• My boyfriend doesn't like me spending time with my family. What should I do?

    Best answer: And the controlling starts...

    What you do is get a new boyfriend. This one's going to go wacko on you...
    Best answer: And the controlling starts...

    What you do is get a new boyfriend. This one's going to go wacko on you...
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why won't my ex leave me alone???

    Best answer: My ex did this to me. We agreed to stay friends after the break up because we didn't leave on bad terms - I just left because I wasn't really feeling the relationship for a few reasons. After we were over romantically, I would get a lot of texts asking me to come back to him as a girlfriend, telling me he... show more
    Best answer: My ex did this to me. We agreed to stay friends after the break up because we didn't leave on bad terms - I just left because I wasn't really feeling the relationship for a few reasons. After we were over romantically, I would get a lot of texts asking me to come back to him as a girlfriend, telling me he missed me/still loved me, saying how he still thought about us/what could have been, etc. He even went so far as to say he had "tried" to look around and start dating again, but just couldn't find anyone who had the qualities that I do and reminded me that to him, I was the perfect partner and had everything he looked for and then some.

    Guys can take things hard just like girls can. If they really do care for you, they're going to be sad/disappointed if you decide to end the relationship for whatever reason... especially if it seems random to them (like there wasn't any fighting, cheating, etc.). The best thing to do is be mature and respectful about things. Explain to him WHY you left and explain that you don't exactly "hate" him or anything, it's just you don't think you were working well in a dating sense.

    You have every right to decline talking to him if you really don't wish to have any contact with him or he's bothering/harassing you. You can block his number from your phone (or change yours and ask that others NOT give it to him) and you can block him/delete him from social media. As far as seeing him at college, yeah I can see how that would be a little awkward. Just do you though. Go on about your normal business and don't pay any attention to him. If he would try to approach you, you can handle it two ways - you can talk to him and be nice about it as long as he stays casual (if he mentions dating, walk away) or you can just politely tell him you'd rather not talk to him and move on. If things get too problematic, you can talk to someone from your college's staff or a college police officer if you have those. If things REALLY get out of hand, you can contact the REAL local authorities. Stalking and harassment is absolutely not allowed. If someone breaks up with you, you cannot bully, harass or torment them. If you receive harassing/threatening texts/emails/social media posts, keep them and show them to the proper authorities.

    Good luck - I hope your situation gets better and you're both able to move on and find new people to be with when the time is right.
    6 answers · 19 hours ago
  • HELP!: Can I mate with a giraffe?

    I want to mate with a giraffe so I can have tall kids. Can I?
    I want to mate with a giraffe so I can have tall kids. Can I?
    7 answers · 19 hours ago
  • How do I bring up that I am not ready for sex?

    Best answer: Just TELL HIM: "I just want to hang out with you, nothing more. We can be boyfriend/girlfriend but no pressure for sex. If this is not what you like, then tell me now, so I can move on." I didn't have to tell them any reason why I'm not ready for sex! When he starts moving in to places that are... show more
    Best answer: Just TELL HIM: "I just want to hang out with you, nothing more. We can be boyfriend/girlfriend but no pressure for sex.
    If this is not what you like, then tell me now, so I can move on."

    I didn't have to tell them any reason why I'm not ready for sex! When he starts moving in to places that are not WELCOME, I say NO, and I meant it, and I push him away.

    I've rejected many boys in my younger years, because all they care about is MY BODY. MANY of those guys today? Are still single, with kids, and divorced (yes, I know who they are). They are losers in my universe!

    Go for romance before sex. Guys respect you because you're not EASY!
    8 answers · 1 day ago
  • Is this considered sexual cohersion?

    when my ex boyfriend and i first started dating i had expressed to him that i wanted to wait to have sex with him, however oral sex was fine. whenever i went to his house we would “mess around” but he would constsntly bring up the topic of sex & i always told him i wanted to wait. until one day we were in bed... show more
    when my ex boyfriend and i first started dating i had expressed to him that i wanted to wait to have sex with him, however oral sex was fine. whenever i went to his house we would “mess around” but he would constsntly bring up the topic of sex & i always told him i wanted to wait. until one day we were in bed laying down and all of a sudden he just slipped it in. i told him i wanted to wait once again and instantly felt horrible about what was going on but i didn’t stop him. i felt terrible after, i wish i had been more assertive. what do i make of this?
    9 answers · 2 days ago
  • I can’t stop thinking about that hot older man??

    I’m 24 years old. He had some gray hair so he was probably close to his late 40s or 50s. He was so tall and had the whole daddy thing going on. He kept glancing at me on the train. I think he was interested in me but I was too lost in my own little world to reciprocate. Now I’m sad I blew my chance :’(
    I’m 24 years old. He had some gray hair so he was probably close to his late 40s or 50s. He was so tall and had the whole daddy thing going on. He kept glancing at me on the train. I think he was interested in me but I was too lost in my own little world to reciprocate. Now I’m sad I blew my chance :’(
    6 answers · 20 hours ago
  • Poll: I caught my girlfriend making out with her step brother in my apartment again. How do get them to stop? This is like the third time.?

