• I'm so angry and can't let it go....?

    So in the winter I had an affair with a married guy who told me hands down he was leaving his wife. Their relationship was over and hed been on the couch 6 years.He never did and one day he just stopped talking to me. We slept together and we did basically have a relationship. I wasnt proud of it but i did love... show more
    So in the winter I had an affair with a married guy who told me hands down he was leaving his wife. Their relationship was over and hed been on the couch 6 years.He never did and one day he just stopped talking to me. We slept together and we did basically have a relationship. I wasnt proud of it but i did love him. I have talked to a girl I know on facebook about the thing and found out hed also done it to her and she was a mutual friend of one of his wife's friends. We communicated the issue through her. So I told everyone what happened after he texted me telling me how he missed hanging out with me but hes now with his wife. He abandoned me without a second thought. His wife either doesnt believe me or what was said, even though it was communicated to her best friend or she has low self esteem. I also heard he had done this many times before to people...he called the cops on me..and told them I was lieing..now they are posting pics on facebook of them together....and so in love. What kind of justice is that. Will he get what he deserves ?When he would confide in my on how misetable he was. Keep in mind i tried to stop this relationship many times but ended up getting in way too deep. I will NEVER forgive him for calling the police. I went to a gym he worked at part time and now I can't go there anymore because I can't face him.. and it seems he's convinced everyone I was lieing.
    15 answers · 1 day ago
  • Is my parter cheating?

    I m not sure if I am just paranoid or what, but I have the strangest feeling something is going on with him. I would check his phone but he sleeps with it under his pillow usually and he s a light sleeper. The other night he got out of bed just to check a snap chat. And then yesterday he got a snap chat and then... show more
    I m not sure if I am just paranoid or what, but I have the strangest feeling something is going on with him. I would check his phone but he sleeps with it under his pillow usually and he s a light sleeper. The other night he got out of bed just to check a snap chat. And then yesterday he got a snap chat and then immediately closed his phone when he saw it and layed it face down. When confronted about it, when I asked him to show me who it was, he got really defensive and started getting mad and still didn t show me. He admitted yesterday that he forgot his ex girlfriend was on his snap chat friends and she will occasionally hit him up. I know for sure that s not true because one day he was showing me how he doesn t have many friends on there, and she wasn t one of the o ones on there. What do I Do? Am I crazy?
    11 answers · 1 day ago
  • My dad keeps staring at my boobs and breasts?

    i have this feeling everytime im around him. whenever i get uncomfortable, he says things like "you think im a pervert?" and "i used to change your diaper" and other creepy things. its disgusting but he told me if i keep doing it he will take my computer away, because he sees this as... show more
    i have this feeling everytime im around him. whenever i get uncomfortable, he says things like "you think im a pervert?" and "i used to change your diaper" and other creepy things. its disgusting but he told me if i keep doing it he will take my computer away, because he sees this as misbehaving, which is totally wrong. i dont know who to tell, since my mom tells me its all in my head, and i should just stop, so she does nothing about it. im not paranoid, and i know that for a fact. hes a creep, and i just want him to stop. should i tell someone about this?
    15 answers · 3 days ago
  • Should family come before your lover?

    Best answer: Honestly it depends on the person , how he feels about hsi family / lover. There's no correct answer.
    Best answer: Honestly it depends on the person , how he feels about hsi family / lover. There's no correct answer.
    14 answers · 3 days ago
  • My Boyfriend DUMPED ME ON OUR 1 YEAR ANNIVERSARY BUT I WANT HIM BACK HELP?

    ok so im 23 and my soon to be 32 year old boyfriend of 1 year dumped me while we were out "celebrating" the night before our anniversary ( we were suppose to go to brunch in the morning) so he surprises me by picking me up and taking me to a bar the night before he was even going to make a cake for me and... show more
    ok so im 23 and my soon to be 32 year old boyfriend of 1 year dumped me while we were out "celebrating" the night before our anniversary ( we were suppose to go to brunch in the morning) so he surprises me by picking me up and taking me to a bar the night before he was even going to make a cake for me and as soon as we got there he started talking sh*t he started saying my lips where chapped so i grabbed my lip gloss and i re glossed my lips and he said it wasnt good enough then he saw i was pissed and started talking about how he's glad i finally got a nice weave and why didnt i get an expensive nice weave before now and my hair lately was looking dry old and ugly then i said "if you loved me at all you wouldnt be say this" and he said thats the problem i cant fall in love with you you think time equals love you and your parents both thing i need to be proposing and fallin in love because were at the one year mark and im not even close to that and started saying i let myself go i wasnt on his education level and i couldnt have a intellectual conversation with him if i tried because im still in college and he has 3 degrees so when we left the bar he started saying i wasted his money why would he spend all this money an a anniversary weekend and a gift for me and i cant even make him fall in love or "keep myself up" and i "used him " and dumped me he even told my parents he didnt want me anymore but i want him back cause i feel gulity for not being a better gf am I CRAZY?
    28 answers · 5 days ago
  • MY DAD IS TROUBLE AND I DONT T KNOW HOW TO GET HIM OUR OUR LIVES? Help !?

    I m 17. My dads 75. He s an alcoholic living in a council flat, shitting everywhere and he landlady wants him out. We can t take him back because he s been kicked out by social services. The local council are doing nothing to help us out. We don t want to deal with his **** but we re his only family. People always... show more
    I m 17. My dads 75. He s an alcoholic living in a council flat, shitting everywhere and he landlady wants him out. We can t take him back because he s been kicked out by social services. The local council are doing nothing to help us out. We don t want to deal with his **** but we re his only family. People always call us when he s out and about laying half naked, drunk. We dont want to have anything to do with him but we can t escape: what should we do? He can t go rehab, care home- nothing!!! It s too much I feel like i can t breathe half the time. He s taken over my life I have nightmares about him! It s so embarrassing because he used to be wellknown and respected in the area and I can t escape all the mental stress I have to deal with people making remarks about our situation. Can someone please help,especially if you re from the Uk?!
    6 answers · 1 day ago
  • Did he mean something by this?

