• I caught my neighbor s husband cheating: Should I tell her?

    I was sitting on my porch and saw my neighbor go off to work. We waved goodbye. I saw another woman show up two hours later at my neighbor s house. He was all dressed up and I followed them to a resteraunt and they kissed Should I tell my neighbor about this? I took a whole video of the whole thing. I couldn t... show more
    I was sitting on my porch and saw my neighbor go off to work. We waved goodbye. I saw another woman show up two hours later at my neighbor s house. He was all dressed up and I followed them to a resteraunt and they kissed Should I tell my neighbor about this? I took a whole video of the whole thing. I couldn t imagine going through this but i would want to know especially since she talks highly of her husband
    7 answers · 1 hour ago
  • How can i get my husband to just leave?

    He has cheated numerous times and said he would change but he hasnt. He has not been helping out financially, cheating on me, and does not want to change. He said he doesnt care if we divorce or not but womt move out. We have a baby and i dont want to leave the apt ive moved in 5 years ago. My name was on the lease... show more
    He has cheated numerous times and said he would change but he hasnt. He has not been helping out financially, cheating on me, and does not want to change. He said he doesnt care if we divorce or not but womt move out. We have a baby and i dont want to leave the apt ive moved in 5 years ago. My name was on the lease initally and i added him this year but that was my big mistake. He has made it clear that he doesnt want to be with me or love me so why wont he leave?????
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • Daughter caught my husband spanking me,what do we say?

    My husband was spanking me cuz we were about to have sex and thats one our kinks,so he smacked my butt kinda hard and turned us on cuz my husband Ioves my butt hes Iike obsessed with it IoI it drives him crazy idk why, so my duaghter comes on to ask for a juice box and she is Iike "Um daddy,,,why are you... show more
    My husband was spanking me cuz we were about to have sex and thats one our kinks,so he smacked my butt kinda hard and turned us on cuz my husband Ioves my butt hes Iike obsessed with it IoI it drives him crazy idk why, so my duaghter comes on to ask for a juice box and she is Iike "Um daddy,,,why are you spanking mom?" and wedidnt know whatto say
    8 answers · 18 hours ago
  • Unemployed Husband, Wife at Her Wits End?

    My husband has been jobless for five months. He wasn t laid off, he quit. It is causing a huge rift in our marriage. I have tried to be patient, and I have tried helping him look for jobs, but at this point, he hasn t applied for a job in weeks. Matter of fact, he has applied to maybe 5 jobs in the past five... show more
    My husband has been jobless for five months. He wasn t laid off, he quit. It is causing a huge rift in our marriage. I have tried to be patient, and I have tried helping him look for jobs, but at this point, he hasn t applied for a job in weeks. Matter of fact, he has applied to maybe 5 jobs in the past five months. I feel taken advantage of. I buy our meals, clean our house, make sure the dogs are taken care of, do the grocery shopping, all while working 40 plus hours a week. I m exhausted. He stays up late on the computer and gets mad when I ask him to come to bed. He didn t even come to bed last night. I am at a loss, what do I do?! I resent him for putting all the financial burden on me, and I ve tried talking to him about this. But it usually just results in anger on both sides, especially from him. Any advice is welcome.
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • I’m about to break my husband heart because ...?

    Best answer: If you guys can't agree on a place to live together, then either someone has to give in and live in the place other prefers or you have to live separately. You can do that without ending the marriage and give him a year or so to make up his mind about whether living with his parents is worth losing you... show more
    Best answer: If you guys can't agree on a place to live together, then either someone has to give in and live in the place other prefers or you have to live separately. You can do that without ending the marriage and give him a year or so to make up his mind about whether living with his parents is worth losing you over.

    You don't mention anything about circumstances like living rent free, like him being needed to help provide care, like grandparents providing fee childcare, &c.
    7 answers · 5 hours ago
  • Why do blonde girls with blue/green eyes generally prefer other races over white guys?

