• I cant get over her. What should i do?

    So several days ago i talkes to my ex. Shes with someone and so am i. She called me after i broke up with my gf (who im now with), cause i told her i couldnt be with her cause i wasnt over my ex. She added me on snapchat and said she just wanted to talk to me. I told her not to unless shes single. I told her specifically "unless were going to... show more
    So several days ago i talkes to my ex. Shes with someone and so am i. She called me after i broke up with my gf (who im now with), cause i told her i couldnt be with her cause i wasnt over my ex. She added me on snapchat and said she just wanted to talk to me. I told her not to unless shes single. I told her specifically "unless were going to try again i dont want you in my life". She said that broke her heart. She kept talking about her bf and how she loves him but how he calls her names and treats her like ****. I thought she was hinting she wanted to get back together. Idk tbh, i assume shes just trying to **** with me. I unadded her a couple days ago we havent talked since. But shes still on my mind. Ik i need to get over her. Ik we cant be together, at least not now but i miss everything about her. I keep getting told to move on but what does that mean. Finding someone else? I already have and shes amazing but, shes still not her. I cant let go of anything, its just how im wired. I wish i could forget about her but i cant. Plzzz i just need advice on what to do. Plz help me
    Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • How to get over her?

    So several days ago i talkes to my ex. Shes with someone and so am i. She called me after i broke up with my gf (who im now with), cause i told her i couldnt be with her cause i wasnt over my ex. She added me on snapchat and said she just wanted to talk to me. I told her not to unless shes single. I told her specifically "unless were going to... show more
    So several days ago i talkes to my ex. Shes with someone and so am i. She called me after i broke up with my gf (who im now with), cause i told her i couldnt be with her cause i wasnt over my ex. She added me on snapchat and said she just wanted to talk to me. I told her not to unless shes single. I told her specifically "unless were going to try again i dont want you in my life". She said that broke her heart. She kept talking about her bf and how she loves him but how he calls her names and treats her like ****. I thought she was hinting she wanted to get back together. Idk tbh, i assume shes just trying to **** with me. I unadded her a couple days ago we havent talked since. But shes still on my mind. Ik i need to get over her. Ik we cant be together, at least not now but i miss everything about her. I keep getting told to move on but what does that mean. Finding someone else? I already have and shes amazing but, shes still not her. I cant let go of anything, its just how im wired. I wish i could forget about her but i cant. Plzzz i just need advice on what to do. Plz help me
    Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • How to get over her?

    So several days ago i talkes to my ex. Shes with someone and so am i. She called me after i broke up with my gf (who im now with), cause i told her i couldnt be with her cause i wasnt over my ex. She added me on snapchat and said she just wanted to talk to me. I told her not to unless shes single. I told her specifically "unless were going to... show more
    So several days ago i talkes to my ex. Shes with someone and so am i. She called me after i broke up with my gf (who im now with), cause i told her i couldnt be with her cause i wasnt over my ex. She added me on snapchat and said she just wanted to talk to me. I told her not to unless shes single. I told her specifically "unless were going to try again i dont want you in my life". She said that broke her heart. She kept talking about her bf and how she loves him but how he calls her names and treats her like ****. I thought she was hinting she wanted to get back together. Idk tbh, i assume shes just trying to **** with me. I unadded her a couple days ago we havent talked since. But shes still on my mind. Ik i need to get over her. Ik we cant be together, at least not now but i miss everything about her. I keep getting told to move on but what does that mean. Finding someone else? I already have and shes amazing but, shes still not her. I cant let go of anything, its just how im wired. I wish i could forget about her but i cant. Plzzz i just need advice on what to do. Plz help me
    Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • What should i do?

    So yesterday i talked to my ex. She and i girl i had just broken up with started talking. I dmed my ex telling her to stop talking to her cause i thought she might be telling her lies. I told the girl i was dating i didnt want a relationship but, that was bs. I just realized i wasnt over my ex and broke it off cause i needed time to get over her.... show more
    So yesterday i talked to my ex. She and i girl i had just broken up with started talking. I dmed my ex telling her to stop talking to her cause i thought she might be telling her lies. I told the girl i was dating i didnt want a relationship but, that was bs. I just realized i wasnt over my ex and broke it off cause i needed time to get over her. But im still not. Shes with someone rn and not to be vain or mean but she really didnt trade up. Ive never been so depressed in my life but no one can tell. I broke up with her cause she cheated. When i talked to her she said she was wrong and that shes changed and that it was nice talking to me. And b4 this, for a couple months she kept following me on insta and then facebook, snapchat, etc. I still dont know why, if she misses me or if shes trying to **** with my head. I want her back so bad but i cant go to her. I never show my feelings, i act like i dont have any. How can i make her come to me? How can i make want me back? Or does she already? Plzzz dont troll me. I need advice bad last night i got soooo close to cutting again, which is something i promised myself i would never do again.
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 week ago
  • How to make her want me back?

