• Are you single, married or in a relationship?

    And how old are you?
    And how old are you?
    95 answers · 2 days ago
  • Should I send a video to my boyfriend masturbating?

    I'm 19!!! I don't think this is a good idea. I'm kind of paranoid about certain things kept on my phone. I'm also worried about what if, one of my parents catch me? It would be kind of embarrassing being caught with my legs wide open like that. What if someone hacks my phone & take my video... show more
    I'm 19!!! I don't think this is a good idea. I'm kind of paranoid about certain things kept on my phone. I'm also worried about what if, one of my parents catch me? It would be kind of embarrassing being caught with my legs wide open like that. What if someone hacks my phone & take my video & post it on different sites? He makes it so important for me to do it. Idk, I thought about doing it just to turn him on. I'm not try to be narcissistic but, I am obsessed with my body. Should I make a video? And no, i'm not making this up. He really wants me to do this. My friends told me no.
    107 answers · 3 days ago
  • Why do girls seem to hate white guys now?

    129 answers · 4 days ago
  • Poll true or false you will never have kids?

    Best answer: True
    Best answer: True
    128 answers · 5 days ago
  • Why do I not get any pleasure from any kind of sexual intercourse?

    okay so I’m 17 and I’ve been sexually active for a while now and with about 4 or 5 different people (mostly oral). At different times of course. My first time ever I had anal sex with this boy and he fingered me but I didn’t feel any kind of pleasure but I brushed it off because I figured it’s my first time so it’s... show more
    okay so I’m 17 and I’ve been sexually active for a while now and with about 4 or 5 different people (mostly oral). At different times of course. My first time ever I had anal sex with this boy and he fingered me but I didn’t feel any kind of pleasure but I brushed it off because I figured it’s my first time so it’s normal. I went with the same guy again and we did it again and yet I still didn’t feel anything so I just figured hm maybe he’s just not good at it. Then the second guy I gave him a bj and I got pleasure from that more than I did with the real thing. The third guy tried to eat me out and we dried humped and I gave him a bj and again still nothing (besides the bj) it only arouses me because I like being in control but other than that I still felt nothing. The fourth guy (my real first time) I rode him and it didn’t feel bad but it didn’t feel great. Again I brushed that off because first time again. I went with him again and still nothing so at this point I’m thinking maybe I’m the one that isn’t good in bed. But this last one, is the first guy I’ve ever had did something with that I’ve had real feelings for. All he did was fingered me and it felt way better than anything I’ve ever had but still not amazing.. why don’t I feel any pleasure from anyone?
    11 answers · 1 day ago
  • Am I a pedophile if I find sexually mature teenagers attractive?

    Best answer: Legally, yes, but by definition, no. A pedophile is attracted to prepubescent children. Laws use that term for anyone underage, regardless of their physical or mental maturity. Attraction -or more accurately, preference- to teenagers age 15-19 is called "ephebophilia". It's good you don't act on... show more
    Best answer: Legally, yes, but by definition, no. A pedophile is attracted to prepubescent children. Laws use that term for anyone underage, regardless of their physical or mental maturity. Attraction -or more accurately, preference- to teenagers age 15-19 is called "ephebophilia".

    It's good you don't act on it. You don't need to get help, because all "help" groups do is tell you not to act on it. Pedophilia, hebophilia, and ephebophilia aren't things you can control. As long as you don't act on it, you should be fine.
    13 answers · 2 days ago
  • Which famous singer would you like to pound?

    Best answer: Ariana Grande
    Best answer: Ariana Grande
    13 answers · 8 hours ago
  • My boyfriend saw me masterbating?

    Im 15 yrs old my parents where not at home only my brother was. My brother called my bf home cause they are friends and I did not know about this so I was in the toilet masterbating and I forgot to lock the door and then my boyfriend walked in he saw my completely naked and we have never seen each other naked... show more
    Im 15 yrs old my parents where not at home only my brother was. My brother called my bf home cause they are friends and I did not know about this so I was in the toilet masterbating and I forgot to lock the door and then my boyfriend walked in he saw my completely naked and we have never seen each other naked before and since then it has been really awkward what should I do
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why do the men I date always try to tear me down?

