• What should I be doing in life at age 16?

    18 answers · 9 hours ago
  • My best friends dad hit on me what should I do?

    I know this is a weird question but I’m not sure what to do. My best friend invited me to go to her uncles because her family was drinking and having fun. My best friends dad started texting me and was like come over it would be so much fun we all love you and how he loves me so much and just creepy things and what... show more
    I know this is a weird question but I’m not sure what to do. My best friend invited me to go to her uncles because her family was drinking and having fun. My best friends dad started texting me and was like come over it would be so much fun we all love you and how he loves me so much and just creepy things and what time will I be arriving and just all this stuff. I thought it was kind of strange but I brushed it off and figured he was just drunk. I arrive and start taking shots and dancing with her little cousins just having fun. Her dad kept waving me to come outside but I kept ignoring it and because I started getting pretty uncomfortable with that I thought that was creepy and weird. He then stands by me in the kitchen and grabbed my butt like hard. It was so weird and it took me by surprise even her little cousin saw and gave the strangest look. I followed my best friend to the bathroom and I told her what happened and she freaked out. I decided to leave because I was so incredibly creeped out. Now I feel like not even wanting to hangout with my best friend or see her because I’m just so incredibly creeped out and I don’t think it will be the same when her and I hang out and I just feel so awful. I’ve had experiences in the past with older guys sexually assaulting me so it brought back some really bad vibes and now I just don’t know what I should do. I’m 18 and this man is like 50. Should I continue to hangout with my best friend or should I wait a while?
    19 answers · 3 days ago
  • Should I forgive my bully?

    I'm in 8th grade and this one kid has been bullying me since sixth grade. He just started to leave me alone. Some people keep saying I'm being stuck up for not forgiving him, telling me people make mistakes, etc. He would spread rumors of my being lesbian, try to hit me, call me hoe, slut, etc., even say he... show more
    I'm in 8th grade and this one kid has been bullying me since sixth grade. He just started to leave me alone. Some people keep saying I'm being stuck up for not forgiving him, telling me people make mistakes, etc. He would spread rumors of my being lesbian, try to hit me, call me hoe, slut, etc., even say he was going to kill me and a bunch of other crap. The school did nothing, so my "friends" think it wasn't that bad. Should I forgive him?
    22 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why is it difficult for me to make female friends?

    I’m a female. All my life it’s been hard for me to make a lot of female friends. I’m kinda shy & don’t talk much. I’m close minded sometimes and I don’t even know what to talk about. Is that the reason ?
    I’m a female. All my life it’s been hard for me to make a lot of female friends. I’m kinda shy & don’t talk much. I’m close minded sometimes and I don’t even know what to talk about. Is that the reason ?
    42 answers · 6 days ago
  • Should I message a girl that has a boyfriend, as long as it's appropiate?

    If it's just appropriate or friendly stuff like "Hello" "How are you" "What have you been doing lately". Is that ok?. Since I have female friends that have boyfriends and they dont care as long as I'm acting appropiate.
    If it's just appropriate or friendly stuff like "Hello" "How are you" "What have you been doing lately". Is that ok?. Since I have female friends that have boyfriends and they dont care as long as I'm acting appropiate.
    8 answers · 15 hours ago
  • How do I cope with a BFF cancer patient who wants me to do things against her family's wishes?

    I cannot afford to alienate her family from my life, and when I agree with them over her she gets mad at me. I am tired of being in between them, it's causing my Mom and I undue stress, we are both disabled and I am my Mom's sole caretaker. Just how much loyalty do I owe my sick friend if all this stress is... show more
    I cannot afford to alienate her family from my life, and when I agree with them over her she gets mad at me. I am tired of being in between them, it's causing my Mom and I undue stress, we are both disabled and I am my Mom's sole caretaker. Just how much loyalty do I owe my sick friend if all this stress is making my Mom and I sick? I am getting to the point where I don't want to see her anymore. Any advice?
    9 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why does he hate when i get attention?

    This guy is always making fun of the way i look and me being unattractive. Whenever a pretty girl is in the room he points at me and tells everyone im jealous of her and tries to impress the pretty girl by making fun of me but whenever someone says im pretty or compliments me he gets upset or says thank you to the... show more
    This guy is always making fun of the way i look and me being unattractive. Whenever a pretty girl is in the room he points at me and tells everyone im jealous of her and tries to impress the pretty girl by making fun of me but whenever someone says im pretty or compliments me he gets upset or says thank you to the person who complimented me.
    6 answers · 4 hours ago
  • Should I help her ?

