• What will happen to the Scottish soldiers in the British Army if Scotland becomes independent?

    I'm a normal 19 year old from Scotland. Personally I've never given a thought to this independent stuff as I have bigger things in my life to worry about ect ect. But the other day my friend left home to go back down to England where he was stationed and this got me thinking about what will happen to the likes of my friend. Like I said I... show more
    I'm a normal 19 year old from Scotland. Personally I've never given a thought to this independent stuff as I have bigger things in my life to worry about ect ect. But the other day my friend left home to go back down to England where he was stationed and this got me thinking about what will happen to the likes of my friend. Like I said I don't understand this whole Scottish Independent stuff and believe me I never will, If I was to vote I would have to say NO for the simple fact I find we are fine as a nation and also the fact the thought of going independent scares the crap out me. Just my opinion. But please do share your opinion on Scottish independence if you would like to.
    9 answers · Military · 3 years ago
  • Is the UK going to war with Russia?

    7 answers · Military · 4 years ago
  • How long should I avoid work outs and going to the gym after facial surgery?

    I'm going in for sinus surgery (No idea what is going on as my mum gets all the information as I just get confused haha) I have been suffering with sinusitis on off for years and I'm finally getting surgery but the problem is I am a work out freak. I cannot go a day without doing exercise but the surgeon has told me as of right now to avoid... show more
    I'm going in for sinus surgery (No idea what is going on as my mum gets all the information as I just get confused haha) I have been suffering with sinusitis on off for years and I'm finally getting surgery but the problem is I am a work out freak. I cannot go a day without doing exercise but the surgeon has told me as of right now to avoid doing exercise and after the surgery but hasn't told me for how long. Would a week break do or will it be awhile before i'm back in the gym? I've been doing yoga lately but I literally hate it. I'm more upbeat with zumba haah Sorry for my grammar- Antibiotics and typing do not work well haha.
    2 answers · Diet & Fitness · 4 years ago
  • Meant to be paid on the Monday but always get paid on the Saturday instead....Anyone else like this?

    I am with RBS and when i'm due in money I always seem to get it through on the Saturday instead. Best way to put this is my money is meant to be due in on the 7th of April (Monday) But it will 99.9% come in on the 5th of April (Saturday)....Anyone else like this?
    I am with RBS and when i'm due in money I always seem to get it through on the Saturday instead. Best way to put this is my money is meant to be due in on the 7th of April (Monday) But it will 99.9% come in on the 5th of April (Saturday)....Anyone else like this?
    2 answers · United Kingdom · 4 years ago
  • Royal Bank of Scotland customers does this happen to you?

    When I'm suppose to be paid on the Monday I always get paid on the Saturday? So what I mean by this is I am meant to be getting paid on Monday the 7th but will get paid on the Saturday the 5th...Does this happen to anyone else?
    When I'm suppose to be paid on the Monday I always get paid on the Saturday? So what I mean by this is I am meant to be getting paid on Monday the 7th but will get paid on the Saturday the 5th...Does this happen to anyone else?
    1 answer · Corporations · 4 years ago
  • Flying to Bulgaria in June. Booked with Thomas Cook but flying with Thompson? How does that work?

    Just wondering as I am quite confused how we booked with Thomas Cook but we are flying with Thompson. Do both belong in the same company? :S
    Just wondering as I am quite confused how we booked with Thomas Cook but we are flying with Thompson. Do both belong in the same company? :S
    1 answer · Air Travel · 4 years ago
  • House was broken into and caught them now can't sleep and can't focus correctly?

