• Friend expects me to meet up all the time now his other friend has left. Friendship over now I've said no?

    Me and my friend work together. I used to go round his house every night after work and just chill for a few hours. About 6 weeks ago, his friend got thrown out by his gf and he moved in with my friend. Since then, he hasn't asked me round and if I've asked him to hang out or come round mine, he said he... show more
    Me and my friend work together. I used to go round his house every night after work and just chill for a few hours. About 6 weeks ago, his friend got thrown out by his gf and he moved in with my friend. Since then, he hasn't asked me round and if I've asked him to hang out or come round mine, he said he couldn't while his friend was there. Our friendship has been neglected. His friend has now moved out and he keeps expecting me to go round his again after work, but I've got out the habit and just enjoy coming home and relaxing in my own place. I've told him this but he seems to be angry about it.
    6 answers · 3 hours ago
  • What does it mean when my bf says yes ma'am?

    Best answer: There are few words that trigger such a vehement reaction among midlifers than “ma’am.” We’re not sure why, except that it makes us feel old — or, at the very least, older than the person calling us “ma’am.” Much has been written about the use of “ma’am” — kids in the south are raised using the word as a term of... show more
    Best answer: There are few words that trigger such a vehement reaction among midlifers than “ma’am.” We’re not sure why, except that it makes us feel old — or, at the very least, older than the person calling us “ma’am.” Much has been written about the use of “ma’am” — kids in the south are raised using the word as a term of respect — but still the word sometimes makes us wince. Visit https://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/09/10/being-called-maam_n_3881094.html
    We can't bash men for doing it, but maybe we can educate them so that they might remember to use Miss. I'm a woman ... ;o)
    19 answers · 4 days ago
  • Manipulative "friend"? What should I do?

    So I have this "friend". And basically he lies a lot. This started when we were acquaintances. I thought it was a bit weird then when he started to tell me about his depression, anxiety and mental breakdowns. I brushed it away because I thought maybe he's just an open person. But whenever we talk... show more
    So I have this "friend". And basically he lies a lot. This started when we were acquaintances. I thought it was a bit weird then when he started to tell me about his depression, anxiety and mental breakdowns. I brushed it away because I thought maybe he's just an open person. But whenever we talk he'd always steer the conversation to talking about how he stuggles. I can't ever recall a time where we'd talk without him bringing up the topic of his struggles. And the more time progressed, the more clingy he became. When he told me about his bisexuality and explained how he was afraid of people finding out about it because he didn't want people to judge him. He made me promise I won't tell anyone and said that I was the only person he's told about it & wants to keep it that way. Later I found out he told the exact same lines to 5 others. Now, recently he's been telling lies around about people I know of who I don't think would ever do the things he's said they would. There were a few other unusual things he has done but they weren't that big. The thing is he is clingy to a point it feels uncomfortable. If I don't give him attention, he'll be pissed off. If I confront him about his behaviour, he'll spread things about me and ruin my relationship with other people because it's something that he would do from what I've observed. I've tried ignoring him before, but that only backfired. What should I do?
    6 answers · 4 hours ago
  • Is it too revealing?

    Is it too revealing?

    Best answer: No, not too revealing. 7, 7.5.
    Best answer: No, not too revealing. 7, 7.5.
    9 answers · 2 days ago
  • How can I act more normal?

    I live with my older sister. I like her a lot. But she says I need to act differently than I do. She has so many parties at her place. She wants me to not go to my room during them but I dont like loud noise and I dont know the people. She also doesnt like that I dont have as many friends. I have 2 or 3 friends. I... show more
    I live with my older sister. I like her a lot. But she says I need to act differently than I do. She has so many parties at her place. She wants me to not go to my room during them but I dont like loud noise and I dont know the people. She also doesnt like that I dont have as many friends. I have 2 or 3 friends. I am not a social person. She wants me to stop chewing my nails as well. She says that I need to talk more as well. She also wants me to not act so anxious in public. I want to impress her but she is so judgey
    7 answers · 1 day ago
  • Is this girl interested in me?