    Out of the few relationships I've been in, all the men have shared one common denominator: they've all been abusive. Either mentally, emotionally or physically. I've been in relationships where men told me I was ugly but that that's why they were with me because they were tired of the pretty girls... show more
    Out of the few relationships I've been in, all the men have shared one common denominator: they've all been abusive. Either mentally, emotionally or physically. I've been in relationships where men told me I was ugly but that that's why they were with me because they were tired of the pretty girls stuck up ways. I've been told that I was ugly by a few men I've dated then they'd express that for some reason they "settled" for me. I've been told that no opinion of mine/nothing I wanted mattered and all I was to do is "cook, clean and get ******". I've been told that I can't/won't be anything in life and that I'd never accomplish anything, not even something as realistic as going to college. I've been slapped, choked, slammed, been dragged by my hair, raped. And of course, I've said nothing. Because internally I was blaming myself and I didn't want to hear anyone else's ridicule. Men I've dated dated have threatened my life. One even put a gun to my head in a heated argument, I thought I was going to die. Men I've dated have made me feel like less than nothing. Made me feel like my mind and emotions we're not of importance, only my body or what I could possibly do for them financially. These situations have made me question my existence. And just when I think I found a man who's different or "the one", he ends up being the same type of guy. What am I doing wrong here? What am I exuding? I feel like in order to stop this I need to just stop dating men period.
    11 answers · 2 days ago
  • My guy friend and I have had sexual interactions but he acts like it means nothing?

    I really have feelings for my best friend and we kiss and make out and I’ve gone down on him a few times before but he tells me he feels comfortable around me enough to do that type of stuff and it doesn’t mean nothing. He has no idea I like him but he’s told me we’re to close and too alike to ever be together I... show more
    I really have feelings for my best friend and we kiss and make out and I’ve gone down on him a few times before but he tells me he feels comfortable around me enough to do that type of stuff and it doesn’t mean nothing. He has no idea I like him but he’s told me we’re to close and too alike to ever be together I feel like he’s not being honest with me.. I don’t wanna tell him how I feel, that’s literally not an option.
    62 answers · 5 days ago
  • Regret having sex for first time (20yo female)?

    Best answer: Learn from this, forgive yourself, rise up and choose to save yourself from now until marriage. If you do, you'll never regret it. Here’s some information about sex before marriage from the books True Love Lasts and Straight Talk About Dating: Having sex before marriage can be harmful to you and to your... show more
    Best answer: Learn from this, forgive yourself, rise up and choose to save yourself from now until marriage. If you do, you'll never regret it.

    Here’s some information about sex before marriage from the books True Love Lasts and Straight Talk About Dating:

    Having sex before marriage can be harmful to you and to your future. This harm could possibly include things like:

    - not feeling good about yourself

    - finding out that having sex causes people to become emotionally attached way too quickly

    - sex becoming the main focus of your relationship

    - finding out that having sex makes people ignore serious problems in the person they’re dating - serious problems that could destroy a marriage

    - failing to realize that dating relationships which have sex as their main focus usually don’t last - until the relationship falls apart

    - not learning to have real communication with each other, to be in touch with the your positive and negative feelings and the feelings of your significant other, to resolve conflicts in a calm constructive manner, to really get to know what your significant other is like in all situations because you’re spending too much time having sex

    - not feeling good about choosing to have sex after your boyfriend or girlfriend says “I love you” and then later finding out he or she was lying to you just to get sex or he or she just has the feeling of being “in love” instead of true love (true love is supposed to be a lifelong commitment)

    - feeling that you need to keep having sex with your boyfriend or girlfriend or else they’ll break up with you - even though you don’t feel good about it

    - finding out that having sex makes people stay in dating relationships much longer than they should

    - making the bad choice to stay in a relationship that you know isn’t good for you because you’re having sex

    - being broken hearted after your boyfriend or girlfriend breaks up with you

    - becoming an angry person after having your heart broken

    - becoming depressed or possibly even suicidal after having your heart broken (please see a professional counselor immediately if you feel depressed or suicidal)

    - feeling that you can’t trust anyone anymore after you’ve had your heart broken

    - feeling horrible that you broke your boyfriend or girlfriend’s heart when you broke up with them

    - getting into the habit of jumping from one sexual relationship to another looking for true love and sadly never finding it

    - getting a sexually transmitted disease

    - getting pregnant

    - becoming a single mother (guys often don’t marry their pregnant girlfriends)

    - having a child who doesn’t have a stable male role model in their life

    - becoming more hesitant about making a lifelong marriage commitment to another person after having your heart broken

    - ending up having problems relating sexually to your husband or wife in marriage because of the sex you had with them (and possibly with others) before marriage

    - becoming divorced (statistics show that couples who have sex before marriage are more likely to get divorced than couples who don’t have sex before marriage)

    (Please remember that you eventually want a 50 or 60 year marriage - not a 5 or 10 year marriage.)

    Hope this helps!

    PS “If it’s a good choice to have sex before marriage, then why doesn’t hardly anyone who waited for marriage say they wish they hadn’t waited? - and why do so many people who didn’t wait eventually say they wish they would’ve waited?” A strong man will choose to put aside his sexual desires before marriage because he knows it's best for the long-term health of the relationship.