    Both my front and back door was locked and I had made sure they were as usual. Anyway me and my dog (Jack Russell) were in the living room and my mum was asleep up the stairs when the dog heard something coming from the back door and shot up and ran to the kitchen and growled, barked and basically became defensive so I ran through and saw a man in... show more
    Both my front and back door was locked and I had made sure they were as usual. Anyway me and my dog (Jack Russell) were in the living room and my mum was asleep up the stairs when the dog heard something coming from the back door and shot up and ran to the kitchen and growled, barked and basically became defensive so I ran through and saw a man in my kitchen being attacked by my dog, As soon as a I ran through he spotted me and ran out the door and the dog chased him all the way down the garden. I literally couldn't move or scream I was in that much fear. Thankfully because she heard the dog barking my mum ran down and caught me on the floor shaking (I honestly was and still am terrified) I told her what had happened and how he got away. We phoned the police and they couldn't do anything which made me feel worse. I found out after it happened there has been 4 houses broken into near mine this week alone and believe this was the same man. The police took a description from me of him and from the sounds of it, it sounds just like the same guy. Anyway I haven't slept at all, I refuse to be left in the house myself and I literally toss and turn in bed and freak out at any noises thinking someone is in my house. Has anyone else had to deal with this and how did you get over this? I'm sorry my grammar is shocking i'm literally exhausted and not focusing correctly. Sorry he somehow managed to open my back door without breaking it which has freaked me out even more
    2 answers · Law & Ethics · 4 years ago
  • Caught someone trying to break into my house now can't sleep and quite scared. Help please?

    Both my front and back door was locked and I had made sure they were as usual. Anyway me and my dog (Jack Russell) were in the living room and my mum was asleep up the stairs when the dog heard something coming from the back door and shot up and ran to the kitchen and growled, barked and basically became defensive so I ran through and saw a man in... show more
    Both my front and back door was locked and I had made sure they were as usual. Anyway me and my dog (Jack Russell) were in the living room and my mum was asleep up the stairs when the dog heard something coming from the back door and shot up and ran to the kitchen and growled, barked and basically became defensive so I ran through and saw a man in my kitchen being attacked by my dog, As soon as a I ran through he spotted me and ran out the door and the dog chased him all the way down the garden. I literally couldn't move or scream I was in that much fear. Thankfully because she heard the dog barking my mum ran down and caught me on the floor shaking (I honestly was and still am terrified) I told her what had happened and how he got away. We phoned the police and they couldn't do anything which made me feel worse. I found out after it happened there has been 4 houses broken into near mine this week alone and believe this was the same man. The police took a description from me of him and from the sounds of it, it sounds just like the same guy. Anyway I haven't slept at all, I refuse to be left in the house myself and I literally toss and turn in bed and freak out at any noises thinking someone is in my house. Has anyone else had to deal with this and how did you get over this? I'm sorry my grammar is shocking i'm literally exhausted and not focusing correctly.
    1 answer · Mental Health · 4 years ago
  • How to overcome the fear of flying?

    Basically I go on holiday every year with my family and always have to be literally dragged onto the plane..I'm being deadly serious my dad always had to literally pick me up to get on the plane once on I would have a complete crying fit and would scream and pretty much freak other passengers out if I was to sit myself obv not doing it on... show more
    Basically I go on holiday every year with my family and always have to be literally dragged onto the plane..I'm being deadly serious my dad always had to literally pick me up to get on the plane once on I would have a complete crying fit and would scream and pretty much freak other passengers out if I was to sit myself obv not doing it on purpose it was like a panic attack which was out of my control....if my parents were next to me I would sit and cry cuddling into them so no one could hear me but would still freak out...Anyway I am going on holiday without my parents..Just me and a few friends. I haven't told them as i'm to embarrassed as they all love flying and I have tried everything in the book from medication to flying fear classes. I also tried meditation and other aspects of that and I still am dreading it. Just wondering if anyone out there has concurred their flying fear and how they done it? I don't go till June 2014 but already am waking up with cold sweat screaming. I literally dream the plane is crashing and dying. My parents and I think it is from a flight when I was younger. I went with balkin airlines, (I go with Thomas Cook now with every holiday) anyway the balkin plane was horrible it was old and half way through the flight one of the engines had shut down (Dunno how and don't wanna know, My mum refuses to tell me for obv reasons) ever since then I literally freak out... Please anyone out there who has beaten the fear please tell me how you done it and if it works well..Thanks :) x
    5 answers · Psychology · 4 years ago
  • Severely afraid of flying...Anyone defeated their fear?

