• Not inviting your future in law to the wedding?

    I have a very legitimate reason as to why I don't want to invite any of them and my fiance fully understand. I'm not going to go into that long detail. I told him that I was going to have to break the news to somehow, but he doesn't want me to. He suggest we send the invitation "late" so the... show more
    I have a very legitimate reason as to why I don't want to invite any of them and my fiance fully understand. I'm not going to go into that long detail. I told him that I was going to have to break the news to somehow, but he doesn't want me to. He suggest we send the invitation "late" so the invite will arrive at their mail box after our wedding, and claim that there was a delayed at the post office... how is that even going to work? Don't ppl send out invite like a month or two ahead. Their not going to believe this. Should I just tell them that they are not invited, bc this just seems like a cowards way out.
    25 answers · 2 days ago
  • How many wedding gifts are you suppose to buy someone close?

    Say your child or sibling is getting married, how many gifts do you buy them?
    Say your child or sibling is getting married, how many gifts do you buy them?
    9 answers · 1 hour ago
  • What is the protocol for the Bridesmaids at a wedding? (UK)?

    What I'd like to know is who pays for the Bridesmaids dress?! I have heard that Bridesmaids are supposed to pay for their own?! However to me this seems very bizarre. Since I have been asked, to a event that isn't mine, even though it's amazing, I'd have thought those paying for the Bride and... show more
    What I'd like to know is who pays for the Bridesmaids dress?! I have heard that Bridesmaids are supposed to pay for their own?! However to me this seems very bizarre. Since I have been asked, to a event that isn't mine, even though it's amazing, I'd have thought those paying for the Bride and Groom's wedding, or if it's themselves paying, then they pay for all suits, dresses - whatever is required for their day?! It's like going to a party and having to pay to be there, or paying towards the catering, balloons - whatever the person wants at their party, guests have to pay. Seems odd and doesn't sit well with me. Also, if the Bride wants a dress that is way out of someone's price range and something they'd never wear again (likely, as a Bridesmaid dress is different to a general guest at a wedding + it's something that the Bride is choosing, so it's not like I am choosing a dress for myself, with my own taste in mine) if all of the above applies, it's very unlikely I'd be OK with footing the bill for dress I don't like at all, and know I will not wear ever again. Final reasons why I am asking this is because Bridesmaids also have the role of organising the Hen Do with the MOH, so there inevitably will be costs to that too. Paying for our own part of it etc... and the same for having the buy the B&G a wedding present. So a lot of expenses - surely all of this can't be expected!?
    12 answers · 1 day ago
  • So my boyfriend and I want to get engaged, and both our families are meeting soon. The topic of kids is a little difficult and eh...help?

    He is Sikh and I am Muslim and he is converting to islam for me...I really want to marry him and don’t care if he is practicing Muslim but my parents do. Him and his parents want our kids to be raised learning about both faiths and thy get to decide when they are older. My parents for me want our kids to be Muslim... show more
    He is Sikh and I am Muslim and he is converting to islam for me...I really want to marry him and don’t care if he is practicing Muslim but my parents do. Him and his parents want our kids to be raised learning about both faiths and thy get to decide when they are older. My parents for me want our kids to be Muslim and that’s all. What do I do? I really do love him...I also want to make my owners happy and everyone else as well.
    14 answers · 2 days ago
  • What would you do?

    My boyfriend’s brother is getting married. He was asked to be the best man and I was asked to be bridesmaid. Bride does not want children at the event except her own and two of the bridesmaids young girls.... AND the flower girls. So my boyfriend has two girls and I have a girl and a boy. Bride and groom came over... show more
    My boyfriend’s brother is getting married. He was asked to be the best man and I was asked to be bridesmaid. Bride does not want children at the event except her own and two of the bridesmaids young girls.... AND the flower girls. So my boyfriend has two girls and I have a girl and a boy. Bride and groom came over one day with gift bags and asked boyfriends two girls to be in the wedding IN FRONT of my daughter. They were excited and of course asked if my kids were coming too. My daughter looked at me while everyone was silent and I had to tell her no. She was hurt. Now in our his girls still don’t understand why she can’t come and are upset but don’t talk about it in front of my daughter. They have caused a division of our family. I also believe my son would not be welcome as he is special needs and can be distracting. I want to opt out at this point considering how much money I am expected to pay and they can’t respect that we are a family of six.... we stick together. My boyfriend doesn’t support the wedding but is going along for his brother. I have not seriously brought this up to him yet but it’s beginning to eat st me.
    18 answers · 3 days ago
  • My fiance and I want to save sex for marriage, but it s so hard. How can we make sure we don t slip up before we re married/?

    My fiance and I are strong Christians and believe in waiting until marriage for sex. We re going to get married in May. However, waiting that long is so hard. As time goes on it gets harder and harder to resist temptation. We ve had so many close calls. What can we do to make sure we control ourselves so we make... show more
    My fiance and I are strong Christians and believe in waiting until marriage for sex. We re going to get married in May. However, waiting that long is so hard. As time goes on it gets harder and harder to resist temptation. We ve had so many close calls. What can we do to make sure we control ourselves so we make sure we save ourselves for marriage?
    11 answers · 2 days ago
  • How do i tell my fiance' that I found out he's cheating on me?

    So he text me that he was leaving our place and when i get home and log into my computer he had this chat screen up and pretty much said some harsh things about me... like. "I will lie and tell him (me) that you are a lesbian and ill have him meet you so he can trust you to come over" another one... show more
    So he text me that he was leaving our place and when i get home and log into my computer he had this chat screen up and pretty much said some harsh things about me... like. "I will lie and tell him (me) that you are a lesbian and ill have him meet you so he can trust you to come over" another one said, he was waiting for me to leave and even had the times i would get off from work. so now I'm really confused because he had someone here that i don't even know. What do i do? How do i confront him about this?
    9 answers · 2 days ago
  • A honeymoon vacation in the mountains or on a beach?

