• Would you give your life to save your spouse?

    Best answer: The gunman is lying. He will either kill you both or kill neither of us. I would go for him, Nothing to lose and everything to gain.
    Best answer: The gunman is lying. He will either kill you both or kill neither of us. I would go for him, Nothing to lose and everything to gain.
    22 answers · 2 days ago
  • I feel happier spending time with my colleague than my husband . Would this be cheating?

    Before you judge me , you need to read the whole thing . Mine is a three year old marriage , and I won't call it a bad one , the first year was heaven , second was good too but something has been going wrong the last couple of months . Our relationship is getting sour , we fight more than usual and then... show more
    Before you judge me , you need to read the whole thing . Mine is a three year old marriage , and I won't call it a bad one , the first year was heaven , second was good too but something has been going wrong the last couple of months . Our relationship is getting sour , we fight more than usual and then don't make up as quick as before . Moreover my husband is often sarcastic and mean . Also sometimes I feel , he doesn't care for me and respect me like he used to . Now there is this guy at work , who joined some five months back , we work in the same unit of the office and he has been so attentive and caring since day one . I feel so happy and relaxed those eight hours of work when I am with him . He cares if I have eaten or not and also tries to guide me at work when I am faltering , and he is immensely helpful too . We are not having an affair or anything of that kind , but when I come back to my husband , I miss that comfort and ease since my husband doesn't care for me like before . I don't want to divorce him too but what I am doing with my colleague , would that be called cheating
    28 answers · 1 day ago
  • Cheating husband wants me back?

    So here's the deal. About a month ago I found out through reading my husband's messages that he had been talking with another woman. I confronted him and he said it was just a kiss. But he was really confused so he said I needed to move out for two months while he figured out how he felt. We went to... show more
    So here's the deal. About a month ago I found out through reading my husband's messages that he had been talking with another woman. I confronted him and he said it was just a kiss. But he was really confused so he said I needed to move out for two months while he figured out how he felt. We went to counselling and he continued to reassure me it was over. Then I found out through reading his messages again they had been dating and sleeping together still that whole time. I booked a flight home for about a month away and he continued to refuse to let her go and acted very disinterested in our marriage though claiming he still loved me. I started to gain some hope then found out again they were still talking. Now he's at rock bottom has no money cause I paid all the rent before and wants me back and is acting highly emotional and suicidal. I think the other woman has left him. He is 43 years old and I am 25, he is very immature and has a lot of issues. How do I cope with this?
    25 answers · 1 day ago
  • Husband wants me to put on minibikini top with tiny c string in his friend's pool party?

    We will go to his friend's pool party today and he insists that i wear the mini bikini top that is only bit bigger than my nipples and tiny c string that i have to shave because it can barely cover my vagina area. There will be about 10 guys and i am one of the two females. I asked him why I need to dress like... show more
    We will go to his friend's pool party today and he insists that i wear the mini bikini top that is only bit bigger than my nipples and tiny c string that i have to shave because it can barely cover my vagina area. There will be about 10 guys and i am one of the two females. I asked him why I need to dress like that and he said another girl will do the same too. my husband always tell me about his fantasy of seeing me naked in front of guys and creampied by a group of men. He will masturbate and fantasize about me being impregnanted by one of those guys without knowing who actually impregnates me. Will this pool party turns into the creampie reality? I don't know why but i think it is hot and kinda expect this will happen today like these guys just use me as a tool for sex and belittle me in front of my husband, and my husband does know that i am on ovulation now. Should I tell him about my feeling?
    41 answers · 4 days ago
  • Am I the problem in my marriage?

    We’ve been married for almost 3 years now and I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong. I’ll be blatant, I don’t feel like having sex at all, in fact the idea of sex just doesn’t appeal to me, I feel as though I’m ASexual and he just doesn’t respect this or understand it. He pushes for sex and gets angry at me when I... show more
    We’ve been married for almost 3 years now and I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong. I’ll be blatant, I don’t feel like having sex at all, in fact the idea of sex just doesn’t appeal to me, I feel as though I’m ASexual and he just doesn’t respect this or understand it. He pushes for sex and gets angry at me when I don’t give in, he blames me for not wanting to have sex and says it’s because I’m not attracted to him but that isn’t the case. I am struggling with depression and self image issues as well, when I try to improve my appearance to feel more comfortable with myself (new makeup, cutting my hair) he gets angry and says that he likes me better without any makeup and that I shouldn’t change my hair. I feel like I just can’t win, I love him more than anything but I just don’t know what to do. How can I fix this?
    18 answers · 1 day ago
  • Would you be attracted to your spouse if they got fat?

