• He wont bring her home because of the snow. What can i do?

    So me and my ex have a court agreement nothing in the agreement says about the weather. He has her on a friday to sunday. It is sunday today and i text him saying he might have to leave earlier as its snowing. He then said hes not bringing her home because it is snowing there too. But court have it written down the... show more
    So me and my ex have a court agreement nothing in the agreement says about the weather. He has her on a friday to sunday. It is sunday today and i text him saying he might have to leave earlier as its snowing. He then said hes not bringing her home because it is snowing there too. But court have it written down the days he able to have her. Its sunday so i can call my solicitor and hes refusing to bring her home and he isnt bothering to tell me when shes coming home. The snow is about 4in and the main road is gritted and hes still refusing. I just want my child home i know shes safer with me then she is with them.
    6 answers · 3 days ago
  • Do you think most women are just an adult child?

    Most are clingy, jealous, insecure, possessive etc
    Most are clingy, jealous, insecure, possessive etc
    19 answers · 6 days ago
  • One of my colleagues hates me, won’t speak,should I bother trying?

    I have & got nowhere
    I have & got nowhere
    5 answers · 2 days ago
  • Would you still be friends with someone if your significant other slept at their house?

    Let me explain. My babys father in the past has told me he had sex with my "best friend" then later said he was joking. She has also told me he has made advances in the past. Well about 2 months ago, i kicked him out of my house. My "best friends" ex boyfriend stopped by her house unexpectedly... show more
    Let me explain. My babys father in the past has told me he had sex with my "best friend" then later said he was joking. She has also told me he has made advances in the past. Well about 2 months ago, i kicked him out of my house. My "best friends" ex boyfriend stopped by her house unexpectedly to say hi, and when he went to knock on the door it opened and he said he saw my boyfriend pulling his pants up while my friend was on the couch as if they had just had sex. So the ex calls me out of anger telling me my babys dad is at her house having sex with her. So the next morning i go over there and at first she tries to tell me he's not there, then says she doesn't know if he is and that he might have left while she was sleeping. So eventually she lets me in her house and he was sleeping on her floor. She then tells me she didn't wanna tell me he was there cause she didn't want drama in her house and that he was only there cause hs came there begging cause he had nowhere else to go. Now how would you feel about this situation?
    4 answers · 1 day ago
  • Should I leave my husband for my lover?

    I married my husband when I was 18 more for security than love because he comes from quite a wealthy family and I come from a working class one with not much money. I also have Aspergers and he doesn't understand my problems and issues, and has even slapped and hit me in the past. Over the past few years we... show more
    I married my husband when I was 18 more for security than love because he comes from quite a wealthy family and I come from a working class one with not much money. I also have Aspergers and he doesn't understand my problems and issues, and has even slapped and hit me in the past. Over the past few years we have grown distant from each other and I am really attracted to another man at work and we have started an full-blown affair. We meet up in hotels after work and at weekends for sessions of passion. My lover says he loves me and keeps telling me to leave him as he says I would be better suited to being with him instead of my husband. I would but I am scared to because he would get really violent towards me I think. What would I do?
    6 answers · 3 days ago
  • Was my husband trying to genuinely help or was he trying to manipulate me for sex?

    I suffer from depression, anxiety, and panic attacks! So I was having anxeity yesterday. My husband suggested we should have sex because it relives stress and anxiety. Last month, I was having anxeity, so he just suggested I should sit next to him and he hugged me for ten minutes, and then he started kissing me,... show more
    I suffer from depression, anxiety, and panic attacks! So I was having anxeity yesterday. My husband suggested we should have sex because it relives stress and anxiety. Last month, I was having anxeity, so he just suggested I should sit next to him and he hugged me for ten minutes, and then he started kissing me, which led to sex! I don't mind having sex with him because I love him and I know, for a fact that he also he loves me! But I am just confused whether he is actually trying to help or just want sex?
    5 answers · 3 days ago
  • My boyfriend is going back on his promise of not to hunt?

