• I dont know that I want to be with my fiance after having a baby?

    My SO and I just had our first baby and we're engaged. But since I got pregnant it's like a new side of him showed up that I dont necessarily like. He doesnt seem to think about other people when deciding to do things or say. And ever since our baby was born he doesnt seem to care about me that much. He... show more
    My SO and I just had our first baby and we're engaged. But since I got pregnant it's like a new side of him showed up that I dont necessarily like. He doesnt seem to think about other people when deciding to do things or say. And ever since our baby was born he doesnt seem to care about me that much. He comes over (we dont live together) to my house so much now but it feels like it's not to see me it's just to see the baby that he sometimes holds. Shes only a month old so theres not much he can do besides hold her, but he only holds her a couple hours in a day. And one night our baby had to eat just as dinner was coming out, he asked if I wanted him to get me something and I declined because I wouldnt be able to eat and breastfeed at the same time anyway, but after I was done feeding her i had to comfort her and he didnt offer to take her at all, just continued watching a movie. He never asked me again if I needed him to take her at all. In fact he got more food for himself after looking at me. I didnt eat that day at all. I was too depressed. The days when hes not in my house, i feel, are the better days. When hes home I feel severely depressed. I know he loves our baby and I really dont want to take her away from him at all. I just dont think I can be with him anymore and I feel awful because that means she'll have to grow up in separate households. But I dont know if I can bring myself to tell him this, hes very emotional and not necessarily in ways I can handle.
    5 answers · 3 days ago
  • How would you feel if a co-worker who you barely know said this to you?

    Best answer: This is a compliment and your choice to engage in nice behaviour has been noticed, allow yourself to smile and appreciate what has been said about you. In this fast-paced world, the complaints are often more stated than the compliments. Well done you.
    Best answer: This is a compliment and your choice to engage in nice behaviour has been noticed, allow yourself to smile and appreciate what has been said about you. In this fast-paced world, the complaints are often more stated than the compliments. Well done you.
    6 answers · 4 days ago
  • Im 19 and my teacher is 40 I gave her a ride home and she started kissing me we’ve been having sex a lot I have feelings but she’s married..?

    Best answer: Tell her husband. She’s a white liberal cuck who’s trying to ease her “white guilt” about the immigration border stoppings and prosecutions that are going on in the media... You know... the same ones that also happened under Clinton, Bush and Obama, but the liberal media never bothered to cover until now. She... show more
    Best answer: Tell her husband.

    She’s a white liberal cuck who’s trying to ease her “white guilt” about the immigration border stoppings and prosecutions that are going on in the media...

    You know... the same ones that also happened under Clinton, Bush and Obama, but the liberal media never bothered to cover until now.

    She is sick in the head and she thinks if she breeds with a Latino, somehow it “undo’s” her “evil whiteness”. Again she has a mental disorder, deep self identity issues (most likely due to liberal social pressure at the school/university she works at) and is acting out

    In reality white men perform just fine, just as any race does. If anything, it’s asian women who have a right to complain, lol. Whites and Hispanics are tied for the second biggest d*cks, right behind blacks.
    4 answers · 2 days ago
  • Should my moms new boyfriend get any say in what I do?

    Best answer: No - he's not your father.
    While you might have to listen to what your mother tells you, it's none of his business.
    And surely any choir is something you should join just for fun - because you enjoy it. It's not like it's a vital part of your education.
    Best answer: No - he's not your father.
    While you might have to listen to what your mother tells you, it's none of his business.
    And surely any choir is something you should join just for fun - because you enjoy it. It's not like it's a vital part of your education.
    13 answers · 6 days ago
  • A professional photographer once told me I’m “not photogenic” and should avoid photos.. I do look truly bad &but should I listen to them?

    Best answer: You might not look good in a staged photograph, but you can look good when someone takes your photo when you don't realise. I don't think that photographer was professional. She should have just said nothing.
    Best answer: You might not look good in a staged photograph, but you can look good when someone takes your photo when you don't realise. I don't think that photographer was professional. She should have just said nothing.
    8 answers · 5 days ago
  • How many adult siblings still cuddle?

    My bf [23] has two younger sisters [18 and 16], his family lives about an hour away and we visit them once a month or so for a day or two. We have been together for a year. I am much closer to my family, especially siblings, than he is with his. Not that it matters much, but generally I don't snuggle/cuddle... show more
    My bf [23] has two younger sisters [18 and 16], his family lives about an hour away and we visit them once a month or so for a day or two. We have been together for a year. I am much closer to my family, especially siblings, than he is with his. Not that it matters much, but generally I don't snuggle/cuddle with either of my brothers. I guess what bothers me is I am not used to this behavior with siblings.. So if him and I are sitting closely on the couch together, his sister will put her legs over his lap, or when we are watching a movie together, his sister will cuddle up to him and put her arms around him. I find it a bit annoying because if I am not completely on top of him, they will come over and get on top of him, even if he is leaning on me or snuggling on me. I just find it weird, and I really like his sisters despite this aspect of them. I just wonder if I will have to live with this? Or if its odd and possessive of them because I am there maybe? Or maybe they will soon grow out of this when they get their own boyfriends?
    5 answers · 2 days ago
  • How are me and this person related?

    Best answer: He is your step second cousin once removed
    Best answer: He is your step second cousin once removed
    5 answers · 4 days ago
  • Why do so many people have a problem with Asexuals?

    Best answer: Mostly because asexuality goes against most normal lifestyles.
    Best answer: Mostly because asexuality goes against most normal lifestyles.
    6 answers · 4 days ago
  • Is this vegan abuse?

    my dad used to throw pigs feet at me
    my dad used to throw pigs feet at me
    13 answers · 1 week ago
  • Am I the oldest of my brothers?

    Best answer: He's your half brother, as in you share one parent. A step brother would be if your mother married his father and there were no shared blood between you. Your 2001 brother is the eldest with *that* (your shared) mother. You are the eldest of your father's children, unless he has others with a previous woman. show more
    Best answer: He's your half brother, as in you share one parent. A step brother would be if your mother married his father and there were no shared blood between you.

    Your 2001 brother is the eldest with *that* (your shared) mother. You are the eldest of your father's children, unless he has others with a previous woman.
    8 answers · 5 days ago
  • My parents don’t want me to learn how to swim?

    Best answer: At 20 you’re a legal adult. You don’t need their permission to take a swimming class. The risk is yours to assume, not theirs.
    Best answer: At 20 you’re a legal adult. You don’t need their permission to take a swimming class. The risk is yours to assume, not theirs.
    4 answers · 3 days ago
  • My family spied on my online activity, behind my back without my permission or knowledge. They teased me about it, How do I get over this?

    I was shocked when I found out because all my life, they were preaching about how I should be a good person, respect people's privacy etc. and then they are so hypocritical at the same time. By the way, this happened when I was a late teen and a young adult. It's not as if I was a little child they needed... show more
    I was shocked when I found out because all my life, they were preaching about how I should be a good person, respect people's privacy etc. and then they are so hypocritical at the same time. By the way, this happened when I was a late teen and a young adult. It's not as if I was a little child they needed to protect. They did it for their own amusement.
    3 answers · 3 days ago
  • Am I crazy.?

    Best answer: You are NOT crazy, and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise.

    Dump him. He's going to do this again, you need to move on with your life and if you date someone in the future, date someone who respects you.
    Best answer: You are NOT crazy, and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise.

    Dump him. He's going to do this again, you need to move on with your life and if you date someone in the future, date someone who respects you.
    14 answers · 1 week ago