    To put it bluntly, would you still love them if they gained a substantial amount of weight and stopped trying to look good for you? How would that make you feel?
    To put it bluntly, would you still love them if they gained a substantial amount of weight and stopped trying to look good for you? How would that make you feel?
    33 answers · 3 days ago
  • Whos job is it to help with the kids, my husband's or my moms?

    My husband is a local truck driver who works many hours a week. I am in school for my 3rd degree in real estate. I have exams to take and have asked him to watch the kids after work so that I can finish my class (final exam is this Friday). He told me "those kids are not my responsibility, I told you woman,... show more
    My husband is a local truck driver who works many hours a week. I am in school for my 3rd degree in real estate. I have exams to take and have asked him to watch the kids after work so that I can finish my class (final exam is this Friday). He told me "those kids are not my responsibility, I told you woman, that you are to NEVER ask me to watch those kids or help around the house when I work. I get to watch tv and you are a selfish ***** if you ask me to help. They are your moms responsibility to watch, not mine!" What is right? My mom said they are not her kids, she had nothing to do with having them. Is he actually right?
    14 answers · 18 hours ago
  • Husband said adult children (college age) should have to provide own transportation for vacation. What do you think?

    My husband and I have 4 kids - two in college (boys, 21, 19) and two in elementary school (age 8). We obviously had the first two young...then, years later, found out we were having twins (boy and girl!). Here is my question: My daughter recently asked about going to Disney. Obviously that trip will take... show more
    My husband and I have 4 kids - two in college (boys, 21, 19) and two in elementary school (age 8). We obviously had the first two young...then, years later, found out we were having twins (boy and girl!). Here is my question: My daughter recently asked about going to Disney. Obviously that trip will take financial planning. My husband is looking into it and said he will not pay our two older sons' way. I was upset at him for suggesting we'd go without our older boys. He said we took the older boys there twice when they were younger. And that they are at an age where Disney isn't the same as it is for a younger kid. After discussing it, he said they stay with us and we'll pay for their Disney ticket. But they're on their own airfare/transportation. I'd be upset if my parents told me that if my siblings were going. Before I even think about bringing this up to our older boys, do you think my husband is being unfair?
    17 answers · 2 days ago
  • My wife has forced me to choose between her or my mother. I can't lose my mother but I hate the thought of divorce. Who do I choose?

    Best answer: There isn't enough information or background in order to make a sound reply. Why has your wife made this stipulation ? Why haven't you stood your ground and insisted that you and your wife must be supportive of one another? What has your mother done? What's going on with your wife? How long have you... show more
    Best answer: There isn't enough information or background in order to make a sound reply. Why has your wife made this stipulation ? Why haven't you stood your ground and insisted that you and your wife must be supportive of one another? What has your mother done? What's going on with your wife? How long have you been married, your ages, what has the history of this issue been? Please write again, and until you do so, disregard the answers, some of which sound pretty good, but may be based on misinformation or a lack of information. You and your wife should seek some licensed marriage counseling, as well. Good luck,
    11 answers · 11 hours ago
  • Husband prefers watching football over sex?

    Best answer: Sex is very pleasurable and important in marriage life. You need know how guys sexual desire can be increased and strategy to teach him with out bad feeling. 1. Tell him that you can not live like this and you want divorce bc there is no good sex life at all. 2. Bring him to marriage consultant or sex specialist... show more
    Best answer: Sex is very pleasurable and important in marriage life.

    You need know how guys sexual desire can be increased and strategy to teach him with out bad feeling.

    1. Tell him that you can not live like this and you want divorce bc there is no good sex life at all.

    2. Bring him to marriage consultant or sex specialist so that he can teach him know-hows and skills.

    3. He seems has low testosterone level so that he can not properly sex at all. Therefore he just looking porn.

    His testosterone level can be increased by healthy life.
    . Good 7 hour sleeping bc less or too much sleeping will deprive testosterone.
    . Reduce fat less than 20 % bc higher fat will reduce testosterone.
    . Remove stress bc it kills testosterone
    . Stop alcohol.
    . Weight training will boost testosterone.

    Then soon he will recover his testosterone level and chase you

    I did it and i do two times per day.
    18 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is it normal to avoid watching movies with female nudity?

    I don’t appreciate my husband looking at exposed attractive women.
    I don’t appreciate my husband looking at exposed attractive women.
    22 answers · 3 days ago