• Is my clit too small?

    i read from the outside it should be pea sized but mine is much smaller, i m thinking like a bit bigger than if you folded a rice grain into a circle. is that healthy? okay?
    i read from the outside it should be pea sized but mine is much smaller, i m thinking like a bit bigger than if you folded a rice grain into a circle. is that healthy? okay?
    11 answers · 2 days ago
  • My wife has some medical condition, so it is very painful for her to have sex! What shall I do?

    We are married for last 4 years. We are generally a happy couple. We both are 30 years of age. No Kids yet. She was not always like this. Recently they developed a cyst (medically known as endometrioma). Her treatment is ongoing. Most of the time she has pain on her abdominal area - it gets worse during her period.... show more
    We are married for last 4 years. We are generally a happy couple. We both are 30 years of age. No Kids yet. She was not always like this. Recently they developed a cyst (medically known as endometrioma). Her treatment is ongoing. Most of the time she has pain on her abdominal area - it gets worse during her period. We have not had proper sex for more than 6/8 months. I love her with very much. Not having a thought of seeing anyone else or visiting brothel. I also have a busy work schedule so most of the time I keep myself busy with work. However, I have my urges. I cannot force it on her because of her condition. I sometimes masturbate. But I am not happy with my sex life. I might sound selfish but the body does not understand. What would you advise? What would you have done if you were in my shoes?
    11 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why won't my mom not let me take birth control?

    I'm 16 and my doctor told my mom that since I have really bad cramps and attitude when I am on my period she could prescribe birth control to help , I think it's fine but my mom doesn't think like me, WHY?
    I'm 16 and my doctor told my mom that since I have really bad cramps and attitude when I am on my period she could prescribe birth control to help , I think it's fine but my mom doesn't think like me, WHY?
    11 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why do people always comment on my body? It makes me uncomfortable.?

    Hi guys. So I'm a 15 y/o girl with a slender build and 34C boobs. I didn't even think that that's a big breast size, maybe even a bit small. But literally every time I wear something remotely tight people comment on my boobs and it's starting to really bother me? Surely I can't be noteworthy to... show more
    Hi guys. So I'm a 15 y/o girl with a slender build and 34C boobs. I didn't even think that that's a big breast size, maybe even a bit small. But literally every time I wear something remotely tight people comment on my boobs and it's starting to really bother me? Surely I can't be noteworthy to the point where this has to happen at the frequency that it does. Do you guys have any idea why people always do this to me? And how can I ask them to stop politely without sounding overly dramatic? Thanks so much.
    8 answers · 3 days ago
  • How do you feel about large areolas?

    I ve been insecure for a very very long time since I realized my nipples looked different than normal. I ve looked at pictures of surgeries to make them smaller. My friend saw this picture of a girl with large areolas and he called them "bologna nipples" and it hurt my feelings a lot because he didn t... show more
    I ve been insecure for a very very long time since I realized my nipples looked different than normal. I ve looked at pictures of surgeries to make them smaller. My friend saw this picture of a girl with large areolas and he called them "bologna nipples" and it hurt my feelings a lot because he didn t know about me and still doesn t and I feel the constant need to fix them. One is different than the other, also. One s kind of inverted and the other is flat? Just tell me your opinion, please. I feel really bad about my body and I m afraid every time my boyfriend wants to do something.
    8 answers · 1 day ago
  • Chronic Bacteria Vaginosis!! Please Help?

    Okay ,I’m 19 years old and I’ve had BV for almost a year now . I’ve been to the doctor several times throughout the year and each time they prescribed me Antibiotics. I’ve been on Flagyl about 5-6 times and Metrogel Twice . They never seems to work ! Not even a little . The only symptoms I have is discharge and... show more
    Okay ,I’m 19 years old and I’ve had BV for almost a year now . I’ve been to the doctor several times throughout the year and each time they prescribed me Antibiotics. I’ve been on Flagyl about 5-6 times and Metrogel Twice . They never seems to work ! Not even a little . The only symptoms I have is discharge and Foul odor . It’s Embarrassing because it’s been constant for a year . It never went away . And it’s messing with my personal life . I don’t like being around others because they can smell it and smells extremely bad !!! I Use Dove Sensitive soap as Instructed. I don’t have sex . I don’t wear tampons and don’t douche . I take probiotics. But Yet , nothing seems to help . I’ve ran out of ideas . And yes , I’ve tried Apple Coder Vinegar as well , and it just make the smell worse if you ask me . I’m in desperate need for advice or something because I can’t continue to live like this . It’s frustrating. And to think , People actually live like this for years . I can’t imagine. I need help ! I’ve been to different doctors and they all just prescribed me medicine and I’m fed up with it !!! No I’m not trying any home remedies because I feel like it’ll only make it worse . And forgot to mention , The last time I went to the doctor they tested me for everything and It was all negative no bacteria was found nothing . But I still have these symptoms. What if it’s something else ?
    5 answers · 12 hours ago
  • How do people with no buttholes go poop?