    Best answer: Beach. Bathing suits optional. ;-)
    Best answer: Beach. Bathing suits optional. ;-)
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is there a game out there for soon to be married couples to get to know each other?

    So I’m wondering if there is a game (card game maybe) with guestions that an engaged couple can play before they get married. Questions that can range from what is your favorite color to who was your first kiss/sexual incounter, sadest moment, worst fear and everything enbetween. I have a few friends that are... show more
    So I’m wondering if there is a game (card game maybe) with guestions that an engaged couple can play before they get married. Questions that can range from what is your favorite color to who was your first kiss/sexual incounter, sadest moment, worst fear and everything enbetween. I have a few friends that are getting married I think a game like that would be fun for them. And not going to lie I think it would be for me to play as well.
    6 answers · 1 day ago
  • Is there rings that are diamond like but aren't engagement rings or promise rings etc?

    Diamond rings are appealing but i feel its more just of a engage/promise kind of thing..
    Diamond rings are appealing but i feel its more just of a engage/promise kind of thing..
    12 answers · 4 days ago
  • I really want to do this center piece at my wedding but does anyone have any insight as to how to make this happen?

    I really want to do this center piece at my wedding but does anyone have any insight as to how to make this happen?

    I cannot find fake blue orchids that are this vibrant and I've heard that real blue orchid bleed in the water because they are dyed. Yet many weddings show a centerpiece like this I just don't know if there is some secret I am not aware of. - Pic Attached
    I cannot find fake blue orchids that are this vibrant and I've heard that real blue orchid bleed in the water because they are dyed. Yet many weddings show a centerpiece like this I just don't know if there is some secret I am not aware of. - Pic Attached
    14 answers · 6 days ago
  • Does my bacherlerrette party in Vegas have to be raunchy?

    My maids are arranging strippers for our hotel room they say it’s normal in Vegas but I am not happy with it. The whole thing has snowballed into raunchy suggestions of what will happen. Is it normal?
    My maids are arranging strippers for our hotel room they say it’s normal in Vegas but I am not happy with it. The whole thing has snowballed into raunchy suggestions of what will happen. Is it normal?
    17 answers · 5 days ago
  • Should I buy this engagement ring?

    16 answers · 6 days ago
  • Some advice?

    Best answer: It sounds like you are having second thoughts about this engagement and so you should. Why is he telling you to propose to him and why are you purchasing the rings? In the situation of not having the money to buy the rings, could this be something to put on hold for now? The "engagement ring" could be... show more
    Best answer: It sounds like you are having second thoughts about this engagement and so you should. Why is he telling you to propose to him and why are you purchasing the rings? In the situation of not having the money to buy the rings, could this be something to put on hold for now? The "engagement ring" could be something to purchase for your tenth anniversary or another significant anniversary. This man sounds like he is using you to pay his way. He doesn't have a job, yet there are plans for a wedding. This doesn't make sense. I would distance myself from this man and definitely not be planning a wedding with him. It sounds like he is using you to get what he wants and what he wants is for you to pay his way in life. Don't fall for this line! He is just using you and has no plans for finding a job. This marriage is one of convenience, his. You will only regret falling for this man and find yourself divorced in no time at all. Back away now and don't look behind, there is nothing of substance behind you.
    13 answers · 6 days ago
  • Does this make any sense?

    I will be getting married next year to a wonderful man who already owns a home. My parents are telling me that I should own a home before I get married, even if I will be moving in with him. They say I will regret it later if I don’t. Can someone explain that to me?!??
    I will be getting married next year to a wonderful man who already owns a home. My parents are telling me that I should own a home before I get married, even if I will be moving in with him. They say I will regret it later if I don’t. Can someone explain that to me?!??
    23 answers · 1 week ago
  • Cheap honeymoon places?

    Best answer: If you're in the eastern USA and are traveling by car AND you want remote and quiet, try Flagler Beach Florida or the cabins at FDR State Park about 100 miles west of Atlanta. If you want something lively with lots of attractions, entertainments, dining and shopping opportunities, I don't think you're... show more
    Best answer: If you're in the eastern USA and are traveling by car AND you want remote and quiet, try Flagler Beach Florida or the cabins at FDR State Park about 100 miles west of Atlanta. If you want something lively with lots of attractions, entertainments, dining and shopping opportunities, I don't think you're going find it cheap.
    6 answers · 4 days ago
  • What's so wrong with wanting a nice wedding ring?

    Best answer: I agree with you.
    I would never marry a man who couldn't do better than a wal mart ring.Yes, It is your choice.
    That man would not be the kind of man i want to spend my life with .
    Best answer: I agree with you.
    I would never marry a man who couldn't do better than a wal mart ring.Yes, It is your choice.
    That man would not be the kind of man i want to spend my life with .
    25 answers · 1 week ago
  • Help with engagement ring purchase?

    I am 19 and my girlfriend is 16, we ve been dating for two years and want to get engaged and married when she turns 18. I m not here for a lecture, so don t talk about age or anything. I just know that my mom has my grandmother s engagement ring set aside for me, but I m too nervous to ask her for it now so I ve... show more
    I am 19 and my girlfriend is 16, we ve been dating for two years and want to get engaged and married when she turns 18. I m not here for a lecture, so don t talk about age or anything. I just know that my mom has my grandmother s engagement ring set aside for me, but I m too nervous to ask her for it now so I ve been looking into engagement rings. Should I just buy one in the $300 range or just grow a pair and ask my mom? Thanks.
    25 answers · 1 week ago