    Now we have a girl that works as a cleaning lady in our house, she is 19 and homeless, she never mentioned her parents. She can’t afford to go to college, she stays on the streets, I asked mom if she can stay at our place for a short period of time until she finds a place to stay but mom refused. I just feel bad... show more
    Now we have a girl that works as a cleaning lady in our house, she is 19 and homeless, she never mentioned her parents. She can’t afford to go to college, she stays on the streets, I asked mom if she can stay at our place for a short period of time until she finds a place to stay but mom refused. I just feel bad about her because it’s very cold outside nowadays and her clothes are very light and worn out, her shoe is teard up and I don’t think she eats any proper meal !! I even asked my mom if she can have lunch or dinner with us at times but she refused as well ,because she hates the idea of her sitting with us on the same table and it’s the only time the family sit together and communicate, I told she can eat alone in the kitchen but she said she is old enough to look after herself ! What can I do to help her ? Any advice ?
    7 answers · 22 hours ago
  • How can I be weirder?

    People say I’m only the SECOND weirdest person in my class, and weirdest girl by far. I have to take this one guy down to regain my title. How do I act weirder?
    People say I’m only the SECOND weirdest person in my class, and weirdest girl by far. I have to take this one guy down to regain my title. How do I act weirder?
    6 answers · 9 hours ago
  • Why are newcasters so hot?

    Why are newcasters so hot?

    Best answer: Yes, she is hot.
    Best answer: Yes, she is hot.
    7 answers · 1 day ago
  • Quick Question?

    What if I have a friend who is always joining me in a game and then if I go afk and she doesn't see, she then tells me I'm ignoring her and she yells at me. I don't know what I should say. She has been giving me anxiety for a long time, and I just don't know what to say to her anymore.
    What if I have a friend who is always joining me in a game and then if I go afk and she doesn't see, she then tells me I'm ignoring her and she yells at me. I don't know what I should say. She has been giving me anxiety for a long time, and I just don't know what to say to her anymore.
    6 answers · 10 hours ago
  • Im getting bullied? Help?

    So basically Im a girl and these 2 boys are bullying me for no reason I did nothing to them at all. I leave them alone and they approach me. They dont hit me but they call me names. Idk what to do they r annoying.
    So basically Im a girl and these 2 boys are bullying me for no reason I did nothing to them at all. I leave them alone and they approach me. They dont hit me but they call me names. Idk what to do they r annoying.
    31 answers · 6 days ago
  • Is this abuse? Or normal?

    My friend was over at my house and we were laying on my bed talking, when his shirt came down a bit and I saw that he was all bruised up and cut. When I asked him about it he started crying and wouldn't talk, but he finally told me that his dad has been hitting him. He showed me his back and it was all scarred... show more
    My friend was over at my house and we were laying on my bed talking, when his shirt came down a bit and I saw that he was all bruised up and cut. When I asked him about it he started crying and wouldn't talk, but he finally told me that his dad has been hitting him. He showed me his back and it was all scarred and messy, but he told me I couldn't tell anyone or he'd get in trouble. Should I at least tell my parents? Or is that okay/normal?
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • My friend stole from me and blocked my number :( what do I do?

    I knew her since I was in 5th grade and she is 4 years younger than me (I am 15 right now). I invited her to my house and she slept over and the next day I noticed one of my necklaces was gone. I don't really care if I will never get it back, but it really sucks that she would steal from me. I texted her but... show more
    I knew her since I was in 5th grade and she is 4 years younger than me (I am 15 right now). I invited her to my house and she slept over and the next day I noticed one of my necklaces was gone. I don't really care if I will never get it back, but it really sucks that she would steal from me. I texted her but she never replied to my text message.
    5 answers · 6 hours ago
  • I have no freedom.?

    I am 14 years old and I have no freedom at all. My situation is really quite simple. I am not allowed to go hang out with my friends. The reason for this to my parents is since all my friends are older being 16 and 17 that all they want is sex. They think I am going to get raped or murdered. I am a lot more mature... show more
    I am 14 years old and I have no freedom at all. My situation is really quite simple. I am not allowed to go hang out with my friends. The reason for this to my parents is since all my friends are older being 16 and 17 that all they want is sex. They think I am going to get raped or murdered. I am a lot more mature than my age suggests. I asked to go to the movies or out to eat with one of my guy friends. I said that I had absolutely no issue with them meeting him like they do all my friends. They said I was not allowed in the car with any boy. This to me seems a bit ridiculous. They have an app to track me on my phone to see which streets and area I am on at all times so I don't see the problem since I'd be in a public place the whole time. This really upsets me that they don't trust me to make the right decisions. I've always been a good kid, I don't act out, I've never really gotten in trouble maybe sometimes for an attitude that's it though They said they trust me but not boys. Nothing would happen when in a public place. My parents said they could drive both of us to the movies, then sit in the parking lot for us to finish. But I don't wanna be babysat. All I am asking is for some freedom. I know they'll always see me as their baby. They don't want to see me grow up. I get it. But at the same time, you can't keep your kid sheltered their whole life it leads to resentment. How do I make them see that I know they mean well, but that I can make good decisions myself now?
    37 answers · 1 week ago