    PPS My first suggestion is that you put in the effort necessary to become a strong person (if you’re not already). A strong person has good character (honesty, integrity, trustworthiness), a positive attitude (cheerful, caring, friendly, forgiving, helpful, and respectful), fulfills their responsibilities (for handling pains in a positive way, for always trying to make a good choice, for taking care of themselves, for serving others), puts forth their best effort, and displays self-control (of their body, anger, tongue and money).

    My second suggestion is that you eventually look for this type of person (otherwise you are setting yourself up for a broken heart). Unfortunately this type of person is difficult to find – but save yourself the heartache and don’t settle for less.

    It sounds like you might need some professional counseling to help you talk through this (the depressed and panicky feelings). It's often available for little or no fee through health insurance. Almost everyone needs counseling at some point in their lives.
    5 answers · 3 days ago
  • I can't move on?

    There is a guy that i have liked since my freshman year in hs and he was a senior. We had a cooking class together, sat by each and hung out outside of school alot to work on projects, im a junior now and I see him twice a year when he comes to visit from college. Every time he comes to one of my classes and asks... show more
    There is a guy that i have liked since my freshman year in hs and he was a senior. We had a cooking class together, sat by each and hung out outside of school alot to work on projects, im a junior now and I see him twice a year when he comes to visit from college. Every time he comes to one of my classes and asks to see me, he pulls me out of classes for the rest of the day and we just hang out. We usually go eat or see a movie but nothing ever happens even though there is craazzyyy sexual tension. Hes in college now a couple hours away and i always get attached when he comes to visit, before he leaves he stops by my house and gives me a hug, it has never gone any further but I want it to really bad. Either that or I want to be able to move and stop getting stuck fantasizing over him, what do i do? I don't know if he is waiting for me to turn 18 or what but i feel so stuck.
    5 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why is these days that it seems like less than half of the population wants marriage and kids?

    Best answer: Cost of living has gone way up even if your well off or rich it's expensive to have kids, marriage is a risky money pit if your wife cheats on you with some Arabian or Mexican guy she met on a site like Ashley Madison it's going to cost you big you have to pay the lawyers for court ($600-$850 an hour) pay... show more
    Best answer: Cost of living has gone way up even if your well off or rich it's expensive to have kids,
    marriage is a risky money pit if your wife cheats on you with some Arabian or Mexican guy she met on a site like Ashley Madison it's going to cost you big you have to pay the lawyers for court ($600-$850 an hour) pay her child support if you have kids pay for an apartment if you move out plus food, bills, gas for car it doesn't end.

    Who needs that kind of stress in their life? happy being a single myself!
    9 answers · 2 days ago
  • I am over 40 years old and just dated a few guys all my life. Is it weird to tell the new guy I am dating? What will he think of me?

    Best answer: The solution to your self-imposed dilemma is in the text of your question: New guy. You are under no obligation to tell him anything you don't want to disclose to him. That will come later if the relationship moves forward. For now keep it light, keep it simple, and get to know one another. As an aside: if you... show more
    Best answer: The solution to your self-imposed dilemma is in the text of your question: New guy. You are under no obligation to tell him anything you don't want to disclose to him. That will come later if the relationship moves forward. For now keep it light, keep it simple, and get to know one another. As an aside: if you are age forty and have been on a date with only a few guys he's going to find that a positive thing: By the age of forty it is assumed that a person of either gender will have had multiple partners since the age of eighteen or so. And if he's a keeper he will tell you that he has no concern for the past, only for the present and possibly the future.
    7 answers · 2 days ago
  • Do you think masturbation is disgusting?

    Best answer: Yes, I do. I think it's messed up. That being said I do it all the time. I'm young and have needs. I have a boyfriend and we both do it sometimes when one or the other is not available. We admit we feel really bad after watching an adult film and feel ashamed but in the moment you just need that release we... show more
    Best answer: Yes, I do. I think it's messed up. That being said I do it all the time. I'm young and have needs. I have a boyfriend and we both do it sometimes when one or the other is not available. We admit we feel really bad after watching an adult film and feel ashamed but in the moment you just need that release we are all human. I also think being in tune with your body at that level is great! Just kind of sucks feeling ashamed and stuff...
    9 answers · 8 hours ago
  • If my boyfriend's penis is small, does it matter?

    We where getting it on for the first time and when I saw his penis I was a bit surprised of what I saw. I wouldn't say it was superrrrr tiny but it would be about 4 inches soft and probably 6,7,8 inches when hard which was a big surprise when I really turned him on, but is it normal for a penis to be that small... show more
    We where getting it on for the first time and when I saw his penis I was a bit surprised of what I saw. I wouldn't say it was superrrrr tiny but it would be about 4 inches soft and probably 6,7,8 inches when hard which was a big surprise when I really turned him on, but is it normal for a penis to be that small when soft?
    10 answers · 19 hours ago