    So there's this girl I see around in this shop, like when I got a coffee she notices I had no lid and she said do you want a lid. But when I go she says thanks. But I don't know what she's like with other people there, it's hard to know if she notices me when I'm there or doesn't remember... show more
    So there's this girl I see around in this shop, like when I got a coffee she notices I had no lid and she said do you want a lid. But when I go she says thanks. But I don't know what she's like with other people there, it's hard to know if she notices me when I'm there or doesn't remember me, but probably she's just being be nice so maybe it's nothing out the ordinary so I don't know.
    6 answers · 10 hours ago
  • Will I regret not making friends in college after I graduate?

    I haven't made any friends in college. I've lived on campus and worked on campus for 3 years. I still don't know anyone and I have zero friends. Never got invited to a party or anything. I feel like I really tried my best to meet people but it just wasn't enough. I have less than a year left and... show more
    I haven't made any friends in college. I've lived on campus and worked on campus for 3 years. I still don't know anyone and I have zero friends. Never got invited to a party or anything. I feel like I really tried my best to meet people but it just wasn't enough. I have less than a year left and I've given up on making friends. I'm just a reject here. So I'm feeling like I'll regret not having friends. Virtually everyone says that friends in college are extremely important. Everyone says that friends make college infinitely more fun. Everyone says that they teach you how to function in the real world and everyone says that you'll regret not making friends. Everyone says that if you don't make friends, you'll struggle to form healthy relationships with people. Everyone says that if you don't make friends in college, you won't have any friends for the rest of your life. There is just so much pressure to make friends, but I can't do it. What do you think? Will I regret it?
    6 answers · 16 hours ago
  • Why is it difficult for me to make female friends?

    I’m a female. All my life it’s been hard for me to make a lot of female friends. I’m kinda shy & don’t talk much. I’m close minded sometimes and I don’t even know what to talk about. Is that the reason ?
    I’m a female. All my life it’s been hard for me to make a lot of female friends. I’m kinda shy & don’t talk much. I’m close minded sometimes and I don’t even know what to talk about. Is that the reason ?
    42 answers · 1 week ago
  • What do I do, I'm 16 my best friend is 18.?

    My bestfriend is 18 and I'm 16 and she wants to go out and have fun but I'm underage and cant, sometimes she makes plans without me and we have arguments about it. what can I do? I feel like I'm gunna get left behind, how do I stop her from wanting to go out?
    My bestfriend is 18 and I'm 16 and she wants to go out and have fun but I'm underage and cant, sometimes she makes plans without me and we have arguments about it. what can I do? I feel like I'm gunna get left behind, how do I stop her from wanting to go out?
    7 answers · 1 day ago
  • My friend treats me different when he’s with his other friends?

    So basically when he’s just with me he treats me kindly but when he’s with his other friends and me he treats me like trash and insults me and acts popular I hate popularity it destroys people what do I do
    So basically when he’s just with me he treats me kindly but when he’s with his other friends and me he treats me like trash and insults me and acts popular I hate popularity it destroys people what do I do
    5 answers · 2 hours ago
  • My friend invited me to home and it was literally a hoarders den?

    Best answer: Just never go there again. Telling her will do no good and all you will do is make her mad. She has a mental disorder and it is almost impossible for her to change.
    Best answer: Just never go there again. Telling her will do no good and all you will do is make her mad. She has a mental disorder and it is almost impossible for her to change.
    6 answers · 24 hours ago
  • Did I just get rejected by someone?

    Best answer: NO. rejection is when you ask someone out and they decline.
    Best answer: NO. rejection is when you ask someone out and they decline.
    5 answers · 6 hours ago
  • Should I message a girl that has a boyfriend, as long as it's appropiate?

