• My girlfriend left me for another guy and now wants me back?

    Best answer: She broke up with you because she wanted to be with that guy. At the time the four years you were together and the love you had for her didn't matter to her. All that matter to her was that guy. So, it didn't work out with that guy. He probably didn't want to have anything to do with her. But now she... show more
    Best answer: She broke up with you because she wanted to be with that guy. At the time the four years you were together and the love you had for her didn't matter to her. All that matter to her was that guy. So, it didn't work out with that guy. He probably didn't want to have anything to do with her. But now she turns back to you, pouring her heart out with apologies. Did she care when she ripped your heart when she broke up with you? No, she didn't. So, why should you care about how she feels today. If she could do that to you after being with you for four years then she will do it again. Are you willing to risk it and get your heart broken again? I can understand that you still have feelings for her. But she cannot be trusted. And if you get back with her then every day you will wonder if she is going to leave you again. You need to keep in mind that when she broke up with you was because she didn't love you anymore and had given her heart to that other guy. Find someone that you can love and trust.
    12 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 hours ago
  • How do I cope with another man raising and putting his hands on my baby son?

    Best answer: It's sad that she would want to move far away. How can you play your role as his dad if she does that? She is so selfish. Her first priority is your son. Your son needs his father to be there for him. And not her boyfriend. I think that you need to get in touch with a lawyer asap. Your lawyer will tell you what... show more
    Best answer: It's sad that she would want to move far away. How can you play your role as his dad if she does that? She is so selfish. Her first priority is your son. Your son needs his father to be there for him. And not her boyfriend. I think that you need to get in touch with a lawyer asap. Your lawyer will tell you what you need to do.
    19 answers · Family · 1 day ago
  • So desperate for a relationship - I can't lock one in?

    I want to be in a relationship so much. I am a chronic dater. On my free time I go on dates. Some times it's three in one day. Then I find someone I like. We go on a few dates. I lose interest or they lose interest. It's a constant cycle. My feelings get hurt when I like someone more than they liked me. I... show more
    I want to be in a relationship so much. I am a chronic dater. On my free time I go on dates. Some times it's three in one day. Then I find someone I like. We go on a few dates. I lose interest or they lose interest. It's a constant cycle. My feelings get hurt when I like someone more than they liked me. I feel sad and exhuasted over the time and effort I put in. I'm sure it goes the same way for a man when I'm not interested. My goal is to be in a loving relationship with a compatible partner. I have tried dating apps. Meeting people out. I have no shortage of men trying to get a date with me. It is hundreds of offers a week. I have too many options. I have a big social media account with random dudes following me because of my appearance.. 😩😩 I get hit on in the shops... I can't find the one. I feel my standards are quite reasonable. I'm looking for a connection. I'll date men who earn less. Who are overweight. I'm sad now because I was dating a guy for the last month and it has been blissful. He stopped calling yesterday. I invested so much of me. I can't stand this feeling of being hurt.. but I don't want to be single any more. Note: I read all of the dating articles. Don't have sex until many dates in. Don't call or text too much. Arghh... it's so much work Help. More advice is needed. I don't want to be lonely.
    33 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • Why my boyfriend doesn't want to get married?

    I've been dating a guy for 5 years now, but ever since we started dating from the third day his mother has showed in every little possible way, that she doesn't like me. She started being disrespectful, even if I tried being nice she kept reapeting how another girl wanted to share her number with my... show more
    I've been dating a guy for 5 years now, but ever since we started dating from the third day his mother has showed in every little possible way, that she doesn't like me. She started being disrespectful, even if I tried being nice she kept reapeting how another girl wanted to share her number with my boyfriend and that she can't understand why he didn't took it because he obviously deserved better. She did so much more. I talked to him and told him yo talk with her and he didn't, he took it the wrong way. He doesn't believe me when I told him everything she was doing to me. He ended up saying that I was jealous of his mom. So I started ignoring that, and kept trying to win her but I have failed. Instead he ends up spending more time with her than the usual. I get to spend only two days a week with him and only for 6 hours max. I talked to him about getting married, but always have excuses. I talked to him about breaking up and he doesn't want to break up. Help. I'm 23 and he is 24.
    46 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • Is it bad that I sometimes talk about sex with my brother (I'm a girl)?

    I'm 20, he's 21, and we've always been close because we're so close in age. We don't talk about sex regularly, but occasionally we do and we don't feel awkward about it at all. For example, the other day I told him that I'd hooked up with our mutual friend and we briefly talked about it.... show more
    I'm 20, he's 21, and we've always been close because we're so close in age. We don't talk about sex regularly, but occasionally we do and we don't feel awkward about it at all. For example, the other day I told him that I'd hooked up with our mutual friend and we briefly talked about it. I didn't give him details or anything, but I told him how it happened and what led up to it cause he was curious. He's done the same thing to me, like once he hooked up with one of my friends and then the next day he just openly told me about it. I know how many people's he's slept with, and he knows how many people I've slept with. We have no problem discussing sex. Is this normal or is it bad?
    8 answers · Family · 10 hours ago
  • My wife wants me to choose, her or my mother, who do I pick?

