This girl and I like each other. We talk on the phone every night and hang out almost every day. I want to date her but she has a boyfriend (I don't know him, he doesn't know about me). He mistreats her and he cheated on her in the past. She admits that she is unhappy and knows that she deserves better.
I took her out to a fancy restaurant and told her how I feel:
"You deserve someone who'll respect you, treat you right, make you happy, consider you feelings, appreciate you for all that you are, and cherish you...Someone like me."
She seemed overwhelmed, uncomfortable, stressed out, drained, and upset after I told her. She said she didn't have any response, couldn't give me an answer, and needed to think. I was understanding and told her that I don't need answers, I just wanted her to know how I feel.
What do you think about this?