• Sell wife s jewelleries.?

    I have lost counts how many times my wife of three years have taken off her wedding ring after arguments, but this time I am planning to sell all her jewelleries she has given back to me. This is not teach her lesson but it s to show her that if the wedding ring doesn t mean anything to her, neither I.
    I have lost counts how many times my wife of three years have taken off her wedding ring after arguments, but this time I am planning to sell all her jewelleries she has given back to me. This is not teach her lesson but it s to show her that if the wedding ring doesn t mean anything to her, neither I.
    19 answers · 1 day ago
  • Could a 23 year old guy marry a 40 year old woman?

    I met this woman who I love but she's old enough to be my mom. I'm 23 and shes 40.... but she is so amazing and I really think it could work out. She has 2 divorces and 3 kids. We want to have at least 2 more while she can still have them. Im already all moved in with her. We've been together for 3... show more
    I met this woman who I love but she's old enough to be my mom. I'm 23 and shes 40.... but she is so amazing and I really think it could work out. She has 2 divorces and 3 kids. We want to have at least 2 more while she can still have them. Im already all moved in with her. We've been together for 3 months and were discussing marriage. She already told me she would say yes if I proposed. I think we would have a wonderful life together. Should I go ahead and do it?
    17 answers · 1 day ago
  • Husband puts work before family?

    My husband works a commission job. He makes VERY good money. Financially, we are in great shape which I know not many people can say. I work full time as well. The problem is in order for him to make the money he makes he’s working 6 days a week Mon - Sat from 6:30AM - 7:00PM sometimes later. He NEVER sees the... show more
    My husband works a commission job. He makes VERY good money. Financially, we are in great shape which I know not many people can say. I work full time as well. The problem is in order for him to make the money he makes he’s working 6 days a week Mon - Sat from 6:30AM - 7:00PM sometimes later. He NEVER sees the kids. He missed every sports game last fall and the kids cry. He’s never home for dinner and he’s out the door in the morning before the kids. it’s breaking my heart. He won’t take any sick days it’s always me when the kids are sick. I’m tired of it all. He loves his job and refuses to look elsewhere for work. I’m so heartbroken for my kids I feel at times like they don’t even have a father in their lives. Any suggestions? I’m considering a possible divorce. I feel like a single mother as it is.
    13 answers · 21 hours ago
  • Make wife initiate sex? My Wife is (almost) always coy when I initiate sex and asks ‘what are we doing’, ‘what do you want’ type questions?

    It’s very clear what I’m trying to do but her questions are a total mood killer. Even though she seems to really enjoy sex your behavior before tarnishes the experience for me. I have told her this before but of course I get blamed for either overreacting or reacting to something not worthy of reaction. Should I... show more
    It’s very clear what I’m trying to do but her questions are a total mood killer. Even though she seems to really enjoy sex your behavior before tarnishes the experience for me. I have told her this before but of course I get blamed for either overreacting or reacting to something not worthy of reaction. Should I just stop initiating sex in hopes that she will do it?
    14 answers · 1 day ago
  • Just found out my husband cheated on me BEFORE and AFTER married?

    My husband & I together for10 years since college as each other’s first love & things were great.We got married 1month ago,I found out he’s been cheating, he denied. After showing him ‘proof”, he admitted he been seeing a girl (from same company;he even invited her to our wedding) before we got married. I... show more
    My husband & I together for10 years since college as each other’s first love & things were great.We got married 1month ago,I found out he’s been cheating, he denied. After showing him ‘proof”, he admitted he been seeing a girl (from same company;he even invited her to our wedding) before we got married. I found out after we got married he still texted the girl(like emotionally attached to her)& they still went out.He said he will never see her again. The man I trusted for 10years & was kind & loyal to me(maybe we got stressed before wedding).I afraid he wanted to only get benefits from me.He said he loves me for real.I asked him to come clean of everything, he said only about that girl he liked but they were over & he will try to re-build trust among us from his actions from now on & start over.Things got better. Weeks later I found out he slept with prostitute during his guy trip half year before he proposed to me.I told him to come clean & he denied few times. He then admitted he had slept with prostitute & some girl from clubbing for that trip & his friends took him to those dirty massage places for few times.He said he is sorry for those things & he wants me to be with him for his change to be a good husband. My guts told me he did have sex with that girl(but he kept denied before).He just never come real clean to me.I told him he's not mature & hes always curious about things.I still believe hes kind inside.I dont want this10years relation & marriage ends right away.
    11 answers · 13 hours ago
  • Do you think this could help a marriage?

    Best answer: you already know you should cut contact with this person because you are attractive to that person, sounds to me that you are looking for reinforcement but also sounds to me that you know clearly what to do as well, stay away and focus on working on your marriage if that is what you want to do, otherwise you know... show more
    Best answer: you already know you should cut contact with this person because you are attractive to that person, sounds to me that you are looking for reinforcement but also sounds to me that you know clearly what to do as well, stay away and focus on working on your marriage if that is what you want to do, otherwise you know better you are asking for trouble., Best of luck
    9 answers · 3 days ago
  • What should I do if I just started a new job but have to leave due to something?

    I just started a job last month that pays $40,000 per year. However my husband just got offered a new job across the country and it starts next month. My company is a small accounting company and when I leave I have to look all over again in my new city we move to. What should I do?
    I just started a job last month that pays $40,000 per year. However my husband just got offered a new job across the country and it starts next month. My company is a small accounting company and when I leave I have to look all over again in my new city we move to. What should I do?
    10 answers · 9 hours ago
  • Is this a sign of insecurity or just over protective?

