I'm an attractive 29 yo woman. I'm confident and fun, and plenty of guys have like me. I'm realizing that not only have I been picky, but when I do like a guy, I can be mean and push them away. Now that I'm working on myself, hopefully this won't be an issue. Is this a huge turn off? I also live in a city where a LOT of ppl are playing around and not committing. Lots of girls can't get a bf here.