My husband, son and I were invited to his cousin's wedding. We don't see this cousin very often. We just met her fiancee for the first time last September or October, even though they were together for a lot longer. We don't see this cousin on an annual basis never mind now. She is getting married for her second time in another state than where we live. We don't have alot of money, and we have to pay for a hotel, gas, food, clothes, etc. It's an evening wedding so I would have to buy an appropriate dress. What is an appropriate monetary gift for them? Keep in mind, we did go to her engagement party and bought a small gift, and now she is registered for a full bridal registry as if she were a new bride just starting out. Any advice on a wedding gift to top this off?