• What do you do when it's the middle of the night & you can't sleep?

    Best answer: I read. It doesn't happen often which is good.
    Best answer: I read. It doesn't happen often which is good.
    50 answers · 2 days ago
  • I'm an introvert and whenever I'm with a group of people i always get asked why I'm not talking. What's the best response to this question?

    Best answer: Tell them that you so enjoy the conversation you want to listen
    Best answer: Tell them that you so enjoy the conversation you want to listen
    18 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why do some people, don't like speaking when they wake up?

    I feel the same... and I know others who expirence the same feeling.
    I feel the same... and I know others who expirence the same feeling.
    20 answers · 4 days ago
  • Why do celebrities lie and say they have anxiety, yet they perform in front of tons of people?

    Actors and actresses perform in front of dozens of people on set. Musicians too, but musicians also play in front of thousands of people in stadiums. People who actually have anxiety shake their heads at celebrities faking having anxiety.
    Actors and actresses perform in front of dozens of people on set. Musicians too, but musicians also play in front of thousands of people in stadiums. People who actually have anxiety shake their heads at celebrities faking having anxiety.
    9 answers · 4 hours ago
  • Why are women do rude to other women?

    As a woman, you can be the nicest person to them but some take every action towards them as a challenge, why is that?
    As a woman, you can be the nicest person to them but some take every action towards them as a challenge, why is that?
    12 answers · 1 day ago
  • Serious question: Is it okay to go your whole life without someone and dying a virgin?

    Best answer: I think this is the kind of thoughts you have when you're young. It seems like you'll never meet anyone and you'll die old and alone. There's several problems with this kind of thinking, and you realize it when you're older. First, this is called "catastrophizing." That means that... show more
    Best answer: I think this is the kind of thoughts you have when you're young. It seems like you'll never meet anyone and you'll die old and alone. There's several problems with this kind of thinking, and you realize it when you're older.

    First, this is called "catastrophizing." That means that when you're young you think everything is a catastrophe!!! OMG! If I don't have someone right now, I'm going to die alone! In other words, you're making a big catastrophe about it.

    The truth is that you will probably find someone. In fact, there will probably be quite a few people in your life. You probably won't die a virgin, unless you want that. Things may seem desperate now, but they won't be later.

    Second, the truth is that even if you find someone, that magic perfect someone, you still have about a 50% chance of dying without them. In every couple, someone goes first. So the other person is left by themselves. But, the good point is, that still doesn't mean that the second person dies alone. They won't have their one true love, sure, but they might be surrounded by children or grandchildren.

    Third, life isn't about the last moment of your life. It's about everything that happens in between. It's not "dying alone" -- after all, you might fall down at your home and die alone, but it's not that, it's whether there was someone there the rest of the time.

    Anyway, some people want to be alone, and for them it's desirable. Others want to be with people. Chances are, if you want to be with people, you'll find someone to be with.

    So, yeah, I vote with the "it's okay to die alone" crowd. I just don't think that means you'll spend all your years alone.
    19 answers · 4 days ago
  • My doctor just told me to get regular exercise and a better diet for my social anxiety. Wtf?

    So ive battles with social anxiety for years, ever since high school. Im 23. Ive skipped out on interviews, parties, girls, dates, events, opportunities. I just sit and watch my life unfold the exact opposite of the way i wanted it to go. And for the last 6 months, ive exercised 5 days a week, only have about 3... show more
    So ive battles with social anxiety for years, ever since high school. Im 23. Ive skipped out on interviews, parties, girls, dates, events, opportunities. I just sit and watch my life unfold the exact opposite of the way i wanted it to go. And for the last 6 months, ive exercised 5 days a week, only have about 3 drinks per week on saturdays (opposed to every night). And so far ive been getting results. I finally worked up 4 years of courage to speak with my doctor about social anxiety , and everytime i made my appt they ask what for, and i would always hang up. So i walk into my clinic, shake my doctors hand and spill my guts about how everything i have tried has seemingly failed and that i am looking for alternatives, specifically medication. He lirerally paused and said he gets many patients like me and that i need to keep working at it. Then he takes my blood pressure and does a physically.. says "you seem like a fine healthy young man" shakes my hand and shoos me out of the room... Doesnt offer a therapy or anything.. what the f? . Any social anxiety cures thatworked for you?
    9 answers · 20 hours ago
  • Are narcissists possessed by the devil?