    More than 1/2 a year ago i broke up with my ex after she cheated. She is now with someone and i kinda am. I was dating a girl after we broke up and eventually (dont ask y) my ex and her started talking. I realized i wasnt over her and brome up with the girl but were still talking and in a "romantic" way. Ive seen pics of my exes current... show more
    More than 1/2 a year ago i broke up with my ex after she cheated. She is now with someone and i kinda am. I was dating a girl after we broke up and eventually (dont ask y) my ex and her started talking. I realized i wasnt over her and brome up with the girl but were still talking and in a "romantic" way. Ive seen pics of my exes current bf. Ik this sounds vain but on a good day im an 8 and hes about a 4 or 5. Not being vain just being honest. Ever since my ex and i broke up im been working out to deal with the depression and anger. Idk if i want to try again but i want to talk to her again. She sister follIdk me on insta yesterday and im pretty sure my ex is taunting me, cause she keeps requesting to follow me then unrequests. She lives 2 hrs away and i havent talked to her in 1/2 year but she has been talking to my most recent ex pretty frequently. Anways just plzz tell me, how can i make her want me back?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 weeks ago
  • Need advice bad, plzx help?

    6 months ago i broke up with me ex after she cheated on me and not for the first time. She is currently seeing someone else (and lets just say she didnt exactly trade up) and i was seeing someone to up until last night. My ex and the girl i was dating started talking. My ex said she was happy with her ner new bf and never wanted to talk to me again.... show more
    6 months ago i broke up with me ex after she cheated on me and not for the first time. She is currently seeing someone else (and lets just say she didnt exactly trade up) and i was seeing someone to up until last night. My ex and the girl i was dating started talking. My ex said she was happy with her ner new bf and never wanted to talk to me again. I realized i wasnt over her and broke up with the girl i was with. My ex tried 3 times about a week b4 i broke up with that girl to follow her. Then she requested to follow me on ig 2 times, but unrequested after. Then she tried adding me on fb and the night i broke up with my gf she added me on snapchat, then unadded me. I miss my ex alot tbh, i hate her with a ******* passion but still idk y but i want to try again. My question is, do you think she does? Ik we probably wont get back togetger but im just looking for closure by trying to figure out how she feels. Do you think shes happy with this new guy or is she randomly adding and unadding and following and unfollowing me a sign she has mixed feelings about who she with and who she was with?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 weeks ago
  • Is she happy or does she want to try again?

    I broke up with my ex after she cheated on me and not for the first time. Shes currently seeing someone else and i was up until last night. Mystarted trying to follow my very recent ex on insta about a couple weeks ago. She also tried following me a couple times but always unrequested after. Yesterday my ex and the girl who i was dating started... show more
    I broke up with my ex after she cheated on me and not for the first time. Shes currently seeing someone else and i was up until last night. Mystarted trying to follow my very recent ex on insta about a couple weeks ago. She also tried following me a couple times but always unrequested after. Yesterday my ex and the girl who i was dating started talking. My ex said she never wanted to talk to me again and was happy with her new bf. Ive also saw her new bf, lets just sau she didnt trade up. Anyways after my gf told me that it ****** with my head all day. I realized i wasnt over her and thought it was the best thing to do was break it off with the girl i was with since it wasnt fair to her. I broke up with her last night but this morning i woke up to see my ex had added me on snapchat, then unadded me. Shes dont that once with snapchat, twice with insta, & once on fb. Im just wondering now whys she doing this and does it mean shes not over me like im not over her?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 weeks ago
  • Did she care?