    I can always get another wife but we have two kids together. My mother and she had a fight last summer and won't speak. Christmas was hell because of it and I kept telling my wife to be the bigger person. This made her more mad. Christmas Day was a big fight in front of the kids and my mother wasn't even... show more
    I can always get another wife but we have two kids together. My mother and she had a fight last summer and won't speak. Christmas was hell because of it and I kept telling my wife to be the bigger person. This made her more mad. Christmas Day was a big fight in front of the kids and my mother wasn't even around. My mother had called my wife a b.tch last summer and my wife was mad originally cause my mother kept rolling her eyes if we did something with my wife's family who my mother dislikes. I already lost my father for my mother as I cut him out of my life for her and now I fear I might lose my wife for her. At the same time I can get a new wife, I don't know if I can live without my mother. Who should I pick? My wife and I had a fight this weekend when she found out I check on my mother on the way home from work each day and the wife gave me the ultimatum. I know when I tell my mother this afternoon she will be glad and want me to choose her as I'd move in with her if I get divorced. I asked the kids what they think but my 9 year old son got really upset that we might divorce. My daughter was mad about something else and didn't care. So who do I pick?
    16 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 5 hours ago
  • Are you lonely most of the time?

    Best answer: I'm rarely lonely and those times when I am I have my memories.
    Best answer: I'm rarely lonely and those times when I am I have my memories.
    129 answers · Other - Family & Relationships · 5 days ago
  • How to do I tell someone we are not actually friends?

    I got speaking to someone at work someone who is a bit of a loner. We got to know each other a bit, We exchanged gifts at christmas, however I was fairly new to the company didn t know anyone and they was someone to talk to. Now I ve got to know people this person I ve tried talking less and less to but they always... show more
    I got speaking to someone at work someone who is a bit of a loner. We got to know each other a bit, We exchanged gifts at christmas, however I was fairly new to the company didn t know anyone and they was someone to talk to. Now I ve got to know people this person I ve tried talking less and less to but they always stop as they pass and say Hi and chat about things. Now to make things worse they have said round the office that "They ve never had a friend before" and they were really happy. This person hasn t done anything wrong, they are an amazing person, just my partner wouldn t like me having them as a friend. How do I break it to this person we aren t friends, just work colleagues? Without totally destroying their world. They have come out of their shell a lot more. or am I just on a path to destroy their world? or would it best to let them have the illusion that they have a friend?
    9 answers · Friends · 21 hours ago
  • Should I get mad that my Boyfriend watches porn?

    I looked on my boyfriends search history and saw that he had been watching porn. We have had this talk before and he knows that it bothers me but he still does it. We have a very active sex life but when he does it it just makes me feel like I have to compare to what he’s watching & my body isn’t as good as the... show more
    I looked on my boyfriends search history and saw that he had been watching porn. We have had this talk before and he knows that it bothers me but he still does it. We have a very active sex life but when he does it it just makes me feel like I have to compare to what he’s watching & my body isn’t as good as the girls he watches it just makes me feel insecure. Should I be mad? Or is it normal
    6 answers · Singles & Dating · 13 hours ago
  • How do I give good head to my boyfriend?

    I am not so experienced in this field and I know I totally suck at it. Bless his heart for being so nice about it. I really want to be able to pleasure him though. How can I do better?
    I am not so experienced in this field and I know I totally suck at it. Bless his heart for being so nice about it. I really want to be able to pleasure him though. How can I do better?
    6 answers · Singles & Dating · 13 hours ago
  • Is this cheating?

    If I shag my ex one last time before I get married? I’m planning on meeting him for one more night after my hen do. I haven’t seen him for nearly 10 years but he was the best sex I ever had and he would definitely be up for it again. Is it really cheating if it’s just one time and I’m not married yet?
    If I shag my ex one last time before I get married? I’m planning on meeting him for one more night after my hen do. I haven’t seen him for nearly 10 years but he was the best sex I ever had and he would definitely be up for it again. Is it really cheating if it’s just one time and I’m not married yet?
    19 answers · Engagements & Weddings · 18 hours ago
  • I’m 21 and he’s 40?

    I’m a 21 year old female and I think I’m in love with a 40 year old man...I am physically attracted to him but i feel that it’s much deeper than that. We have this mental, maybe even emotional connection without even verbally communicating with each other. It’s crazy, I’ve never had this before. And i feel his... show more
    I’m a 21 year old female and I think I’m in love with a 40 year old man...I am physically attracted to him but i feel that it’s much deeper than that. We have this mental, maybe even emotional connection without even verbally communicating with each other. It’s crazy, I’ve never had this before. And i feel his presence; when he’s gone it’s like my body notices he’s left the room. I found myself staring into his eyes, which I never do to people because I’m like socially awkward lol, but it doesn’t get awkward between us. Other than all this chemistry we have, I just find him so damn gorgeous. There isn’t another male that has ever made me feel like this or got my attention like he has. I just want to be physical with him as well as look after him, but I’m wondering if these feelings are normal and does this count as love? He’s all I think about and I worry about him a lot.
    10 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • My boyfriend got angry with me about what we would do in the circumstanc if we broke up how we would split the house we were buying together?

    He got so mad and said that I was cheap and that money was more important to me than a relationship. I've worked hard my whole life to buy a house and don't want to risk it. We havent been the most stable of couples. We've been together for 2 years but breakup for a few days almost every month. He got... show more
    He got so mad and said that I was cheap and that money was more important to me than a relationship. I've worked hard my whole life to buy a house and don't want to risk it. We havent been the most stable of couples. We've been together for 2 years but breakup for a few days almost every month. He got so angry that he said he was going out to cheat on me. He threw away all our pictures and isn't speaking to me? I'm scared to start a conversation because I don't want to be verbally abused. Should I just leave and move out? He's a very honest man and I trust him very much but I just wanted to agree on what would happen just in case. Am I wrong and what should I do?
    20 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • Would slapping your kid in the face be considered child abuse?

    Best answer: As a Police Officer, that is what I would have called it.

    I was an abused child who became a cop. I had no patience with abusive parents.
    Best answer: As a Police Officer, that is what I would have called it.

    I was an abused child who became a cop. I had no patience with abusive parents.
    24 answers · Family · 2 days ago