attending shower after shower. Wondering if I will ever have a shower? Any advice on meeting someone special? I want a husband, love, marriage, someone to push me through school, someone who supports me, I my own family. Life is hard. Sometimes it's hard putting on a happy face, whenever there is pain in my heart.
    11 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 3 years ago
  • Wife doesn't want to ride says it's too hot .Should I go in the car with her or ride alone?

    Traveling to Arizona later in the week , we had planned on riding . Now she says " Oh , it's going to be too hot , lets drive ." I hate being locked in a sheet metal box for hours at a time . So what do you think ,,, should I just ride myself and meet her there ,,, or go in the car with her ? To the " Oh so clever Top... show more
    Traveling to Arizona later in the week , we had planned on riding . Now she says " Oh , it's going to be too hot , lets drive ." I hate being locked in a sheet metal box for hours at a time . So what do you think ,,, should I just ride myself and meet her there ,,, or go in the car with her ? To the " Oh so clever Top Contributor " , we are neither " commuting " or going to " Phoenix .
    15 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 3 years ago
  • People say theres more to life if you're ugly...i dont see it?

    I'm a woman, I'm not that into fashion or being sexy or too feminine. I don't wear makeup. I wear my ugly face like a badge. But I don't see what's good about being ugly except that I get ignored more (and I like that since I'm a loner who loves solitude) and dislikes talking to humunss. I can't get a boyfriend/husband... show more
    I'm a woman, I'm not that into fashion or being sexy or too feminine. I don't wear makeup. I wear my ugly face like a badge. But I don't see what's good about being ugly except that I get ignored more (and I like that since I'm a loner who loves solitude) and dislikes talking to humunss. I can't get a boyfriend/husband easily. Never had a serious one. I am often treated worse than pretty girls, just walking down the street. I notice men will be less well mannered when they see my face Lol But if I was gorgeous I know that those same men would stop in their tracks to have manners.
    10 answers · Yahoo Answers · 3 years ago
  • Emotional abuse or am I just over reacting?

    I've been married for about 2 years and it seems like my husband and I are always fighting. We get into a huge fight at least once a week and I just end up crying and feeling lost and confused. Most of the time I look back at the fight and I can't see anyway I could have prevented it from happening. If I make even the smallest mistake or if... show more
    I've been married for about 2 years and it seems like my husband and I are always fighting. We get into a huge fight at least once a week and I just end up crying and feeling lost and confused. Most of the time I look back at the fight and I can't see anyway I could have prevented it from happening. If I make even the smallest mistake or if I get even a little upset over anything at all or if I have to ask him to explain something he freaks out at me and he tells me how inconsiderate and selfish I am. He tells me that I only care about myself. If the house isn't clean when he gets into a bad mood then he calls me lazy and pathetic. And if I ask him to explain something he tells me that I am just stupid and worthless. He's told me that I have ruined his life and that I make him want to kill him self. He's told me several times that I'm an inconsiderate ***** and to go **** myself. I've told him that the things he calls me are not acceptable no matter how angry he is, he just says that he knows how horrible it is but he just dosent care. Is there anything I can do to stop these episodes from happening. When he's not angry he's super sweet and funny and caring and he always goes out of the way to try and make me happy and to try and help me in anyway he can. But I just always feel so stressed trying to be perfect so that I don't make any mistakes and make him angry. I don't want to just leave him but I can't keep living like this either what else can i do to prevent this??
    13 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 3 years ago
  • Relationship advice! Please?

    My husband and I have been married for 6 years. I have a 2 year old and I'm pregnant. I recently became a stay at home mom because I have had major pregnancy problems. I work hard at the house to keep it spotless and to have a nice meal when my husband comes home. I don't spend any money! Anyway... Ever since I became a SAHM my husband has... show more
    My husband and I have been married for 6 years. I have a 2 year old and I'm pregnant. I recently became a stay at home mom because I have had major pregnancy problems. I work hard at the house to keep it spotless and to have a nice meal when my husband comes home. I don't spend any money! Anyway... Ever since I became a SAHM my husband has been grouchy with me. We have plenty of money so I don't think he is feeling financial strain. He comes home, eats dinner and then zones out to a movie or Xbox. I get no interaction with him unless he is in the mood for sex. I'm feeling lonely and starting to think in ways I shouldn't. I try to start conversations and he just half heartedly answers while he's zoned out to his phone. I got mad the other day because he refused to talk to me and said, 'one you'll come home and I won't be here.' He just said that I was trying to cause problems in our marriage that aren't there. Any advice? Nice words. I want our marriage nto work. Sex and money are not our problem. Sigh.... *depressed.
    15 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 3 years ago
  • My ex boyfriend was mean and controlling. Why am I sad that he is married?