    Basically I go on holiday every year with my family and always have to be literally dragged onto the plane..I'm being deadly serious my dad always had to literally pick me up to get on the plane once on I would have a complete crying fit and would scream and pretty much freak other passengers out if I was to sit myself obv not doing it on... show more
    Basically I go on holiday every year with my family and always have to be literally dragged onto the plane..I'm being deadly serious my dad always had to literally pick me up to get on the plane once on I would have a complete crying fit and would scream and pretty much freak other passengers out if I was to sit myself obv not doing it on purpose it was like a panic attack which was out of my control....if my parents were next to me I would sit and cry cuddling into them so no one could hear me but would still freak out...Anyway I am going on holiday without my parents..Just me and a few friends. I haven't told them as i'm to embarrassed as they all love flying and I have tried everything in the book from medication to flying fear classes. I also tried meditation and other aspects of that and I still am dreading it. Just wondering if anyone out there has concurred their flying fear and how they done it? I don't go till June 2014 but already am waking up with cold sweat screaming. I literally dream the plane is crashing and dying. My parents and I think it is from a flight when I was younger. I went with balkin airlines, (I go with Thomas Cook now with every holiday) anyway the balkin plane was horrible it was old and half way through the flight one of the engines had shut down (Dunno how and don't wanna know, My mum refuses to tell me for obv reasons) ever since then I literally freak out... Please anyone out there who has beaten the fear please tell me how you done it and if it works well..Thanks :) x
    4 answers · Air Travel · 4 years ago
  • Should I tell my ex I cheated before we broke up?

    Okay basically my ex boyfriend cheated on me twice the last few months he treated me like crap. I got no affectation at all off him unless he was horny and that was only for like 10 minutes and he was always moody with me, moaning at me for nothing and I put up with it. Anyway I went to a party two weeks before me and my boyfriend broke up and got... show more
    Okay basically my ex boyfriend cheated on me twice the last few months he treated me like crap. I got no affectation at all off him unless he was horny and that was only for like 10 minutes and he was always moody with me, moaning at me for nothing and I put up with it. Anyway I went to a party two weeks before me and my boyfriend broke up and got talking to a friend while really drunk anew started talking about me and my ex and how he was bringing me down and stuff and one thing led to another and we kissed. I stopped it as soon as I realised what I was doing I didn't feel guilty till the week after. Me and the ex where out and he was being so sweet and so romantic I felt so guilty but next day went back to being a prick. Anyway we broke up two weeks ago after a 2 year relationship and I dunno wheither to tell him or not :/ I would never cheat on a boyfriend I feel extremely guilty but he was making me feel horrible and unloved I stopped it as soon it begun. Should I tell him or should I just keep my mouth shut? It's eating away at me :/'
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 years ago
  • Received a threatening voicemail? Help me please :/?

    Okay well I got a voicemail from a blocked number basically saying I was gonna get my throat slit and bleed to death. I was home alone and he knew what I was wearing so I locked all the doors and went up the stairs to my bed and have been awake since. What do I do? I'm so scared in case he's being serious.
    Okay well I got a voicemail from a blocked number basically saying I was gonna get my throat slit and bleed to death. I was home alone and he knew what I was wearing so I locked all the doors and went up the stairs to my bed and have been awake since. What do I do? I'm so scared in case he's being serious.
    5 answers · Law Enforcement & Police · 4 years ago
  • Heartbroken and pretty much hit an all time low help?

    Okay basically I was with this guy for nearly three years and was extremely happy, I was literally the happiest girl in the world and then he cheated on me with another girl and it destroyed me but after a week took him back everything was going not to bad until a few weeks ago and we started arguing non stop and he decided to break up with me... show more
    Okay basically I was with this guy for nearly three years and was extremely happy, I was literally the happiest girl in the world and then he cheated on me with another girl and it destroyed me but after a week took him back everything was going not to bad until a few weeks ago and we started arguing non stop and he decided to break up with me through text three years of a relationship and he breaks up with me through text...that actually destroyed me completely. So anyway the night after I went out for a few drinks and got told he had started seeing my ex best friend and it broke my heart he told me this wasn't true and told me not to believe what others say...later on that week I heard that the relationship wasn't true but he had sex with her that destroyed me aswell and he said that wasn't true but if i'm quite honest I don't know what to believe...The thing is I lost my virginity to this man and love him deary after everything we've been through and finding this very hard to deal with all i've done is cry and have been pretty much have been depressed for the last two weeks....He blocked me on facebook and i've deleted him off my phone but my college is two seconds away from his house and everytime I go into college i'm reminded of him (Met him in college) I just need advice as I ain't giving up college just because of a man. Please help me out :( he's all I think about while I pretty much am nothing to him now...to be honest he's over me already. urgh men! lol!
    5 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 years ago
  • BLACK OPS 2 FANS WHO HAVE SAW THW MOB OF THE DEAD TRAILER PLEASE READ!?