    So 6 months ago i broke up with my ex after she cheates on me and not for the first time. She was my first real gf and i believes everything she told me. "I love u", "ur the only one i want", etc. It all seemed truely genuine to me. After i broke up with her i blocked her on MOSTLY everything. I assumed she didnt care and never... show more
    So 6 months ago i broke up with my ex after she cheates on me and not for the first time. She was my first real gf and i believes everything she told me. "I love u", "ur the only one i want", etc. It all seemed truely genuine to me. After i broke up with her i blocked her on MOSTLY everything. I assumed she didnt care and never did and tbh didnt give a **** about me. Im currently dating someone else and so is she. But yesterday she reuquested to follow my gf on ig 3 times and requested to follow me 2 times within the last week but unrequested both b4 i saw them. Then yesterday i saw she tried to add me on fb which tbh idk how long ago cause i never use it. I also looked at her profile and saw her new bf, lets just say she didnt trade up. So my question is why is she doing this **** and what does it mean? Does it mean i was wrong and she actually did care about me and is regretting what she did?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 3 weeks ago
  • Was it all lies?

    Ok so 6 months ago i broke up with my gf after she had cheated on me and not for the first time. Shes now with someone and so am i, actually im with someone and wanting to break it off to see someone else. But my ex was my first real gf. Yeah make fun of me if u want but i actually thought i loved this skank lol. The **** she told me sounded... show more
    Ok so 6 months ago i broke up with my gf after she had cheated on me and not for the first time. Shes now with someone and so am i, actually im with someone and wanting to break it off to see someone else. But my ex was my first real gf. Yeah make fun of me if u want but i actually thought i loved this skank lol. The **** she told me sounded convincing and i actually believed her. Last time we spoke was weird. She called me, i asked what she wanted, total silence, then i hung up. Then she called me again crying about some drama with her new bae i got sooo pissed her and told her to do me a favor and go slit her wrists. She said she didnt mean to call me but i dont see how she could of accidently called me twice in a row like that. Especially with how weird she was being. Then i unblocked her on ig to tell her i want my sweatshirt back. She ignored me but is still stalking my ig cause i got a notification that she requested to follow me but then she backed out of it (obvisouly) lol. So my question so i can get some closure is, did she play me or did she actually have feelings for me? Does her cheating mean she never cared? And if so why is she still looking at my insta? And more importantly how can i grt rid pf the anger i have towards her? Tbh i just want to talk to her u know. Let her know im just fine without her and make her regret what she did to me. I want some form closure like that. How can i get it?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 weeks ago
  • What are the chances i got her pregnant?

    So last night i took a girls virginity. I was going to use a condom but my friend stole my last one. I edged myself alot of the time cause i was going hard but trying my best not to nut. I think i only came once when i pulled out and ik i didnt have any *** come out b4 i slipped it out and it was a fairly small load. I wasnt worried about it until... show more
    So last night i took a girls virginity. I was going to use a condom but my friend stole my last one. I edged myself alot of the time cause i was going hard but trying my best not to nut. I think i only came once when i pulled out and ik i didnt have any *** come out b4 i slipped it out and it was a fairly small load. I wasnt worried about it until she started to. Now im freaking out. Keep in mind i just started dating her and she had her last period around the time we started dating. We started dating on the 3rd and todays the 22nd. What are the chances shes pregnant?
    1 answer · Pregnancy · 1 month ago
  • How to get over it?

    Ok so i was cheated on awhile ago by my first serious gf. It was probably the worst **** ive gone through and am still dealing with and thats saying alot if u know me and my past. Shes with someone new now and so am i, but i dont think im over it. Im defintely over her but im not over what she did to me. Im the kind of person who ig holds grudges... show more
    Ok so i was cheated on awhile ago by my first serious gf. It was probably the worst **** ive gone through and am still dealing with and thats saying alot if u know me and my past. Shes with someone new now and so am i, but i dont think im over it. Im defintely over her but im not over what she did to me. Im the kind of person who ig holds grudges and hates with a ******* passion. If i never see justice be done when **** up **** happens i cant let it go, i dwell on it and cant stop thinking about it. Thats why i havent been able to get over what thay ***** did to me. It just makes me sooo mad and i feel like i need closure b4 i take ny anger out on someone who dosent deserve it. I just want to call her and tell her how much of a worthless piece of **** she is. I want to take the pain she did to me and put it on her. I want that ***** to feel miserable and worthless like she ******* is. I feel like her pain would help me fimd closure. This **** keeps me up at night and ive started skipping school cause im afraid if i go eventually ill have a breakdown, thats when i really think about it is at school. And everyday i think about it more and i keep getting angrier. How can i find closure? How can i forget what she did to me? How the **** can i get over this and finally stop being angry all the time?
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 month ago
  • How can i stop thinking about it and being so mad?

