• Is it cheating on my husband if i’ve performing oral sex on my best friend’s husband? We rarely have sex. I just give him oral?

    Best answer: cheating is all in the mind everything is legal until and unless u get caught...go live ur life
    Best answer: cheating is all in the mind everything is legal until and unless u get caught...go live ur life
    25 answers · 10 hours ago
  • Should I let my wife raise our children jewish?

    Best answer: The globe doesn't offer citizenship, therefore you are not a global citizen. Do you not pay taxes to any government? Do you not follow the laws of where you reside? You don't pay taxes to the globe, and you don't follow laws the globe made. Also, you should have talked with your wife about this issue... show more
    Best answer: The globe doesn't offer citizenship, therefore you are not a global citizen. Do you not pay taxes to any government? Do you not follow the laws of where you reside? You don't pay taxes to the globe, and you don't follow laws the globe made. Also, you should have talked with your wife about this issue before making her your wife. In my point of view, you have no right to tell her not to raise the kids Jewish. She's Jewish, and it sounds like you're probably Jewish but for some reason are rejecting that identity. Unless you made these views and feelings known to her previously, she had every right to assume the kids she had would be raised Jewish. You've gone off the deep end and decided to have some very radical views and beliefs, not her. She's keeping with tradition and behaving exactly as you'd expect a Jewish woman to behave. It's you who's acting very differently. So you expect her to give up all she holds dear for you? smh. Self-centered much? Also, it's natural for humans to be tribal. Tribalism is how we've survived. Because of our intelligence, we tend to have a lot of different thoughts and opinions. So we are separated. We are not like a swarm of gnats or like an army of ants. We are individuals. But we recognize the need to be together to keep the species going, to stay alive. So we join with those who share our common values. That has helped protect us against some others who don't share our commonality, and might want to come and raid our village. (in times past.) Today, this tribalism is still at play, and is still for the most part very beneficial. It helps build a tight family community in which to raise children. It helps to encourage everyone to make their part of the world a better place. Do you really feel that you should be as connected to a random person in Polynesia as you are to your neighbor? Of course we have our differences. It doesn't mean we hate one another, it just means there are differences. Random people thousands of miles away don't feel close to or connected with us, and neither do we feel close to or connected to them. We have entirely different cultures, views, and sometimes even values. And most significantly, we have differences in geography. How can you feel close to people you will never meet and who are thousands of miles away? This global citizen thing is b/s. I suggest you and your wife embrace your commonalities. You obviously have many, or else you would not have fallen in love. What you do have in common, is what will shape your child the most. As for her raising the kids to be Jewish, you have absolutely no right to expect her to not do that. If you felt they shouldn't be raised Jewish, you should have told her before you married her. I suspect she never would have accepted your offer of marriage if you had made your feelings known about this from the get-go. Is that why you didn't previously discuss this with her?
    22 answers · 4 hours ago
  • Is a wife's use of "toys" for her self-gratification every bit as bad as her husband watching porn for his?

    isn't she cheating on her husband by not saving her desires for him?
    isn't she cheating on her husband by not saving her desires for him?
    26 answers · 1 day ago
  • I am having an affair and got engaged to my fiance' last night. Should I leave my wife now or wait until Christmas is over?

    Best answer: Am confused, why didn't you get a vasectomy if you didn't like kids ? I mean, sure, the first one could have been an accident or a mistake, but anything after that is on you. As far as when to move out ? Right now would be a good time as any, they are probably more attached to their mother than to you... show more
    Best answer: Am confused, why didn't you get a vasectomy if you didn't like kids ?

    I mean, sure, the first one could have been an accident or a mistake, but anything after that is on you.

    As far as when to move out ? Right now would be a good time as any, they are probably more attached to their mother than to you anyways so not much will be missed.
    27 answers · 2 days ago
  • How do you live in a sexless marriage at just 36 years old?