    When we first started dating 5 yrs ago, he promised me he wouldn't hunt again. He wasn't a big hunter to begin with and only went out a few times in his whole life. I am totally against hunting! I've been a vegetarian for 30+ years and the thought of taking the life of a harmless creature is beyond... show more
    When we first started dating 5 yrs ago, he promised me he wouldn't hunt again. He wasn't a big hunter to begin with and only went out a few times in his whole life. I am totally against hunting! I've been a vegetarian for 30+ years and the thought of taking the life of a harmless creature is beyond disturbing to me. Now his 14 yr old son wants to go hunting so he has put out deer attractants. His kid just wants to kill something. He talks very mean about animals and condones abuse. I'm sick to my stomach over this. What would you do in my case?
    4 answers · 2 days ago
  • Advice for a girl making the first move??

    Best answer: Look you won't know until you try. So go on and text him. That is the only way to know for sure.
    If he is with another girl then you will know and can at least be friends. Worse thing is you both
    become friends.
    Best answer: Look you won't know until you try. So go on and text him. That is the only way to know for sure.
    If he is with another girl then you will know and can at least be friends. Worse thing is you both
    become friends.
    4 answers · 2 days ago
  • Im 13 and I hate my life?

    All my friends left me, my mom left me to live with her boyfriend (bought a very small separate house for me), my moms boyfriend comes over sometimes to molest me, I have no siblings therefore nobody to talk to and I'm also slightly mentally disabled. Im going mentally insane as well. Once a day she barely... show more
    All my friends left me, my mom left me to live with her boyfriend (bought a very small separate house for me), my moms boyfriend comes over sometimes to molest me, I have no siblings therefore nobody to talk to and I'm also slightly mentally disabled. Im going mentally insane as well. Once a day she barely brings any food which is why I'm very underweight. I don't want to call the cops. What do I do so they can not go to jail and we can just resolve things??.. Many other things are going on but yeah I hate my life ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Everyone is gonna think this is so fake lmfao
    4 answers · 2 days ago
  • How can I stop gossiping?

    Best answer: Examine why you gossip to begin with. What drives you to do it? If you have a juicy bit of gossip does that make you feel as though you have something of good worth? Like you found a little jewel? Why? Do you feel that sharing some gossip helps your low self esteem maybe? That it elevates your worth in the eyes of... show more
    Best answer: Examine why you gossip to begin with. What drives you to do it? If you have a juicy bit of gossip does that make you feel as though you have something of good worth? Like you found a little jewel? Why? Do you feel that sharing some gossip helps your low self esteem maybe? That it elevates your worth in the eyes of other people? What does sharing gossip mean to you and why? Why the need?

    So examine yourself and understand why you do it. Find something else more wholesome to fill your need rather than something evil and destructive like gossip.
    4 answers · 2 days ago
  • Am I overreacting over this?

    Best answer: I would find that to be extremely inappropriate. Why should your HUSBAND feel the need to spend all that time with another female even if there is nothing going on? That's just plain disrespectful. A coffee or a lunch once in awhile? Sure. But that is a bit excessive. Also, that "I wish I met you 5 years... show more
    Best answer: I would find that to be extremely inappropriate. Why should your HUSBAND feel the need to spend all that time with another female even if there is nothing going on? That's just plain disrespectful. A coffee or a lunch once in awhile? Sure. But that is a bit excessive. Also, that "I wish I met you 5 years ago" would raise a question or two for me.

    - HOWEVER -

    It is normal for married couples to develop a crush on another person once in a blue moon. But provided he doesn't act on it, it will pass. Also, does he normally call girls names like that? If so, then that might just be his personality, if not, then maybe you should raise the topic with him.

    Unless he is mentally retarded, don't buy into any "What I can't have friends?" "How is it any different than having a guy friend?" "You're just being crazy" crap. That's just manipulative bullsh*t.

    Overall, I don't think you have too much to worry about at this point. But I would calmly let him know your concerns and see how it goes.
    6 answers · 4 days ago
  • Why do people say a man's mistress is often uglier than his wife?

    Best answer: I've never had a mistress that wasn't a lot younger and prettier than my wife. Can't remember ever seeing anybody's mistress that didn't look better than the wife. Even when they are the same age, the mistress has always looked better. Go back and think about Franklin D. Roosevelt's... show more
    Best answer: I've never had a mistress that wasn't a lot younger and prettier than my wife. Can't remember ever seeing anybody's mistress that didn't look better than the wife. Even when they are the same age, the mistress has always looked better. Go back and think about Franklin D. Roosevelt's mistress, Lucy Rutherford. A LOT better looking than Elinor! Dwight Eisenhower's mistress was certainly a LOT better looking than Mamie. Same for LBJ, and both the Bush's Even JFK had better looking mistresses.
    5 answers · 3 days ago
  • How do I handle visits with inlaws that don’t like me?