    15 answers · 3 days ago
  • Why am I happy that I nearly lost a lot of money?

    I was in Vegas yesterday so I wanted to make a large bet on a game. But the betting kiosk I was using would not accept my bet due to reaching the daily limit. I was upset since I was so sure my team would win. But they lost 38-7 so I would've lost $1500. So why am I happy like I won money when I didn't win... show more
    I was in Vegas yesterday so I wanted to make a large bet on a game. But the betting kiosk I was using would not accept my bet due to reaching the daily limit. I was upset since I was so sure my team would win. But they lost 38-7 so I would've lost $1500. So why am I happy like I won money when I didn't win a single penny?
    6 answers · 2 hours ago
  • Why Does My Brother Have A Low IQ When He's Smart In Many Ways?

    My brother took a few IQ test recently because he was curious like they were official IQ test not a cheap online IQ test, he took it at college. According to the test he took, His IQ is 70-75 depending on the test. I don't understand this. I mean my brother is not super smart. He does suck at math and... show more
    My brother took a few IQ test recently because he was curious like they were official IQ test not a cheap online IQ test, he took it at college. According to the test he took, His IQ is 70-75 depending on the test. I don't understand this. I mean my brother is not super smart. He does suck at math and science a lot and has a hard time understanding stuff like complex politics for example. However, in other areas, he is beyond. He can paint and draw realistic images, he doesn't even need to keep staring, he can look at someone for 20 seconds, then look away and start painting and he can paint a high-quality realistic painting, he can also do sculptures. He is a good musician, he a pro in playing piano, guitar, violin. He doesn't even need a music sheet (even though he's already a fluent music sheet reader), he's good enough to hear a song for the first time and play it by ear pretty accurately, he can play through a whole music book of Beethoven and play in almost perfect accuracy. He speaks 5 languages, Italian, German, Japanese, Spanish and French and each language he picked up pretty quickly. He's actually impressive and surprises many people. Career-wise my brother is currently trying to be a music composer for like Broadway plays and stuff. How is it that my brother is stupid in science, math and politics, scores a low IQ but is a genius with music, language and arts? Does this mean IQ test are mostly based on ones ability to do math and science? I'm confused?
    6 answers · 4 hours ago
  • Is there anything to like about a narcissist who follows a herd mentality?

    Best answer: I tend to have a very difficult time liking narcissists for any reason.
    Best answer: I tend to have a very difficult time liking narcissists for any reason.
    6 answers · 4 days ago
  • I keep having these thoughts, and I can't control them, they are very violent things, and some very sexual, and I can't stop them, why?

    I just can't quit thinking about things like this, some are violent yes, and other things, I don't know why, and its not just violent things, I also can't help but think of a ton of different scenarios for things that have happened and things that I think might happen, like I can't stop thinking... show more
    I just can't quit thinking about things like this, some are violent yes, and other things, I don't know why, and its not just violent things, I also can't help but think of a ton of different scenarios for things that have happened and things that I think might happen, like I can't stop thinking about how people I know are ditching me for no good reason, and how they are all **** talking me, even though they never did, and **** like that. Why
    6 answers · 10 hours ago
  • Is it mental to have sex w an animal?

    Best answer: It is an illegal and unhealthy thing to do ,it is also cruel to the animal
    Best answer: It is an illegal and unhealthy thing to do ,it is also cruel to the animal
    12 answers · 3 days ago