    Ok so i guess im what u would call a bitter person. Im only 16 but all the shitty stuff that happened to me in my life i never got closure for. Its mostly at school that i think all of it. My mind goes blank and its the first think of and all of the sudden i can feel myself trembling and shaking. Like any other pissed off ****** up teen i smoke weed... show more
    Ok so i guess im what u would call a bitter person. Im only 16 but all the shitty stuff that happened to me in my life i never got closure for. Its mostly at school that i think all of it. My mind goes blank and its the first think of and all of the sudden i can feel myself trembling and shaking. Like any other pissed off ****** up teen i smoke weed and drink to forget about all that shity stuff. Yeah it does help but like everyone says its only a temporarily solution. I feel like ive grown up so much in the last year and become so much wiser than i was but i still cant figute out how to get rid of the bitterness from all the **** i never got closure for. How do i stop thinking about all that **** and finally be happy for a change?
    2 answers · Psychology · 1 month ago
  • Is she just ******* with me?

    So i broke up with my ex about three months ago after i found out she cheated. I blocked her on every thing besides my phone because i cant. I looked at her insta about 2 weeks ago and saw taken on her bio. The day before this she called me just wanting to talk (knowing i wouldnt take her back). She is in a mental institution rn so she only gets out... show more
    So i broke up with my ex about three months ago after i found out she cheated. I blocked her on every thing besides my phone because i cant. I looked at her insta about 2 weeks ago and saw taken on her bio. The day before this she called me just wanting to talk (knowing i wouldnt take her back). She is in a mental institution rn so she only gets out every friday to sunday. She is really ****** up in the head. You wouldnt know it by looking at her or her familly until you actually get to know them. She called me last weekend just letting me no when she would be out for good and saying "yeah i moved on" after letting her know that i knew about her new bf. She messaged me again today saying merry Christmas. Then saying sorry wrong person with a 😔 kind of emoji. Only thing i dont understand is who tf would date her knowing she is currently institutionalized? Does she even have a new bae? Did she send that accidently or is she just ******* with me? And why tf cant i stop thinling about that worthless cumdumpster?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • What is wrong with her?

    So i broke up with me ex three months ago after i found out that she had cheated (and not for the first time). I blocked her on everything besides my phone because i cant on the phone that i have. I always subconsciously knew she was alittle ****** up. She was adopted cause her mom was a drug addict and her adopted father ig sexually assulated or... show more
    So i broke up with me ex three months ago after i found out that she had cheated (and not for the first time). I blocked her on everything besides my phone because i cant on the phone that i have. I always subconsciously knew she was alittle ****** up. She was adopted cause her mom was a drug addict and her adopted father ig sexually assulated or molested her when she was 3 or 4. However she gets soo attached and clingy. She has been calling me every weekend. She is in an in patient program and only gets out every friday till sunday. She called me last sunday like every week saying the same ****. Like how she misses and loves me and is soo mad at herself for what she did. Then this week i found out from a friend that she is dating someone else after they saw taken on her insta bio. Since i blocked her on that idk how long she has been seeing this guy. I really did like this girl and im just trying to figure out what is wrong with her. Is she just soo ****** up that shes always confused about her feelings/emotions or is she just a manipulative skank?
    5 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • How do i forget about her?

    Ok i found out a couple months ago that my gf was cheating on me. This wasnt the first time so i obviously immediately broke up with her. I cant block #s on my phone so shes alwalys either texting or calling me crying begging to take her back. Even though i know i never will part of me wants her back and misses her. Ive been drinking constantly... show more
    Ok i found out a couple months ago that my gf was cheating on me. This wasnt the first time so i obviously immediately broke up with her. I cant block #s on my phone so shes alwalys either texting or calling me crying begging to take her back. Even though i know i never will part of me wants her back and misses her. Ive been drinking constantly getting drunk every night before i go to bed (im only 16). How do i forget about her and make it clear to her that ill never take her back
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 3 months ago
  • How do i forget about her?

    2 months ago i found out my gf was cheating on me. I immediately broke up with her and told her i never want to see or hear from her again. Unfortunately i cant block numbers on my phone so she still continues to call and text me saying how sry she is and how she shell never do it again. Which i know is all bullshit since this isnt the first time.... show more
    2 months ago i found out my gf was cheating on me. I immediately broke up with her and told her i never want to see or hear from her again. Unfortunately i cant block numbers on my phone so she still continues to call and text me saying how sry she is and how she shell never do it again. Which i know is all bullshit since this isnt the first time. And even though i hate her... I still miss her. How do i forget about her? And how do i make it clear to her that ill never take her back?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 months ago