    My mother in law will be here 2 months on the 11th of January. We are flying her home on that day. My husband and I have been married 30 years and when she visits it is her delight to make rude comments while my husband is working. One day she told my grand daughter that I resembled the pig mask she had been... show more
    My mother in law will be here 2 months on the 11th of January. We are flying her home on that day. My husband and I have been married 30 years and when she visits it is her delight to make rude comments while my husband is working. One day she told my grand daughter that I resembled the pig mask she had been playing with. Always something like that. She loves to start problems between my husband and me. This time I’ve been ignoring her, but I’m very tired. I’ve waited on her hand and foot, do her laundry.. The other evening she had me take her to target. I got some things and paid. She loaded her basket with clothes, make-up, gifts for other people. She racked up quiet a ticket. She runs her card and come to find out her account was empty. I had to pay for everything. I cried, got a shingles outbreak.. Well, now my husband’s sister wants to come down soon. She’s very overweight with health issues. She doesn’t get around well. She’s also rude and mean as well. Her daughter was married a couple of years ago and she made it clear on the invitation that my husband was the only one invited. Anyways, I don’t think I can take another visit from them so soon. They clearly do not like me. I don’t like them here, knowing they literally wish me ill. What should I do? And my husband bugs me to go there to visit them. I don’t want to go. What should I do? Thank you
    4 answers · 2 days ago
  • Was I molested by my dad?

    Was I molested by my dad?

    7 answers · 5 days ago
  • What does it really mean when a girl asks you to go to the prom with her ?

    Best answer: It means she would like you to take her to prom. She may (or may not) want physical intimacy; it could very well be just a date and that's it. If you use your words and ask her about what's on the agenda before and after the dance, it should help you determine what she's thinking. So ask her. In... show more
    Best answer: It means she would like you to take her to prom. She may (or may not) want physical intimacy; it could very well be just a date and that's it. If you use your words and ask her about what's on the agenda before and after the dance, it should help you determine what she's thinking. So ask her. In person. With words. Then use your ears and listen to what she says.
    7 answers · 5 days ago
  • Cousin always wants to hang out with me?

    This may sound heartless but let me explain lol. My 8 year old cousin, multiple times a week, asks me to come over and play with her. I’m nearly 20 and don’t mind going over every once in a while, but it gets to be annoying and if I’m honest, I don’t have the most patience for things like playing house, mom and... show more
    This may sound heartless but let me explain lol. My 8 year old cousin, multiple times a week, asks me to come over and play with her. I’m nearly 20 and don’t mind going over every once in a while, but it gets to be annoying and if I’m honest, I don’t have the most patience for things like playing house, mom and daughter, dolls, and whatever. I love that she likes to hang out with me, but it’s been happening so often it feels like everyday. Putting those thing aside, the main thing that annoys me is her crying when I have to leave, pouting, or getting mad, or doing the same when I can’t go. I feel horrible telling her no, and her mom likes to think it’s becuase I just don’t like her and/or her kid if I do. Am I wrong to say no or should I just go to make her happy? She doesn’t have many friends, and the few she did have don’t see her much, and her mom got into an argument with her friend’s mom, so they no longer see each other. This is why I feel obligated to go to her each time. Anyways, opinions? Thanks y’all!
    4 answers · 2 days ago
  • What does he actually want?

    What does my ex want? So he and i were in a relationship for 2 years and he took a break with me because he said he needed space and time for himself . I said okay its only a break right? i even apologised if i did something wrong. And 5 days back i asked him when do u think we should end this break. (We were on a... show more
    What does my ex want? So he and i were in a relationship for 2 years and he took a break with me because he said he needed space and time for himself . I said okay its only a break right? i even apologised if i did something wrong. And 5 days back i asked him when do u think we should end this break. (We were on a break for 2 weeks by then) and he said he loves me but he doesn’t want to be with me anymore so he broke up. And from yesterday morning he is sending me texts like i love you. Goodmorning. And telling me about some random stuff. Goodnight. Etc. i really fail to understand whats wrong with him.. i love him with all my heart but i don’t understand the clear reason why he broke up or why is he texting me now! Thankyou for reading ❤️
    5 answers · 4 days ago
  • Are you crushable to girls ?

    5 answers · 4 days ago