    I noticed that brunettes usually like white guys but blondes with blue eyes generally prefer other races over white guys. Why?
    I noticed that brunettes usually like white guys but blondes with blue eyes generally prefer other races over white guys. Why?
    8 answers · 22 hours ago
  • Affair partner asked me to visit his daughters grave with him.?

    Hes married. Apparently miserable. I've seen her communication with him and it looks nothing like what a marriage should be. It's his daughters death day and he asked me to go to the graveyard with him. I dont know why he hasn't asked his wife and asked me, but i know she wouldn't go. Wht should I... show more
    Hes married. Apparently miserable. I've seen her communication with him and it looks nothing like what a marriage should be. It's his daughters death day and he asked me to go to the graveyard with him. I dont know why he hasn't asked his wife and asked me, but i know she wouldn't go. Wht should I do? Be his friend? We on and off for nearly 2 years now. Hes onky staying with her coz she threatens he will never see his son if he leaves.
    8 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why do people want to get married?

    7 answers · 12 hours ago
  • Are all marriages imperfect?

    15 answers · 4 days ago
  • Marriage and health insurance?

    I've been engaged 4 years now. Mother of 3, 2 grown sons and one who is 15. My fiancé has one son. We both work, have good jobs except I have a large deductible on my health ins and big monthly premiums. He has no deductible, wouldn't cost one dime more if I and my son we're on his if we were... show more
    I've been engaged 4 years now. Mother of 3, 2 grown sons and one who is 15. My fiancé has one son. We both work, have good jobs except I have a large deductible on my health ins and big monthly premiums. He has no deductible, wouldn't cost one dime more if I and my son we're on his if we were married. We waited 3 years until my two older sons graduated college to get married. That was a year ago. I've asked several times but it turned into an argument each time. Last time I was really upset. He tried to smooth it over saying next year, big honeymoon. I don't want a wedding just to the courthouse. We don't need to spend money on that. I told him- lets just get married now. Nothing ever came of it. Two weeks ago my 15 year old was diagnosed with a heart murmur. Needs to see a cardio, lots of testing. I have to meet a 4000 deductible. Out of my pocket with my ins. I told him about the diagnosis when I got home. And I was worried about spending the $ on deductible but it has to be done. He never said one word. How about lets get married like we were planning for the last four years now so you don't have to spend a small fortune? How About I want to take care of you? I just came back from applying for a weekend job to try and cover the costs for now. He asked how my interview went and did I get the job. Did I mention he lives in my house?? I'm so disgusted, so angry...... I just don't know what to do or say.
    7 answers · 20 hours ago
  • Mother in Law controlling my husband?

    Hi, I know my husbands a mamas boy..and he sends her money back home to support her. Shes a widow and lives with my brother in law his wife and kids. I never raised an issue when it came to my husband financially supporting his mother..but the problem is I have been living in a long distance marriage with my... show more
    Hi, I know my husbands a mamas boy..and he sends her money back home to support her. Shes a widow and lives with my brother in law his wife and kids. I never raised an issue when it came to my husband financially supporting his mother..but the problem is I have been living in a long distance marriage with my husband for the past 4 years now. We meet on and off. I try to financially support me and my son but when it comes to money I have to ask my husband to support me by sending some money. Whenever I ask i get “i dont have any i just sent some back home ill send by the end of the month ill see” and even when he does its no more than $200-$300. Recently I found out my mother in law is going for pilgrimage which costs around $2000. My mother in law says she saved it (i didnt even ask her she just blurted it out) but its hard to believe she would save $2000 since she has a lot of expenses on her. My husband sends her money every month. Im curious..did he fund my mother in laws trip? Im here suffering in my parent’s basement surviving on $600 a month with a child..and I am beyond curious and upset if my husband has forgotten us and is spending more on his mom..unnecessarily...thoughts?
    7 answers · 21 hours ago
  • Why is it none of my Mom's business that her brother is having an affair when infidelity is wrong and she is a sibling who likes him?