    Best answer: Do this only if you know -- not guess or assume -- that the girl will welcome your messages. If, for all you know, sending the message may make trouble between the girl and her boyfriend, it's probably better to not send it.
    Best answer: Do this only if you know -- not guess or assume -- that the girl will welcome your messages. If, for all you know, sending the message may make trouble between the girl and her boyfriend, it's probably better to not send it.
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • How do I stop people teasing me for being shy?

    I need help I can't defend myself because my voice goes soft and they laugh at me.More people are making fun of me now....I'm lonely too and I can't make conversation anymore,my shyness is getting worser.
    I need help I can't defend myself because my voice goes soft and they laugh at me.More people are making fun of me now....I'm lonely too and I can't make conversation anymore,my shyness is getting worser.
    5 answers · 16 hours ago
  • In love with my best friend’s ex?

    One of my best friends dated a girl in our senior year of high school. We became friends through that and even after they broke up in our freshman year of college, we stayed close and were tight. Now Im in my third year of college, and think that I’m in love with her. What should I do about this situation?
    One of my best friends dated a girl in our senior year of high school. We became friends through that and even after they broke up in our freshman year of college, we stayed close and were tight. Now Im in my third year of college, and think that I’m in love with her. What should I do about this situation?
    6 answers · 2 days ago
  • How do I cope with a BFF cancer patient who wants me to do things against her family's wishes?

    I cannot afford to alienate her family from my life, and when I agree with them over her she gets mad at me. I am tired of being in between them, it's causing my Mom and I undue stress, we are both disabled and I am my Mom's sole caretaker. Just how much loyalty do I owe my sick friend if all this stress is... show more
    I cannot afford to alienate her family from my life, and when I agree with them over her she gets mad at me. I am tired of being in between them, it's causing my Mom and I undue stress, we are both disabled and I am my Mom's sole caretaker. Just how much loyalty do I owe my sick friend if all this stress is making my Mom and I sick? I am getting to the point where I don't want to see her anymore. Any advice?
    10 answers · 3 days ago
  • My “friend” ignored me and ditched me for her other friends should I ignore her back?

    Best answer: Yes, you should ignore her back. She sucks! I wouldn't want her for my friend. You deserve better! Even if she stopped ignoring you for a while, she'll do this again. Her kind always does.
    Best answer: Yes, you should ignore her back. She sucks! I wouldn't want her for my friend. You deserve better! Even if she stopped ignoring you for a while, she'll do this again. Her kind always does.
    5 answers · 19 hours ago
  • I give up on trying to make friends.?

    I feel at a loss. I really would love to connect with others and make meaningful relationships, but I feel like I don't fit in anywhere. I've tried opening up and talking to others, but every time people end up misunderstanding me and my intentions. They assume things like I'm not like them, and exclude... show more
    I feel at a loss. I really would love to connect with others and make meaningful relationships, but I feel like I don't fit in anywhere. I've tried opening up and talking to others, but every time people end up misunderstanding me and my intentions. They assume things like I'm not like them, and exclude me or they make fun of me because I have a unique personality, or they make fun of my natural hair. So then I get mad and clap back and then it just makes more people misunderstand me as a bully. I am actually a really loyal person, don't judge people based on their looks, and would love having a diverse friend group. I would love to have friends of different religions, races, social statuses, backgrounds, communities, rich, poor, middle class. I want to be a well rounded individual with knowledge about other people's walks of life. So then I decide to keep to myself in social situations, but then people start to assume I'm stuck up, and think I'm better than everyone and don't want to associate with me. I mean, I know don't stick out or anything because people who don't really know me think I'm pretty, smart, and have a lot of friends, and then are shocked when I tell them I don't. And I'm a young 20-year-old girl. There's no happy medium, it's either I socialize and get a bad label or keep to myself and get my feelings hurt. I'm so tired and the thought of living peacefully in heaven with my creator who won't misunderstand me really appeals to me.
    6 answers · 2 days ago