• Legal Question ....?

    My Husband and I have been separated for 6 months, I’m renting out my own house. I have to wait until June 2018 to file for divorce. On Thursday he broke into my house through the window, while my kids and I were home. he was charged for burglary - 1st degree , the class was felony. He had taken my phone in the... show more
    My Husband and I have been separated for 6 months, I’m renting out my own house. I have to wait until June 2018 to file for divorce. On Thursday he broke into my house through the window, while my kids and I were home. he was charged for burglary - 1st degree , the class was felony. He had taken my phone in the process without us knowing . Im getting a protective order that I have tried twice before but was denied. Police officers say there should be no problem getting the order now but Will I be able to divorce him before June of 2018 because of this ?
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • Should I tell my husband that I have a crush on another man?

    Best answer: I wouldn’t if I were you because he might tell you about the other woman he’s married to besides you
    Best answer: I wouldn’t if I were you because he might tell you about the other woman he’s married to besides you
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • Is it wrong for you to be a housewife if you have a college degree & why?

    Best answer: No, of course it's not wrong. College isn't just about preparing for a career. It's about being exposed to the world of ideas. It's about expanding your understanding of life, the sciences, and the arts. If a woman becomes a mom, her education can also help her assist her children in their own... show more
    Best answer: No, of course it's not wrong. College isn't just about preparing for a career. It's about being exposed to the world of ideas. It's about expanding your understanding of life, the sciences, and the arts. If a woman becomes a mom, her education can also help her assist her children in their own educations.

    My mom always said, "Educate a man, and you've educated an individual. Educate a woman, and you've educated a family."
    14 answers · 3 days ago
  • Why do people get married for when they could just live together forever?

    Best answer: We wanted to is the ultimate reason, we both want the commitment of marriage. There's legal benefits to marriage that there isn't living together. A big legal privilege with marriage is medical decisions. If you're not married, you're not that persons next of kin so it won't be you who is... show more
    Best answer: We wanted to is the ultimate reason, we both want the commitment of marriage. There's legal benefits to marriage that there isn't living together.

    A big legal privilege with marriage is medical decisions. If you're not married, you're not that persons next of kin so it won't be you who is making their decisions for them if they can't their self. Their next of kin does, so it would be a child of legal age and if there is none, then it would fall back to that person's parents and then their siblings if the parents wasn't an option. The next of kin doesn't have to allow you to visit them, either or release any updates/information on it. My husband is who I would want making my medical decisions if something happened and I couldn't do it myself. I'm also the person that would make them with him, however I would also consult his family in them as well and I'm pretty sure he would with mine too. You can do that not being married by filing some paper work, but your family can also contest it. Being married, I didn't have to make those extra steps.

    Kids - when a woman has a baby and she is married, the husband is automatically deemed the legal father of the baby. If she's not, the father has to be named on the birth certificate and sign it to establish his parental rights at that time. That has to be done when the mother is coherent. If something happens to the mother during the birth and she's unable to make decisions for herself, her next of kin will make them for her AND the baby because at that point if the father is not married to the mother, the next of kin for the mother is also the next of kin for the baby, until a court says otherwise.

    Myself, I don't have any issues with people who decide to do things different than me. However, I think it's harder to show kids the commitment of a relationship if you don't actually have one to display to them. I haven't figured out why a couple will make a 30 year commitment to the bank for a house, but not with each other.

    Some states still have common law marriage. If you meet the criteria for it and have an actual common law marriage what some don't realize is when/if you break up, you actually have to get a divorce just like a traditionally married couple will. My grandparents had a common law marriage back when it was recognized in Michigan and were together for 30 years when they split. Since they had assets and minor children together they had to get a divorce.

    Bank accounts - if you have a shared bank account but are not married the funds in the bank account are fair game, first come first serve. If you broke up, one person can go to the bank and withdraw everything in the account. Since there's legal protection for cohabitation like there is with marriage, they're not required to give any of it back. Under marital assets they would have to pay back 50% of it.
    30 answers · 5 days ago
  • When will my wife stop seeing other men?