    Sorry for the caps, just thought it would help lol. Anyway if any of you have saw the new mob of the dead trailer I have two questions: 1) Would you say it's worth buying in your view? And 2) What is the song in the trailer? It's goes like. Where are we going from here, where do we go? It sounds like evanenscence But I'm not to... show more
    Sorry for the caps, just thought it would help lol. Anyway if any of you have saw the new mob of the dead trailer I have two questions: 1) Would you say it's worth buying in your view? And 2) What is the song in the trailer? It's goes like. Where are we going from here, where do we go? It sounds like evanenscence But I'm not to sure but help would be much grateful. Also ps3 name Stephie_boo :)
    5 answers · Video & Online Games · 5 years ago
  • How do I over come paranoia in a relationship?

    Before I get into my question you should all probably know this. My father was a cheat, God knows how many times he got with behind my mothers back. Also my ex, At first he was amazing, Treated me like a queen, would make me smile without even speaking. I lost my virginty to him and I must admit he wasn't exactly "gently" which left me... show more
    Before I get into my question you should all probably know this. My father was a cheat, God knows how many times he got with behind my mothers back. Also my ex, At first he was amazing, Treated me like a queen, would make me smile without even speaking. I lost my virginty to him and I must admit he wasn't exactly "gently" which left me scared of sex. He got fed up of the whole no sex deal that he ended up leaving me for another girl, Once he got what he wanted he came running back. I was stupid to take him back I know. A few months down the line I finally got the guts to tell him it was over. I knew what he was doing behind my back and wasn't standing up to him, Although it all finally came out in an angry spill. Right now this is the question and little detail. The man I'm with right now is amazing. He's perfect in my eyes, Also is against cheating. He knows about my past relationships. Although everything is amazing right now I still have this constant feeling he's going to leave me for another female or even go behind my back. All I want is to be happy 100%. I honestly love this guy. He is the first man I've ever said I love you to. If anyone has any tips or even idea's please do tell me. thanks for reading and I'm sorry about my spelling, It's pretty late here and i'm realllyyyyyyy tired lol :)
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 6 years ago
  • Bad trust issues :(? Please help!?

    Okay Basically my Father was a cheater. He left my mum for another women (he was already with her for 5 months) and I already knew my dad had cheated on my mum before. Seeing this happen to my mum scared me. the thought of being cheated on actually made me cry. I started seeing this guy and 8 months down the line he left me for another girl (I... show more
    Okay Basically my Father was a cheater. He left my mum for another women (he was already with her for 5 months) and I already knew my dad had cheated on my mum before. Seeing this happen to my mum scared me. the thought of being cheated on actually made me cry. I started seeing this guy and 8 months down the line he left me for another girl (I wouldn't have sex with him and she would) Once he got what he wanted he came running back. I was stupid to take him back but I loved him :( anyway we finished our relationship and a few months later I got with another guy. He was honestly an amazing guy. He knew how to treat me right. I felt like a princess. The only problem was I hardly saw him and I felt paranoid and ended up depressed and wouldn't be able to handle it and would break up with him :( But he would calm me down and tell me It was fine and that he would never cheat on me and that he loved me. We finally broke up for good a couple of months ago and now I've started talking to this old friend of mine. He was a good friend a few years back and we've been flirting and texting 24/7 he knows all about my trust issues, i've told him i'll start seeing him once I have overcame my paranoia . I just want to know how to feel normal in a relationship when it comes to trust again :( I feel like i've been scarred for life because of my ex and my dad. Any ideas? :/
    3 answers · Other - Family & Relationships · 6 years ago
  • Dreading my birthday...Like every other birthday I have :/ please read?

