• I'm a 22 yrs old man and is it imperative that my mother should know wherever I go with my friends...?

    The truth is I actually don't go out with my friends. I go out with my girlfriend and I'm not willing to let my mom know about it.
    The truth is I actually don't go out with my friends. I go out with my girlfriend and I'm not willing to let my mom know about it.
    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • What would you do if your kids were worthless?

    Best answer: I would change my attitude.
    Best answer: I would change my attitude.
    7 answers · 1 day ago
  • How can me and my dad get along better?

    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is it okay to slap your 15 year old when necessary?

    I got into an argument that my daughter is too young to date someone in college. She talked back and became angry with me. I slapped her and CPS is involved because she went to the counselor the next day, told her that I disapproved of her trying to date someone. The conversation focused on why she “loves” a... show more
    I got into an argument that my daughter is too young to date someone in college. She talked back and became angry with me. I slapped her and CPS is involved because she went to the counselor the next day, told her that I disapproved of her trying to date someone. The conversation focused on why she “loves” a college boy, but the school called CPS to inform them about multiple concerns. They’re related to not only child abuse, but the fact that she’s a young girl involved with an older man.
    32 answers · 6 days ago
  • I think my parents are neglecting me?

    These past few years for me have been hell. I cry every day. I think my parents are neglecting me. First off: I have hardly any clothes. I have some jeans, but none of them fit. I have some t-shirts but most of them are too small for me. I don’t have any skirts or dresses. I have a few hoodies but one is getting... show more
    These past few years for me have been hell. I cry every day. I think my parents are neglecting me. First off: I have hardly any clothes. I have some jeans, but none of them fit. I have some t-shirts but most of them are too small for me. I don’t have any skirts or dresses. I have a few hoodies but one is getting small. I have a sweater but it’s too small. I’m not allowed to buy new clothes. My parents say I have plenty already and I can buy it with my own money. I do have a job but when they pay me it’s in checks and my mom refuses to get money out of my bank account for me to buy stuff. I do get some cash here and there but it’s hardly enough to buy clothes. Currently I have 20 dollars. I really want to ask my mom if she can drive me to the store but I’m afraid she’s gonna say no and that 20 dollars is gonna buy hardly anything. Second: my room is crap. This makes me sound like a baby but: first of all my room is a bright pink. We ripped out the carpet six years ago so I get splinters a lot. My dad threw out my bed so I have to sleep on an air mattress until college. I heard air mattresses can be hard on my back. It needs to be redone. I’m embarrassed to have my friends over. It makes me feel like a baby and I hate it so much. I could call child abuse hotline but they’re not really abusing me. They’re good parents except when it comes to the things I mentioned. I love them and I don’t want to lose them. What do I do??
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • What would you do if your kids were worthless like mine?

    Best answer: theyre not worthless cause god dont make junk, youre the one that needs to change your attitude
    Best answer: theyre not worthless cause god dont make junk, youre the one that needs to change your attitude
    6 answers · 19 hours ago
  • Would you classify my mother as a psycho?

    Best answer: Is this out of the ordinary behavior for her? If so, something is wrong and you need to get her help and get out of the situation ASAP. If this behavior is not new and you've seen this before, in that case, it might just be how she reacts to stressful situations. In either case, I think you should show more... show more
    Best answer: Is this out of the ordinary behavior for her? If so, something is wrong and you need to get her help and get out of the situation ASAP. If this behavior is not new and you've seen this before, in that case, it might just be how she reacts to stressful situations. In either case, I think you should show more compassion to her instead of labeling her a psycho. You never know what is going on with someone else unless you experience the same things. Also, people usually see what they want to see. So, try not to aggravate her and calm yourself down as it might help her to calm down too.
    9 answers · 2 days ago
  • Help!! My parents are fighting...im scared idk what to do?