    I'm a very patient husband, but this is getting old..
    I'm a very patient husband, but this is getting old..
    15 answers · 3 days ago
  • Is this normal behavior?

    Next month will be the two year anniversary of my marriage. I dated my wife for five years before I married her, and, as hard as it was, I respected her wishes to not have sex until we were married. After marriage; however, things have not changed. We still have not had sex and we are going on two years. To make... show more
    Next month will be the two year anniversary of my marriage. I dated my wife for five years before I married her, and, as hard as it was, I respected her wishes to not have sex until we were married. After marriage; however, things have not changed. We still have not had sex and we are going on two years. To make matters worse, she is not living at home with me currently; she is staying at her mom’s house. In the beginning of our marriage, she said that since I didn’t have a budget, it was stressing her out all the time, thus, she never wanted to have sex. After a few more months going into a year, she said that we didn’t go out on enough dates. I told her that it’s a bit of a strain for me because I’m paying all the bills and the rent. Going into two years her reasoning was that I’m not listening to her or asking her open ended questions about her day, even though I listen when she is talking to me about her day, she says I’m not bringing it up, which took me by surprise because more often times than not, I do. She has been living with her mother.A few months in, I asked her to move back in, but she said she’s not because I don’t validate her feelings. I stuck it out and told her that we need to go to marriage counseling. Well, needless to say, that’s really not working; it seems like it’s actually giving her more excuses. At this point I’ve been in a sexless marriage for two years and I’m essentially living alone. Does my wife love me or want to be with me?
    8 answers · 22 hours ago
  • I want to my wife to run around the house naked-am I out of line I just to see her beauty?

    Best answer: I think that's great! I don't find anything wrong with it you just admire you wife's beauty. I wish my husband admired my beauty this much and told me this it would definitely be a turn-on
    Best answer: I think that's great! I don't find anything wrong with it you just admire you wife's beauty. I wish my husband admired my beauty this much and told me this it would definitely be a turn-on
    10 answers · 4 days ago
  • People are getting married, people having a life, people are dating and I have to live alone and SUFFER? How to get someone before suicide?

    I am so angry I only been on one date in my entire life. The only way I can get over this depression is to get into a relationship I would finally be happy then. I tried talking to therapists they just want me to go on medication and just empty talk. I am not suicidal and I am not going to do **** but I... show more
    I am so angry I only been on one date in my entire life. The only way I can get over this depression is to get into a relationship I would finally be happy then. I tried talking to therapists they just want me to go on medication and just empty talk. I am not suicidal and I am not going to do **** but I just see things going that way with the way things are going.
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • Are there still women out there who are still willing to wait for marriage before having sex?

    Best answer: Yes there are some but in general the numbers are low and have been for hundreds of years
    Best answer: Yes there are some but in general the numbers are low and have been for hundreds of years
    9 answers · 2 days ago
  • I’m enlisting in the Army. I want to marry my fiancé & for her to move in with me but she wants to go to college how could I make this work?

    Best answer: Child SKIP it simple. Ur fiancee needs to STAY HOME at her parents. U will NOT be living where she can come FIRST yr or two. U'll need to b E5 in most bases to afford her living off ur income. She surely NOT following u overseas. She needs to attend college locally. Her local community college has programs... show more
    Best answer: Child SKIP it simple.
    Ur fiancee needs to STAY HOME at her parents.
    U will NOT be living where she can come FIRST yr or two.
    U'll need to b E5 in most bases to afford her living off ur income.
    She surely NOT following u overseas.
    She needs to attend college locally.
    Her local community college has programs leading to good paying jobs in demand and under two years easily without decade of debt payment slavery.
    If she attend college outside her state, she will OVER pay out of state tuition.
    BOTH of u GOT some serious learning to do.
    If she attend online college , she better pick a program actually leading to employment.
    If she doesn't have JOB skills, have her learn how to waitress at adult entertainment clubs for good money.
    Plenty of those clubs near Army bases.
    Kid u don't have any real world clues about reality of military service and life Nor does she.
    Great way to get divorced in under 2 yrs.
    Leave her home and get educated locally.


    Retired military
    8 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why don’t I want to sleep with my husband?