    She says it's harmless stuff and they're just close, but I notice they use their tongues and do open mouth kissing. Also, he's always coming over when I'm at work. This time they were both on my bed, him with his shirt off and she with just her bra on top but pants on. It's kinda getting out... show more
    She says it's harmless stuff and they're just close, but I notice they use their tongues and do open mouth kissing. Also, he's always coming over when I'm at work. This time they were both on my bed, him with his shirt off and she with just her bra on top but pants on. It's kinda getting out of control. How do I get her to stop inviting him by when I'm at work? I know it's her family and I don't want to offend her but he's getting on my nerves.
    57 answers · 1 week ago
  • Dealing with my ex?

    I need an unbiased opinion. I left my ex 6 years ago. He still hates me for it. he hates me that I am getting child support. Child support has recently increased. He is beginning to tell our daughter horrible things about me and things that happened in the past before our daughter was even born. We told our... show more
    I need an unbiased opinion. I left my ex 6 years ago. He still hates me for it. he hates me that I am getting child support. Child support has recently increased. He is beginning to tell our daughter horrible things about me and things that happened in the past before our daughter was even born. We told our daughter not to tell me about it but she did and now I am dying to confront him. How can I handle this situation
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • I’m seeing a woman twice my age?

    what do you think about that
    what do you think about that
    5 answers · 7 hours ago
  • My girlfriend left me a week before our wedding. I'm just.... I can't even believe yet. What do I do now?

    Best answer: That sucks, man. At this point, it isn't about the 'relationship', that comes later. Right now it is all about canceling contracts and mitigating the damages. Vendors, caterers, whomever, need to be notified and there will likely be penalties to be paid. People will need to be reimbursed for any... show more
    Best answer: That sucks, man. At this point, it isn't about the 'relationship', that comes later. Right now it is all about canceling contracts and mitigating the damages. Vendors, caterers, whomever, need to be notified and there will likely be penalties to be paid. People will need to be reimbursed for any expenses they incurred for travel that cannot be recouped. That is your girlfriend's responsibility and obligation. Once all of this is put to rest and all obligations satisfied, I hope you can get some closure from this girlfriend.

    Silver lining is, better now than later. She's a dingbat and you're far better off without her.
    10 answers · 3 days ago
  • Is 25 sex partners too much for a 22 year old?

    I'm 22 and I've had sex with 25 guys. Is my body count too high for my age?
    I'm 22 and I've had sex with 25 guys. Is my body count too high for my age?
    5 answers · 10 hours ago
  • Is this considered an act of rape?

    Sexually, my boyfriend and I have always worked our way up. We’ve always discussed how I don’t want to have sex yet, but he keeps taking my pants off and trying to do it. Today we actually had sex. I was literally so upset crying in his bathroom after. I know it’s probably not a big deal but I’m overthinking...what... show more
    Sexually, my boyfriend and I have always worked our way up. We’ve always discussed how I don’t want to have sex yet, but he keeps taking my pants off and trying to do it. Today we actually had sex. I was literally so upset crying in his bathroom after. I know it’s probably not a big deal but I’m overthinking...what should I do? Dump him? Talk with him? What do I say? We didn’t use a condom (stupid I know) but I am on birth control. We’ve only been dating for three months. He always tells me how in love with me he is, but is it all a lie?
    6 answers · 11 hours ago
  • Is it wrong to want to be with an older man?

    So there is this guy at my local grocery store and i have a really big crush in him. I know he notices me too because he has made small talk before and he is always looking at me. Im 17 and hes probably around 25-28. He doesnt know how old i am so i dont think its creepy or anything. Ive been thinking about him A... show more
    So there is this guy at my local grocery store and i have a really big crush in him. I know he notices me too because he has made small talk before and he is always looking at me. Im 17 and hes probably around 25-28. He doesnt know how old i am so i dont think its creepy or anything. Ive been thinking about him A LOT lately and sometimes even fantasizing about what it would be like to be intimate with him. Is this weird? What should i do? Is the age difference too big? Thanks in advance for any answers!!
    6 answers · 12 hours ago
  • Why are women so stuck up?

    6 answers · 13 hours ago
  • We are so perfect for one another and are talking about future already is that bad?

    Me and this girl have only been dating for a little less than 3 months but we are just great for each other. We completely get each other’s personalities and are now our best friends. We get along perfectly and our relationship is just great. I have never felt so good about a relationship and a girl. We are only 17... show more
    Me and this girl have only been dating for a little less than 3 months but we are just great for each other. We completely get each other’s personalities and are now our best friends. We get along perfectly and our relationship is just great. I have never felt so good about a relationship and a girl. We are only 17 and 18 and I get it we are young and a relatively new couple, but this is the kind of girl I would like to spend the rest of my life with. Is it bad that I am thinking about this already this early into my relationship?
    5 answers · 13 hours ago