    I went back to school to finish my degree last year and had attraction/chemistry with a professor. He'd always ask my opinion about the class and we'd talk about life, work, etc in office hours. He'd always look at me with this kind of admiration. Since Ive finished my degree and need a letter of... show more
    I went back to school to finish my degree last year and had attraction/chemistry with a professor. He'd always ask my opinion about the class and we'd talk about life, work, etc in office hours. He'd always look at me with this kind of admiration. Since Ive finished my degree and need a letter of rec., I asked him. Yesterday I went to his office and I was wearing shorts. He looked me up and down and stared at my legs. He is married. Why would he intentionally stare at my legs in front of me?
    5 answers · 21 hours ago
  • I messed with a married man and now I feel like karma is going to get me?

    Best answer: We all make mistakes in life! You realise that it was a mistake, and will probably be more careful and sensible in future. He needs to take responsibility for his marriage, of course.

    Karma is more about lessons than punishment.
    Best answer: We all make mistakes in life! You realise that it was a mistake, and will probably be more careful and sensible in future. He needs to take responsibility for his marriage, of course.

    Karma is more about lessons than punishment.
    6 answers · 2 days ago
  • My gf beat me up!?

    So my gf and I are a lesbian couple who’ve been together almost 3 years. We have always had a great, loving relationship up until this incident. We don’t live together but we’re always together. About a week ago when this incident occurred, she was over my place. We got into a stupid, petty argument over some girl... show more
    So my gf and I are a lesbian couple who’ve been together almost 3 years. We have always had a great, loving relationship up until this incident. We don’t live together but we’re always together. About a week ago when this incident occurred, she was over my place. We got into a stupid, petty argument over some girl commenting on her Instagram pics. Anyways the argument escalated and I said “Go kill yourself like your pathetic mother.” A little background info on my gf is her mom suffered from severe bipolar/depression, and drug abuse and killed herself a few years prior. So anyways after I said this, I immediately regretted it, but it was too late my gf punched me in the mouth. I tried fighting back but she’s much bigger and stronger. She basically beat the sh*t out of me. I was crying and screaming until she stopped and left. I haven’t seen her since this incident but we’ve talked on the phone. She keeps apologizing saying she blacked out, and it won’t happen again. I believe her cus she’s never shown signs of violence in the past. But I still don’t feel like I should just forgive and move on so easily. Please help. I’m at a loss.
    24 answers · 6 days ago
  • My girlfriend doesn't want me to go on small trip to LA!!!?

    My friend asked me to go to LA(first time ever) in a small trip with him in January so I tell my girlfriend about it and her response was "NO". She said that this is supposed to be "OUR" thing and that I shouldn't go with my friend. She was yelling at me about how I was choosing him over... show more
    My friend asked me to go to LA(first time ever) in a small trip with him in January so I tell my girlfriend about it and her response was "NO". She said that this is supposed to be "OUR" thing and that I shouldn't go with my friend. She was yelling at me about how I was choosing him over her but the thing is that I never made plans to go to LA with her(I have talked with her about traveling places, we have also planned going to Europe in summer). I am not sure how I feel. I feel like she doesn't want me to travel without her. Like she wants me to take her everywhere I go, but I also like to do some things without her because we do almost everything together. Any opinions, what do you think? And what do I do? (After talking about this situation, she got really mad at me and left the house!)
    5 answers · 1 day ago
  • Is it wrong to want to be alone with my boyfriend during this?

    Best answer: Well, apparently he has a close relationship with his grandmother. Can't change it. And if you can't accept it, move on. Cuz it's not going to change as long as she's among the living. And if she's loud, mouthy and etc., your boyfriend already knows how she is. He has known her all his... show more
    Best answer: Well, apparently he has a close relationship with his grandmother. Can't change it. And if you can't accept it, move on. Cuz it's not going to change as long as she's among the living.

    And if she's loud, mouthy and etc., your boyfriend already knows how she is. He has known her all his life. Apparently he accepts it.

    And from what you describe, she doesn't particularly like anyone, so she has not singled you out. You're not her first victim or dislike and you won't be her last.

    She's miserable i guess? some people like to wallow in their misery. She seems like "one of those".

    You have to figure out what to do. Accept it, or reject it and move on. Her behavior is not about you. It's about her.
    9 answers · 7 days ago
  • Incredibly confused with life?

    I was with a girl for five years. We never married but we have two children together. She has a good job and I have kind of taken a back seat so she can work her way up. I have a decent job but it's not something I can advance at. Recently she left us, and I found out later that she is already with another... show more
    I was with a girl for five years. We never married but we have two children together. She has a good job and I have kind of taken a back seat so she can work her way up. I have a decent job but it's not something I can advance at. Recently she left us, and I found out later that she is already with another man. I am the primary care for our two children, whom I love more than life itself. I am constantly trying to make sense of what is happening. Our relationship wasn't the best but it's something we should of worked at more. I am left heartbroken and terrified. I do not know where to go in my life and I find it somewhat pathetic that I am taking to yahoo answers for this, but I just have no idea where to go. I feel like I would not be here if it wasn't for my kids, as they are truly the only thing that gets me up every morning. I am terrified of her trying to take them from me, because that would literally kill me. These babies are all I have. Any advice that isn't from family would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.
    4 answers · 6 hours ago