    Okay well I've never really got the whole exciting feeling for birthdays. I've always seen it as a dreadful day to be honest. It's not as if I don't do anything for my birthday. I go out with mates and I have a laugh and I spend some time with the family. Any ideas how to make me dread it alittle less? :/// I turn 17 next month and... show more
    Okay well I've never really got the whole exciting feeling for birthdays. I've always seen it as a dreadful day to be honest. It's not as if I don't do anything for my birthday. I go out with mates and I have a laugh and I spend some time with the family. Any ideas how to make me dread it alittle less? :/// I turn 17 next month and to be honest I'd rather just stay 16
    2 answers · Other - Holidays · 6 years ago
  • Please help me :( I don't think I can handle crying anymore!?

    I've always been very easy to hurt. One of my best mates (we not really now) and her father don't really get along. She thinks he prefers me because we have the same interests, anyway she's told me to stop talking to him when I'm at her house which I found rude, This is the man who helped me when my parents split up! He's also... show more
    I've always been very easy to hurt. One of my best mates (we not really now) and her father don't really get along. She thinks he prefers me because we have the same interests, anyway she's told me to stop talking to him when I'm at her house which I found rude, This is the man who helped me when my parents split up! He's also gay so we can talk about boys and that. he calls me his adopted daughter, Before any of you say something like maybe she feels left out, she isn't believe me, he treats her princess, he never shuts up about her! anyway I got the text saying to stop talking to her dad or we aren't friends anymore and then she text me saying my father speaks about everyone behind everyone back, including you. she said that if she's losing weight then her friend (me) has to lose weight is well as she is over weight (i'm a size 14) This has extremely hurt my feelings as I have always have problems with my weight, I stopped eating 2 years ago when my parents split up. I started eating again properly, But it has left some horrible scars on my emotional side. I started dating this boy who said he loved my figure but I had things in my head saying he was lying and thought I was fat so I won't eat in front of him, it's the same with my last ex who I broke up with 2 months ago, he got alittle worried as to why I wouldn't eat all I would do was drink red bull (I never told him) anyway once I became single I started eating again. And now hearing this from my friend has made me go downhill again..I haven't ate, I've had to delete my ex boyfriends from facebook because my display picture is me with a mini dress on and I keep thinking there looking at it going "she looks massive". Please help :( Sorry my writing is terrible my hands keep shaking and my eyes are kinda blurry from tears
    2 answers · Psychology · 6 years ago
  • Is this a phobia or am I just insane? :/?

    Well before I start I should say I have always been scared of the sound of jets. I believe they are military jets. Anyway whenever I heard them when I was younger I use to think it was aliens coming to get me and would run to my room and cry under my bed until my mum or dad came up and calmed me down. I'm 17 now and I know by now of course that... show more
    Well before I start I should say I have always been scared of the sound of jets. I believe they are military jets. Anyway whenever I heard them when I was younger I use to think it was aliens coming to get me and would run to my room and cry under my bed until my mum or dad came up and calmed me down. I'm 17 now and I know by now of course that it isn't aliens or anything but I still freak out when I hear them, My heart beats really fast, I sweat and panic and sometimes cry :/ is this classified as a phobia or am I just insane? :/
    4 answers · Psychology · 6 years ago
  • Horny all the time! Broke up with the ex 3 months ago?

    Okay well I'm 17, I broke up with my ex about 3 months ago and ever since then i've been as horny as hell. It's driving me mad...I've gone through the horny stage before when I was 15 (puberty). I must still be going through it still haha but would the break up have anything to do with it....I know this is a stupid question but... show more
    Okay well I'm 17, I broke up with my ex about 3 months ago and ever since then i've been as horny as hell. It's driving me mad...I've gone through the horny stage before when I was 15 (puberty). I must still be going through it still haha but would the break up have anything to do with it....I know this is a stupid question but I'm being 110% serious :/ help
    8 answers · Singles & Dating · 6 years ago