    Is my husband controlling? is he insecure? Whenever I go to the bathroom and I take my phone with me, does he have any right to tell me not to bring it inside? He said, why do you have to take your cellphone with you, just leave it here outside. And one time I was already inside the bathroom and he knocked the door... show more
    Is my husband controlling? is he insecure? Whenever I go to the bathroom and I take my phone with me, does he have any right to tell me not to bring it inside? He said, why do you have to take your cellphone with you, just leave it here outside. And one time I was already inside the bathroom and he knocked the door because he wanted to just get my phone.. There is another scenario, I was about to change my clothes and he was like, why do you have to change your clothes when you're only going to your parents house? why do you have to look beautiful.. where are you going?
    13 answers · 1 day ago
  • How to leave my wife?

    So I’ve been married over just over two years and in that time we’ve separated twice had an illegitimate child that I was lead to believe was mine, there’s been infidelity on both sides, mostly hers but I strayed once, and there’s been aggressive violent behavior again on both sides mostly me defending myself from... show more
    So I’ve been married over just over two years and in that time we’ve separated twice had an illegitimate child that I was lead to believe was mine, there’s been infidelity on both sides, mostly hers but I strayed once, and there’s been aggressive violent behavior again on both sides mostly me defending myself from knife attacks or crazy fists. Background: I’m a full time university student who works graveyard at a casino to pay the bills and she is a stay at home house wife taking care of our two legitimate and one illigetimate children. I can’t afford two pay her way and mine. I don’t have the time to take the kids and leave her. And I care about her so I don’t want to **** her over (or any of my three kids) and just leave the whole scene. So how do I get out of this? We tried therapy and it didn’t work. I just feel so trapped that it makes me contemplate very bad things, not that I would act on them but I don’t like having my head full of negativity. Also the thought of staying just inspires me to stay drunk as often as financially possible vs when we agreed to separate and I had no urge to drink and was sober for over a month until she said she wanted to work things out.
    17 answers · 2 days ago
  • What has happened when kissing your husband feels like kissing your mom or brother?

    Been married 13 years this is been going on for the past 4.
    Been married 13 years this is been going on for the past 4.
    11 answers · 1 day ago
  • I don't exactly understand what is cheating? Like whatever this guy does count as cheating or not?

    Flirting with a co worker, touching her playfully, saying her I love you, saying I want to kiss you, asking for a coffee and asking to exchange number.. The co worker is not interested and always say no to everything. However co worker does talk to him in a friendly way sometimes flirt back but has not given him... show more
    Flirting with a co worker, touching her playfully, saying her I love you, saying I want to kiss you, asking for a coffee and asking to exchange number.. The co worker is not interested and always say no to everything. However co worker does talk to him in a friendly way sometimes flirt back but has not given him her number or has gone out. The guy is married and have kids, does that mean he is cheating on his wife? Cz technically he hasn't done anything with his co worker just flirting.?Does this count as cheating.?
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why is so many women in so called social media now days???

    I hate my husband has fb Twitter on top of that his half friends are females. I m so furstrated when I saw the likes he puts next to their pictures before he marry me. I wish there s no social media I hate it female wants attentions. No wonder why divorce rate is high it s because of cockroaches online.
    I hate my husband has fb Twitter on top of that his half friends are females. I m so furstrated when I saw the likes he puts next to their pictures before he marry me. I wish there s no social media I hate it female wants attentions. No wonder why divorce rate is high it s because of cockroaches online.
    9 answers · 23 hours ago
  • How long does everyone think is an appropriate amount of time to be together before proposing or getting married and at what age?

    Obviously when you feel the time is right and all that, but if you were to give a number of years. Im just curious to get an answer and perspectives from many different people.
    Obviously when you feel the time is right and all that, but if you were to give a number of years. Im just curious to get an answer and perspectives from many different people.
    8 answers · 15 hours ago
  • What should I do in this situation?

    I slept with a tenant while my husband went to work - and now he is asking me for more sex, he said he loves me and if possible he wants to run away with me - I only gave him a ******** but no sex - he promise he won't say anything but is asking me not to chase him away - it happened only yesterday and I am... show more
    I slept with a tenant while my husband went to work - and now he is asking me for more sex, he said he loves me and if possible he wants to run away with me - I only gave him a ******** but no sex - he promise he won't say anything but is asking me not to chase him away - it happened only yesterday and I am confused please help me thank you
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • Life Advice?!?

    Best answer: This is something that you and your husband must discuss. You are ready - he is not. Neither of you are right or wrong. You will need to talk this through calmly, listen to each other and respect each others reasoning for their current mind set. You are ready for a kid, thats great. But you must also respect that... show more
    Best answer: This is something that you and your husband must discuss.
    You are ready - he is not. Neither of you are right or wrong. You will need to talk this through calmly, listen to each other and respect each others reasoning for their current mind set.

    You are ready for a kid, thats great. But you must also respect that your husband does not feel ready. Take the focus away from yourself and listen to your husband with open ears. "I'm ready for a kid. I have step kids and love and get along with them. I dont feel that he is really considering.... I'm ready to be called mom" --> Its all me, me, me, me, me. I'm not trying to be rude, but it's a joint decision based on both within the marriage being ready, not what one half of the marriage wants.

    You say he thinks it's not time yet, that he thinks you need to be more financially stable. Look at his point of view without angry or frustration. Is he right? Does he have a good, stable income? Are you working to bring in some savings? Can you survive on one wage or can you afford day care costs for you to return to work? You have step kids, am i right to assume they are your husbands kids who he already financially supports? Will a one wage household support those kids, yourself & husband and a new child?

    Talk it through, listen to each other, communicate and compromise. Try and find a solution to his 'it's not time yet'. If he has valid reasons, accept them and see if you can do anything to ease those concerns. Work together to get on the same page in life.
    If it's money, look at finances and see if you can save more, cut costs etc. If you dont work, look at finding a job to bring in extra money.

    Good Luck.
    11 answers · 2 days ago