    First of all, I'm married. I've been married for 30 years. My husband and I split up for about a year and during that time I reconnected with my high school sweetheart. We dated from the 8th grade on into my senior year. We split then, because he was controlling and mean at times. This time around, as time went on he became controlling,... show more
    First of all, I'm married. I've been married for 30 years. My husband and I split up for about a year and during that time I reconnected with my high school sweetheart. We dated from the 8th grade on into my senior year. We split then, because he was controlling and mean at times. This time around, as time went on he became controlling, drank alot.. I decided to opt out of that situation. It was a bad break-up. Eventually, my husband and I got back together. We are happy now, but when I found out that my ex bf got married it rocked my foundation. He used to drive by my house and one day he saw me in the grocery store and then noticed that I was with my husband and left suddenly.Then before I know it, he's got a girlfriend and now he's married. I know he was not the man for me, but I'm feeling very down over this. And there's a part of me that feels, "wow, he was a jerk to me, but he's good to her".. Please give me some insight on this?
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • I have locked myself in my own house.?

    I don't have any windows to break out Nor any phones to signal the police And I don't have my keys send help pls
    I don't have any windows to break out Nor any phones to signal the police And I don't have my keys send help pls
    3 answers · Cell Phones & Plans · 3 years ago
  • Lack of sex after baby?

    My wife and i have been married for 4 years almost 5, and she just gave birth to our first child 2-3 months ago. I thought this was going to be a good thing, i love kids, and have been playing, cuddling kissing both my wife and my child, but i feel like intimacy between my wife and i is missing. we haven't had sex since her second trimester of... show more
    My wife and i have been married for 4 years almost 5, and she just gave birth to our first child 2-3 months ago. I thought this was going to be a good thing, i love kids, and have been playing, cuddling kissing both my wife and my child, but i feel like intimacy between my wife and i is missing. we haven't had sex since her second trimester of pregnancy. I started masturbating as a substitute but i dont know how long thats going to last. I voiced my concerns but she is really tired and grumpy when i bring it up so i drop it. I help around the house, and with the kid, even give her foot massages and make her a bath but its still no good. is this going to be a permanent thing? im already feeling resentment towards her, im afraid its going to build up and lead me to either saying something next time im really mad or having an affair (im not the type to cheat but i still dont trust myself). how should i go about this? everyone makes good points, for the people getting pissed about me asking for sex its been 5-6 months, not weeks, i can deal with weeks, but half a year is different, ill just be patient, i love her and owe it to her.
    22 answers · Newborn & Baby · 3 years ago
  • My mom is engaged and I don't want things to change..?

    I want my mom to be happy so if you're just going to call me selfish please don't bother. I'm trying to be open minded about this. My mom has been married and divorced 3 times. My older brother went through 2 step dads. My parents divorced when I was 11 and they have been sharing me for 4 years. My mom's reasoning for the divorce... show more
    I want my mom to be happy so if you're just going to call me selfish please don't bother. I'm trying to be open minded about this. My mom has been married and divorced 3 times. My older brother went through 2 step dads. My parents divorced when I was 11 and they have been sharing me for 4 years. My mom's reasoning for the divorce was that she "just didn't like men that way anymore." My mom and I have gotten really close in the last couple of years. We do things like leave the bathroom door open and she sleeps in the same room as me when I get scared. My mom's been dating this man for almost year and he proposed recently. I don't think he's a bad guy, he just gets on my nerves all of the time. He's extremely homophobic and transphobic and is insensitive to me (I'm nonbinary.) He has started my mom into going to church again so now she tries to get me into religion which will never happen. They have also spoken of selling our house. I only have a couple more years until I move out so I don't want to say anything. But I already don't like the changes he's brought and I don't know how to handle it when he actually moves in. How am I supposed to deal with this huge change?
    3 answers · Family · 3 years ago
  • I have fallen in love with another NRI, she has a 8 yr old daughter. Help?

    she has a 8 yr old daughter, i am unmarried. She is friendly with me but i am not able to figure out whether this friendlyness she shows towards me is intentional or not. We both live in canada and are new immigrats. Her husband also works with us in a differnet department
    she has a 8 yr old daughter, i am unmarried. She is friendly with me but i am not able to figure out whether this friendlyness she shows towards me is intentional or not. We both live in canada and are new immigrats. Her husband also works with us in a differnet department
    3 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 4 years ago
  • Is this woman Not a good match for me for marriage, or is she a good match ? (here's our conversation together)?