    Wife just has a bunch of excuses or finds any little stupid thing for us not to be intimate. We can go anywhere from 4 to 7 weeks without any intimacy. She’s 41 and my just 36. This isn’t normal!!! Now if I cheat then it’s my fault but why would any woman put their husband in a position like this or drive them... show more
    Wife just has a bunch of excuses or finds any little stupid thing for us not to be intimate. We can go anywhere from 4 to 7 weeks without any intimacy. She’s 41 and my just 36. This isn’t normal!!! Now if I cheat then it’s my fault but why would any woman put their husband in a position like this or drive them elsewhere? Love fades and I feel my love for wife fading as I don’t think she’s just interested in me anymore.
    13 answers · 7 hours ago
  • Why do so many people believe it's a bad idea for a newly wed couple to have a baby right away?

    Best answer: 1. Early marriage is statistically at high risk of divorce. Adding the stress of childrearing before the couple has a chance to establish a strong marriage is adding to the risk of failure. If the marriage doesn't survive (or survives but just barely) the child is the biggest loser in the deal. 2. Children are... show more
    Best answer: 1. Early marriage is statistically at high risk of divorce. Adding the stress of childrearing before the couple has a chance to establish a strong marriage is adding to the risk of failure. If the marriage doesn't survive (or survives but just barely) the child is the biggest loser in the deal.

    2. Children are expensive, and the earning power of a teen-ager or a 20-year-old is limited.

    3. When the newness of married life and parenthood wear off, the parents may come to regret giving up the freedom they could have had as young single adults before marriage. They were free to study, travel, and experience life as independent adults with all the options of life open before them. That chance won't come again in life.
    16 answers · 1 day ago
  • Married and co-sleeping...?

    I'm a 33 year old male. I've been married to my wife, who is 29 for 9 years. Due to my demand, our previous 2 children who are now 9 and 13 were sleeping in their own beds at a relatively normal age for sleeping alone. However, our latest child (who is also the first child my wife chose to breastfeed for a... show more
    I'm a 33 year old male. I've been married to my wife, who is 29 for 9 years. Due to my demand, our previous 2 children who are now 9 and 13 were sleeping in their own beds at a relatively normal age for sleeping alone. However, our latest child (who is also the first child my wife chose to breastfeed for a full year after birth, if that means anything...) is 3 years old. My wife chose to have him sleep in our king size bed with us so she didn't have to get up multiple times a night to feed. I was ok with that. But now he is 3½ years old, and even after multiple demands to move him to his own room (which I completely remodeled 4 years ago and put a crib in that he hasn't used one single time), she keeps him in the bed with us. I've threatened to move out if I don't get our bed to "just us", on several occasions... But it didn't do a thing. So tonight I said I'm moving to the spare room if he isn't out of our bed right now... And her response was "do what you gotta do". So at this moment, I'm laying in a spare room of our house on an air mattress... Because I am completely over sharing our bed with my child every single night for almost 4 years straight and never ever being able to just roll over and snuggle with my wife any time I want. I feel like she would let me walk out of the house and never return before she goes back to having our bedroom be ONLY ours. Any thoughts on my issue would be greatly appreciated!
    17 answers · 1 day ago
  • I love a married man!!:( Please help.?

    I love a man,really love him!!! He is married and has a kid and they are expecting their second baby!!! His wife is really beautiful and the luckiest woman in the world.... They are married almost 6 years.... I can't forget him.He doesn't know i exist :( They both are English and he loves his wife so... show more
    I love a man,really love him!!! He is married and has a kid and they are expecting their second baby!!! His wife is really beautiful and the luckiest woman in the world.... They are married almost 6 years.... I can't forget him.He doesn't know i exist :( They both are English and he loves his wife so much and cares about her :( I am not ugly but not as beautiful as his wife... Even if he loved me i would never be with him cause he is married.Being with him is impossible for me. Please help me.... Btw he is so richer than me.
    10 answers · 8 hours ago
  • Sex with wife,s niece?

    my wife,s niece wants to do sex with me who is 19.i want also I m 33.what you think?
    my wife,s niece wants to do sex with me who is 19.i want also I m 33.what you think?
    9 answers · 2 hours ago
  • Married to an only child.?