    Best answer: It's just an expression, basically meaning that she should "stay out of it"... which of course is difficult when it involves a close family member. If it truly troubles her very much, she can have a word with her brother to let him know, but otherwise it really and truly IS best if she remains... show more
    Best answer: It's just an expression, basically meaning that
    she should "stay out of it"... which of course is
    difficult when it involves a close family member.
    If it truly troubles her very much, she can have
    a word with her brother to let him know, but
    otherwise it really and truly IS best if she
    remains as uninvolved as possible in this.
    10 answers · 3 days ago
  • Is the physical side of a marriage important, like is a marriage without sex going to have a negative effect on the average partnership?

    Best answer: A friend of mine who has been married more than 40 years (very happily) says that she and her friends her age have commented on how none of them are having sex any more.
    Best answer: A friend of mine who has been married more than 40 years (very happily) says that she and her friends her age have commented on how none of them are having sex any more.
    6 answers · 1 day ago
  • Should I confess to my wife?

    So I am about to get married in a few month. About two years ago, me and my fiancée were going through a rough patch, where our sex life was nonexistent. So I was away on for two days with a couple of friends and we went out to drink at a club one night. One thing led to another and I was fairly intoxicated. A... show more
    So I am about to get married in a few month. About two years ago, me and my fiancée were going through a rough patch, where our sex life was nonexistent. So I was away on for two days with a couple of friends and we went out to drink at a club one night. One thing led to another and I was fairly intoxicated. A women threw herself on me and attempted to kiss me but I moved my head and she proceeed to kiss my neck. My memory is foggy but I keep thinking that I may have felt her up a bit and even fingered her. Should I confess to this, guilt has been eating away at me.
    12 answers · 3 days ago
  • Marriage rejection related query did she reject the proposal for arranged marriage Should i expect that she will change her mind?

    I like a colleague of mine and I am male and she is female and work in different departments and we we stay in same locality neighborhood as we get office quarters.We are acquaintances do not meet often so know each other by face only and talk rarely if required due to official needs ,she is introvert and me too of... show more
    I like a colleague of mine and I am male and she is female and work in different departments and we we stay in same locality neighborhood as we get office quarters.We are acquaintances do not meet often so know each other by face only and talk rarely if required due to official needs ,she is introvert and me too of same type.Now I asked my mother and told my choice so my mother collected her number and talked to her starting with introduction of our family and the prospective groom.After the introduction she answered to my mother "You spoke /told/narrated and I listened " in vernacular i don't know what will be the exact translation.My mother could not continue talk thereafter feeling insulted humiliated and offended and.My mother told that this means she coldly declined or refused our proposal for arranged marriage and she was then busy busy with research.She is a teacher This was over 2 years ago..We are both unmarried so should I talk to her directly
    6 answers · 7 hours ago
  • Spouse conflict?

    I made some career sacrifices on behalf of our family. My spouse pursued the career and easy work/life balance she wanted as I stayed at a job and schedule that allowed her to get the job she wanted while our children could have more home/family life outside of traditonal school. I have watched opportunities pass... show more
    I made some career sacrifices on behalf of our family. My spouse pursued the career and easy work/life balance she wanted as I stayed at a job and schedule that allowed her to get the job she wanted while our children could have more home/family life outside of traditonal school. I have watched opportunities pass me by because the conflict with our schedules. While my spouse flaunts her easy-going life while I work my can off, she told me I have nobody to blame bUT myself for the "crappy" life I made for myself. This really hurt, that I gave up everything for my family. I'm happy for the lifestyle she has, but that she has no appreciation for anything I have done to make it possible for her, and it's all my fault. Any support would be appreciated.
    7 answers · 1 day ago
  • My wife lays there like a dead fish and keeps asking "are you done yet?"?

    would you say she's doing her duty?
    would you say she's doing her duty?
    41 answers · 7 days ago