    Best answer: Because you married way too young. Based on your timeline, you were in "in love with one guy for years"... and then "married two years after that"... that means you're big breakup happened when you were 18. Honey - you didn't love that guy.. at 15-16-17 you don't know what adult... show more
    Best answer: Because you married way too young. Based on your timeline, you were in "in love with one guy for years"... and then "married two years after that"... that means you're big breakup happened when you were 18. Honey - you didn't love that guy.. at 15-16-17 you don't know what adult love is...

    The human brain doesn't fully mature until around age 25... you married the first guy you ever dated as an adult, before your brain was mature enough to identify what it is you want out of life... This has nothing to do with losing your sex drive due to a breakup of a teen relationship.. This is about you marrying someone out of your own insecurity of being alone at the tender age of 20..
    14 answers · 3 days ago
  • If a married woman texts you this?

    She has ended a few texts messages with a wedding ring emoji. And in the past she has told me that she wants to marry me if she ever gets divorced? Why would she do that?
    She has ended a few texts messages with a wedding ring emoji. And in the past she has told me that she wants to marry me if she ever gets divorced? Why would she do that?
    9 answers · 2 days ago
  • Im so Confused about his actions!?

    My husband and I are currently seperated. Its been only a month. It really doesn't seem like a seperation because we are in constant contact with each other. We spend hours talking and laughing. As soon as. I bring up the marriage to him he always say its over we are done. Sometimes i dont take his calls or i... show more
    My husband and I are currently seperated. Its been only a month. It really doesn't seem like a seperation because we are in constant contact with each other. We spend hours talking and laughing. As soon as. I bring up the marriage to him he always say its over we are done. Sometimes i dont take his calls or i dont call and when that happens he shows up at our home. He stare in my eyes and I can see the pain in his eyes and we have sex often. He tells me he have a ice box in his heart for me because of the arguing etc. He also told me that his mother told him to leave and thats what he wants to do. So when i agree to him moving on he seem to get anxious and start to come around or call. He also told me today that I have to give him time to miss me; but how can he miss me if he is always around or always calling me?. I give him sex because i still love him. He told me that he get sex from me because he isnt cheating and that he is comfortable with me. What should I do because when I talk to him about it. His actions and his words doesnt match.
    7 answers · 17 hours ago
  • Why is it not possible to have a life partner for a life?

    Well I m a middle Eastern and here divorce rarely happens but why in countries like in Europe or USA it rarely happens to have a life partner forever?
    Well I m a middle Eastern and here divorce rarely happens but why in countries like in Europe or USA it rarely happens to have a life partner forever?
    13 answers · 3 days ago
  • What do you make of this man? Cheating husband who loves his family and his mistress?

    He says he loves his wife of 28 years; he says his wife is beautiful, but he's having an affair with a single woman half his age. He's mid-fifties but has the sexual appetite of a boy who just hit puberty. He's tried leaving his mistress numerous times but never actually does. I think she begs him not... show more
    He says he loves his wife of 28 years; he says his wife is beautiful, but he's having an affair with a single woman half his age. He's mid-fifties but has the sexual appetite of a boy who just hit puberty. He's tried leaving his mistress numerous times but never actually does. I think she begs him not to and he gives in. He tells her that he's stealing time from her and she needs to meet a man who can give her things he cannot. He tells his young mistress that he feels so guilty for doing this to his wife, but continues doing it. His mistress is in love with him. He's must have told her that he loves her too, but he's also told her that he feels guilty saying it so he doesn't say it often. He's said to her something along the lines of, "If I didn't share the same feelings as you, do you really think we'd still be together after 2 years?" He also contemplated leaving for the mistress in the first year, though never promised her. Now he tells her that he loves his family and won't leave. Yet he won't leave her, either. He has unprotected sex with her but won't ejaculate inside her. He says she is the only person he's ever been fully honest to. The rest of the world doesn't know about her, so he'll always be hiding something from everyone else he loves. He reaches out to her constantly, every hour when he's at work but very seldom when he's home except to say good morning and night. What the hell to make of a man like this??
    9 answers · 2 days ago