    I am married to only an only child. My life has become a living hell, if I have a different opinion to hers, she sees that as a criticism. I have to deal with silent treatments which can last for a month sometimes. If ever say a no to anything I am in trouble. What should i do since I am unable to have a fruitful... show more
    I am married to only an only child. My life has become a living hell, if I have a different opinion to hers, she sees that as a criticism. I have to deal with silent treatments which can last for a month sometimes. If ever say a no to anything I am in trouble. What should i do since I am unable to have a fruitful conversation with her.
    10 answers · 13 hours ago
  • Why is it easier for women to move on than men after a breakup or divorce?

    My ex wife moved on within a few months but I'm still sad and depressed about it 3 years later. I haven't even dated since. With all my relationships it's been harder for me than her. Why is that?
    My ex wife moved on within a few months but I'm still sad and depressed about it 3 years later. I haven't even dated since. With all my relationships it's been harder for me than her. Why is that?
    9 answers · 6 hours ago
  • Is it wrong not to make love to your husband because your in pain down there?

    Best answer: Your husband should be understanding and considerate enough to not want to cause you pain. Your husband loves you (or so one would presume) and would want to know if he’s hurting you. Talk to him about what’s going on - and then see your medical professional to make sure it’s nothing serious. If it needs... show more
    Best answer: Your husband should be understanding and considerate enough to not want to cause you pain. Your husband loves you (or so one would presume) and would want to know if he’s hurting you.

    Talk to him about what’s going on - and then see your medical professional to make sure it’s nothing serious. If it needs treatment, they’ll be able to prescribe something or recommend the best steps.
    14 answers · 2 days ago
  • My wife wants my children that are all under the age of 10 to pay "$500.00 each" in rent, And she insist they pay this rent?

    I don t get child support because my first wife passed away 3 years ago, Just this year I have remarried, with her understanding I have these kids. We all live in her place and I pay the bulk of all the bills, and pay for the care of my children. The children don t cost her a cent but she wants them paying rent... show more
    I don t get child support because my first wife passed away 3 years ago, Just this year I have remarried, with her understanding I have these kids. We all live in her place and I pay the bulk of all the bills, and pay for the care of my children. The children don t cost her a cent but she wants them paying rent anyway. Can she actually do this with them all being minors legally? She doesn t have anything to do with them, because she doesn t want a relationship with them, I understand, if I need help with them I ve hired a nanny to care for them while I m at work or taking responcibility of something else.
    32 answers · 4 days ago
  • Husband won t let me hang photos of deceased father in our home. What would you do?

    Best answer: compromise and have them hung up in the toilet.
    Best answer: compromise and have them hung up in the toilet.
    9 answers · 12 hours ago
  • My husband is a sex addict?

    I do my best to satisfy him, but this is too much. I can’t have sex 5 times a day. This is too much. What do I do?
    I do my best to satisfy him, but this is too much. I can’t have sex 5 times a day. This is too much. What do I do?
    9 answers · 17 hours ago
  • What to do with an unfaithful husband?

    32 answers · 4 days ago
  • Woman I’ve been seeing has threatened to tell my wife about us?

    The woman is pregnant and wants to keep the child. She is quite young so I don’t understand why she would want to keep it. I told her I refused to help her raise that baby because I already have a kid with my wife. She wants me to leave my wife and move her into my home so we could raise the baby together. I told... show more
    The woman is pregnant and wants to keep the child. She is quite young so I don’t understand why she would want to keep it. I told her I refused to help her raise that baby because I already have a kid with my wife. She wants me to leave my wife and move her into my home so we could raise the baby together. I told her she was absolutely insane for even thinking of something like that. I’m in a no-win situation here. What can I do?
    46 answers · 5 days ago