    This girl at school said she has a medical condition where she doesn't have an anus. I didn't ask her how she poops because I thought it would be rude. So, I'm asking you guys.
    This girl at school said she has a medical condition where she doesn't have an anus. I didn't ask her how she poops because I thought it would be rude. So, I'm asking you guys.
    13 answers · 4 days ago
  • Which woman is under more stress and in need of a sexual release?

    Best answer: the 25 yr old virgin
    Best answer: the 25 yr old virgin
    9 answers · 3 days ago
  • What can help ?

    I have D cup size breasts and because of health reasons I need to reduce breast size . But I don't not want to do it by surgical means although the doctor says its the only way . I have read reviews on journals and the medsites that this Naturalis breast reduction treatment is a workable product . Does any one... show more
    I have D cup size breasts and because of health reasons I need to reduce breast size . But I don't not want to do it by surgical means although the doctor says its the only way . I have read reviews on journals and the medsites that this Naturalis breast reduction treatment is a workable product . Does any one know where to buy this product from stores in New York ?
    6 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why does my vagina become really warm all of a sudden?

    A while ago I was on the school bus and my vagina suddenly became really warm for no reason, like someone had turned a radiator on between my legs, but nowhere else. It went on for like a minute and then stopped. It has happened a couple of times since then. I am only 15 so it's obviously not due to... show more
    A while ago I was on the school bus and my vagina suddenly became really warm for no reason, like someone had turned a radiator on between my legs, but nowhere else. It went on for like a minute and then stopped. It has happened a couple of times since then. I am only 15 so it's obviously not due to menopause,as I have read, and I have also had more periods since. Should I be worried about this and why does my vagina become really warm out of the blue?
    4 answers · 6 hours ago
  • I'm am 16 year old girl and I masturbate 4 times a day is that normal?

    Best answer: There is no normal or not normal here.

    You are masturbating more than most girls. If you think it is bad for you, cut it down. If you do not think it is bad for you, go for it.
    Best answer: There is no normal or not normal here.

    You are masturbating more than most girls. If you think it is bad for you, cut it down. If you do not think it is bad for you, go for it.
    4 answers · 9 hours ago
  • My vagina has a Oder like an onion?

    Best answer: Another fake smelly vagina question.
    Note to male trolls - Women are not obsessed with their vaginas.
    Best answer: Another fake smelly vagina question.
    Note to male trolls - Women are not obsessed with their vaginas.
    5 answers · 2 days ago
  • How to get on birth control?

    Best answer: In Pennsylvania as a "mature minor" you are allowed to consent to contraceptive services and don't need your parents to do it for you. Or you can ask your mom for help. Without knowing her we've got no way of knowing how she'd react, but I imagine it's at least crossed her mind as the... show more
    Best answer: In Pennsylvania as a "mature minor" you are allowed to consent to contraceptive services and don't need your parents to do it for you. Or you can ask your mom for help. Without knowing her we've got no way of knowing how she'd react, but I imagine it's at least crossed her mind as the mother of a teenager with a steady boyfriend that sex may be coming into the picture.

    You need to use condoms until you're in a much more long-term, committed, and tested relationship. But if you want to have the reassurance of a pill/patch/ring, you would need a prescription. Planned Parenthood is a good first stop for things like this if you do not have a family doctor, as they aim to help lower-income people like yourself. You just call them up and say "I'd like to make an appointment to get birth control" and they'll know what to do.
    5 answers · 2 days ago
  • Should I discontinue intercourse with my date for about a month?

    We’ve been intimate a couple of times. I couldn’t help wanting to do it with him those times. However, he’s quite well endowed and it hurt me a bit. He’s not overly agressive but I feel like I’m going to be ripped apart down there any time now. This is going to sound gross, but whenever my hands go anywhere near my... show more
    We’ve been intimate a couple of times. I couldn’t help wanting to do it with him those times. However, he’s quite well endowed and it hurt me a bit. He’s not overly agressive but I feel like I’m going to be ripped apart down there any time now. This is going to sound gross, but whenever my hands go anywhere near my lady parts, such as to clean after I urinate, I can feel the soreness down there still.
    4 answers · 22 hours ago
  • Can I masturbate with Toilet paper instead of using my fingers?