    I was divorced by a lady who cheated on me with 4 other guys, so I'm a bit gun-shy about getting married again. I have the right to be worried since both guys and women seem to be so screwed up these days. I searched for the right questions to ask to get to know a person before committing to each other and out of many questions I chose these 3... show more
    I was divorced by a lady who cheated on me with 4 other guys, so I'm a bit gun-shy about getting married again. I have the right to be worried since both guys and women seem to be so screwed up these days. I searched for the right questions to ask to get to know a person before committing to each other and out of many questions I chose these 3 to ask her: I asked 3 questions to this lady I know and these are the questions I asked and the answers she gave back to me: Question 1) - Do you feel that a wife should change her last name to her husband‘s last name? Her answer = I am sure that a woman has the right to choose if she wants to take her husband’s last name or not. Question 2) - Do you want children? When? How many? Her answer = If I decided to become a single mom in life, I would know when I want to have children and how many. Question 3) - Do you feel that it is right for the wife to work part-time outside the house to help support the family’s finances, or do you think that the man alone should earn enough to support the entire household? Her answer = I do not see anything wrong if the man takes the complete care about the family if he can. Now I would like to meet a lady who would gladly take my last name, hope to have 2 kids with me, and try to at least work part-time to help with the household income, neither of any of those things did I get a feeling from this lady. What’s your feeling about her? (NOT about me please)
    6 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 4 years ago
  • Why doesn't my wife make her children's father pay child support?

    We have been together for almost 4 years. The father of her children was ordered to pay child support for one of the kids but not the younger one. Why? I don't know. She doesn't like to talk about it. I asked her why she doesn't make him pay for his 4 year old boy, and she gets angry about it. I'm not very familiar with child support... show more
    We have been together for almost 4 years. The father of her children was ordered to pay child support for one of the kids but not the younger one. Why? I don't know. She doesn't like to talk about it. I asked her why she doesn't make him pay for his 4 year old boy, and she gets angry about it. I'm not very familiar with child support laws but I do know there are step she could take to make him have to pay child support. I don't care about the money, I just want him to help support his child.
    18 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 4 years ago
  • Should I go back to court due to me just finding out my ex husband had a child while we were married?

    We split up june 2010. We have a son he was a little over one when we split. The divorce finalized last year(It dragged). I'm just finding out (a few hours ago) on my own he had a child born 2011. He works for his dad, dad owns the company. So when child support was determined he said he barely made any money. I know they are putting less on... show more
    We split up june 2010. We have a son he was a little over one when we split. The divorce finalized last year(It dragged). I'm just finding out (a few hours ago) on my own he had a child born 2011. He works for his dad, dad owns the company. So when child support was determined he said he barely made any money. I know they are putting less on paper then what he really makes. I've seen how much money he made before we split. Do you think I should appeal my child support due to his constant lying? Would the judge seek more money due to his credibility and from his "boss"? He says he can only afford $275 That includes back child support.
    10 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 4 years ago
  • My ex says I betrayed him and I feel really bad and I want him bad , how should I go about talking to him?

    So my ex and I had been dating for about a year and 8 months . We a re both 20 years old . We did have times where we broke up (extended arguments) but we would always come back to each other usually no more than 2 days later . I have this friend that I met working at my old job before I met my ex his name is mark and he is bisexual but now planning... show more
    So my ex and I had been dating for about a year and 8 months . We a re both 20 years old . We did have times where we broke up (extended arguments) but we would always come back to each other usually no more than 2 days later . I have this friend that I met working at my old job before I met my ex his name is mark and he is bisexual but now planning to marry a girl. At the beginning of my ex and I's relationship mark texted me things like "if u didnt have a bf I would eat you out "and " send me nudes" but he would always say it jokingly. I always told my bf at the time (ex) when he would text me things like that . My ex wanted me to cut him off so I agreed on many occasions however he kept coming zback In my life because I would call him and vent when ever my ex and I would have an argument. Yesterday mark came over to my house sort of unannounced because he wanted to hangout before he went to work , I sat on the porch and talked to him for a few mins tgen he left. He ended up posting "selfies" we took and my bf (ex) came over to my house extremely angry and saying that I ruined his trust in human beings and he will never trust anybody again because hes been ****** over his whole life and im no different from the rest.i really want him back but he seemed like he was really done with me and like he just has no fight left in him ..hes the sweetest guy and he does everythi g for me .. I really miss him and feel terrible . How can I get him to talk to me? Will he even miss me?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 4 years ago
  • Married people pls answer:Did you feel this way when you met your husband or wife?

    There's been past guys that I could just 'sense' it not working out but I feel like this ones different. I've waited a few yrs to finally be with him and finally got my wish. Now that we're seeing each other,I can't imagine my life without him. Is this how you felt when u met the one ?
    There's been past guys that I could just 'sense' it not working out but I feel like this ones different. I've waited a few yrs to finally be with him and finally got my wish. Now that we're seeing each other,I can't imagine my life without him. Is this how you felt when u met the one ?
    6 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 5 years ago