    Best answer: You can call for help, either the police, tell your school counselor, or call child protective services. The reference section of your library will have their number, if you can't find it in the front of the phone book. You can also call 911, if something is happening immediately. Or, you can call this number:... show more
    Best answer: You can call for help, either the police, tell your school counselor, or call child protective services. The reference section of your library will have their number, if you can't find it in the front of the phone book. You can also call 911, if something is happening immediately. Or, you can call this number: 1 800 799 7233, the national domestic violence hotline. You can go on line and contact "when georgia smiled", as well. If you are in touch with your real father, or even other relatives, call and tell them what's going on and ask for help. You might also try telling your mother and stepdad how upsetting it is for you to witness their fights, and ask them to try and tone it down when you are present. They need counseling badly. But it will be up to them to go, either individually or together. Meanwhile, you and your little brother are in an environment that is totally unacceptable, and you need to have a place to go, until and if things settle down. Call any or all of these numbers, and someone will help you. Good luck and good wishes !
    7 answers · 2 days ago
  • Am I wrong for feeling this way?

    Best answer: I'm not sure what you're asking if you're "wrong" about. You resent your sister and the kids and the dependency. I understand, but understand this whole scenario is by choice -your choices- and only you can change it. Find your way to supporting yourself and your child, to move yourself out... show more
    Best answer: I'm not sure what you're asking if you're "wrong" about. You resent your sister and the kids and the dependency. I understand, but understand this whole scenario is by choice -your choices- and only you can change it.

    Find your way to supporting yourself and your child, to move yourself out of that situation. It may well mean putting school on hold for a while, finding employment and roommates, etc.
    9 answers · 3 days ago
  • Why do some people think of adopted kids as treated differently?

    It’s been assumed that my parents don’t have that “die for you” love set on stone because I’m adopted. Also that they don’t show any affection or talk fondly of me. This is not true at all, my parents showed equal love to my brother and I (he’s their bio son). But overall, I have met a few people who thought my... show more
    It’s been assumed that my parents don’t have that “die for you” love set on stone because I’m adopted. Also that they don’t show any affection or talk fondly of me. This is not true at all, my parents showed equal love to my brother and I (he’s their bio son). But overall, I have met a few people who thought my parents had a whole “different” love where they were ONLY willing to take care of me, meet my daily needs, but no affection.
    7 answers · 2 days ago
  • Am I wrong for feeling this way towards them? (Yes I'm re-asking, 10pts)?

    I'm 22 and I'm currently prego in college living with my sister. Yes my child has a father. I don't currently work anymore,but soon! I share room with her 2 kids(age 7&5) who have no manners respect & their messy, so is my sis. Their father lives down the street but they don't get along. For... show more
    I'm 22 and I'm currently prego in college living with my sister. Yes my child has a father. I don't currently work anymore,but soon! I share room with her 2 kids(age 7&5) who have no manners respect & their messy, so is my sis. Their father lives down the street but they don't get along. For years I've been annoyed with them but these days it seems as though I just want to bash their heads into the walls. I get annoyed just seeing them alive. No family wants to watch them cause they don't listen.I'm happy when their not here 4 days each month.They tell me I can't touch them or mom will get mad. I can't spank them anymore,just tolerate. From 5am to 10pm at night she constantly YELLS at them annoyed or stay locked in her room so I have to deal with them. Even when working> I clean the house almost everyday,yet it's always a mess, she dont clean, just add to the mess. I cook, they waste it. I drive them to & from school twice a week(she VOLUNTARILY NOW pays my car insurance so I can continue to mainly drive them, yet complain about it),babysit them everyday. She works 2-3 days out the week at hospital.I think because of them I hate kids and I'm about to have one. Must raise MINE better, I don't pay any bills anymore so I can't say much and she IS still letting me stay with a baby.I'm greatfull. I do plan to move out within the next 2-3 years. I CHOOSE not to live with my child's father(that leads to more kids). Am I wrong for these neg. feelings tho? Any serious suggestions?
    8 answers · 3 days ago
  • Why Do Careless People Have Children?