    Best answer: No. Toilet paper is too weak. To masturbate, I enjoy rubbing myself with my index finger to massage my cl*t and using my thumb to push down on my venus mound; and at the same time I like to use my other hand to massage one of my nipples. Doing it in the shower with warm water spraying down on you will also be... show more
    Best answer: No. Toilet paper is too weak.

    To masturbate, I enjoy rubbing myself with my index finger to massage my cl*t and using my thumb to push down on my venus mound; and at the same time I like to use my other hand to massage one of my nipples. Doing it in the shower with warm water spraying down on you will also be really fun!!!!

    It took me a few weeks after starting to masturbate to reach orgasm.

    Maybe you could try using a carrot trimmed to a shape that you like and insert it (warm it up first in hot water). Throw the carrot away after using it; don't put it back in the refrigerator!!!!  I've used lots of carrots over the past few years (they're SUPER FUN!!!!).

    BTW, regarding toys I'd suggest never using a vibrator or an electric toothbrush, because a guy's penis will seem really boring if you get used to a vibrator ('cuz a guy's penis won't buzz at a high frequency).

    However..... for me, sexual pleasure is all in the mind.  Yeah.

    Techniques are helpful but they mean nothing without a romantic & erotic story and a happy ending, at least to me  (meaning that a romantic story needs to have a believable history, a build-up of excitement, lots of honest discussions of feelings between the lovers, expressions of commitment to each other, plans for the future, looking into each other's eyes, feeling their warm breath on each other's faces, smelling each other's breath, nuzzling noses together, the whispering of affection, wet french kissing, sucking on lips & tongues....... lots of stuff like that).

    Watching porn never got me excited. All of the porn that I've seen (not that much) was just generic garbage: bad acting, fake moaning, ridiculously stupid situations, zero plots... basically, it was intellectually insulting.  But at least there wasn't any force or violence.

    And I found it SO ANNOYING that the girls would sometimes be looking at the camera instead of the guy doing her.  That made it quite obvious that the couple didn't care about each other in even the slightest way.

    Add in the fact that there was no compelling story, no love, no intimacy, no affection, no cuddling, no romance, no mutual respect, no history, no future, no giddiness, no nothing.  Plus, I thought that all of the guys looked like selfish horny jerk losers.

    So there was never any reason for me to ever watch porn again after seeing garbage like that.

    Does my assessment of porn mean that I'm a Miss Goody-Goody-Two-Shoes?  Not at all!!!  My fetish would be considered kinda weird. Posted below in my comment are a few links to some erotica stories that I've enjoyed reading (the fetish that gets me REALLY excited are taboo love stories of forbidden romance!!!!).  If you don't like my answer about taboo love, then just post a "yuck" comment and I'll remove that part of my answer and my comment with the links, too.
    4 answers · 2 days ago
  • What does it feel like for two virgins to have sex?

    Best answer: It's just the same as when anyone else has sex, only you'd likely both be nervous. Like with all new sexual partners it will take time to figure out each others likes. Sex should not hurt - if it hurts you know something is wrong so you stop, the idea that sex is supposed to hurt the first time is a myth:... show more
    Best answer: It's just the same as when anyone else has sex, only you'd likely both be nervous.
    Like with all new sexual partners it will take time to figure out each others likes.

    Sex should not hurt - if it hurts you know something is wrong so you stop, the idea that sex is supposed to hurt the first time is a myth: that's not to say that it can't/won't happen but that it shouldn't and so if you do feel pain you know to stop to address the problem rather than feeling you have to carry on to tolerate the pain. It's sex 101; you need to know basics about how your body and arousal work, what to do if you experience problems during sex, and how to have pleasurable sex.

    With all due respect, you're not a child and thus you are more than capable of learning about sex - obviously instincts do go so far in that you do what feels good, but there's a lot more to sex and sex education is important for healthy pleasurable sex. There are many reliable sex education resources available for you to learn about sex, no excuse for not learning this earlier!

    First Intercourse 101 - http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexuality/first_intercourse_101
    From OW! to WOW! Demystifying Painful Intercourse - http://www.scarleteen.com/article/pink/from_ow_to_wow_demystifying_painful_intercourse
    40 Places To Learn Everything You Never Heard In Sex Ed - http://www.buzzfeed.com/nataliebrown/places-to-learn-everything-you-never-heard-in-sex-ed
    15 answers · 1 week ago