    So I’m 16 and sometimes and I wonder why my father even bothered to have kids when he doesn’t even seem to care that much about them. -He blatantly ignores me if I ask him a question when he could just give me a simple yes or no answer. -He’ll spend hours talking to his friends on the phone but gets irritated just... show more
    So I’m 16 and sometimes and I wonder why my father even bothered to have kids when he doesn’t even seem to care that much about them. -He blatantly ignores me if I ask him a question when he could just give me a simple yes or no answer. -He’ll spend hours talking to his friends on the phone but gets irritated just talking to me for 5 minutes. - One time I asked him where we’re going for the weekend, he got irritated and said, “Why do you always have to hang out with your family? Why can’t you make your own friends?” As if hanging out with your own family is a crime. And when I got upset when he said that he told me I’m “so sensitive.” -He only asks me if I’ve completed my homework and never asks how I’m doing and such. - When I was getting bullied in middle school and was crying all he did was nod his head and continue looking at his phone. My mother is a lot more caring than my father. My dad even has the audacity to say that I’m the rude one. Sometimes I really dislike him, but I am grateful that at least I don’t have a physically abusive father. How do I deal with him?
    6 answers · 1 day ago
  • I was the unplanned child?

    Hi, im a nineteen year old boy I am the youngest of three my brother is twenty one and my sister is twenty five. A couple of weeks ago my brothers friend who i dont really like said to me”at least i wasnt the unplanned child” i kind of shrugged it off and turned it back on him. But then i saw on my brothers phone... show more
    Hi, im a nineteen year old boy I am the youngest of three my brother is twenty one and my sister is twenty five. A couple of weeks ago my brothers friend who i dont really like said to me”at least i wasnt the unplanned child” i kind of shrugged it off and turned it back on him. But then i saw on my brothers phone that he had told this girl that our parents said that i was the unplanned child. My dad got vasectomy im assuming after i was born. Im having a bard time going through my teenage years and i just dont know why i even exist if my own parents who are the people i trust the most didnt want me at all. This has mad me depressed and ive been crying over it a lot.
    16 answers · 5 days ago
  • When you get married do in laws turn into your parents i.e. godfather?

    Best answer: They remain in-laws. A godfather is appointed when you are born, or you appoint one when your children are born. A godparent isn't necessarily a blood relation.
    Best answer: They remain in-laws. A godfather is appointed when you are born, or you appoint one when your children are born. A godparent isn't necessarily a blood relation.
    8 answers · 3 days ago
  • My dad threw away my sweater?

    my friend gave me this over sized sweater because she didn't like it anymore. my dad says it's too big and it could have like, diseases or something on it?? he got super mad at me and told me if i ever accepted anything from my friends again, he'd hit me. i wanted to keep the sweater because it was... show more
    my friend gave me this over sized sweater because she didn't like it anymore. my dad says it's too big and it could have like, diseases or something on it?? he got super mad at me and told me if i ever accepted anything from my friends again, he'd hit me. i wanted to keep the sweater because it was perfectly fine but he took it out of my closet and threw it in the trash. i get yelled at constantly and i eventually got used to it. i could deal with getting yelled at, but i can't deal with him TAKING MY stuff and throwing it away because HE doesn't like it.
    6 answers · 2 days ago
  • My girlfriend's father just proposed to my mother. what do we do?

    the girl i'm dating is about to become my sister! now what?
    the girl i'm dating is about to become my sister! now what?
    14 answers · 5 days ago
  • Why does my 15 year old girl keep seeing things - she’s had it since she was a small child?

    I got her checked out at 3 or 4 years old and nothing was odd. It doesn’t effect her, but some things she describes are those little myth creatures. She is not into fantasy stuff, but it happens. My teen swore that she saw “something” near a soda can on the streets. She picked it up and threw it away.. she doesn’t... show more
    I got her checked out at 3 or 4 years old and nothing was odd. It doesn’t effect her, but some things she describes are those little myth creatures. She is not into fantasy stuff, but it happens. My teen swore that she saw “something” near a soda can on the streets. She picked it up and threw it away.. she doesn’t talk about it much. When she was younger, she’d insist that it’s crazy. I’m not sure what it is, but the descriptions sound like little fairies we read from childhood, etc.
    6 answers · 2 days ago