• I screwed up big, I lied to my fiancé about money. What should I do now?

    So our brand new fridge went out. I squabbled for hours about it and the manufacturer agreed to refund us for the cost of the unit. In the meantime, my 16 yr old son whine was living with his father made bad choices and went to jail. I wanted to hire an attorney to get him out. Fiancé said no, be needs to sit in... show more
    So our brand new fridge went out. I squabbled for hours about it and the manufacturer agreed to refund us for the cost of the unit. In the meantime, my 16 yr old son whine was living with his father made bad choices and went to jail. I wanted to hire an attorney to get him out. Fiancé said no, be needs to sit in there and learn a lesson. (I know this would not be the case I’d it was his son) Within the same couple of days, the fridge money came. I took all $2500 and got my kid out of jail and hired and attorney. That was two months ago. Fiancé calls manufacture, they send him a copy of the check I obviously cashed and said I never got. I’m at work. He’s at home. I know he knows. I feel awful I lied. What do I do? I would love to go just stick my head in the sand.
    12 answers · 5 hours ago
  • How many wedding gifts are you suppose to buy someone close?

    Best answer: I didn't get more than one wedding present from any individual.
    Best answer: I didn't get more than one wedding present from any individual.
    15 answers · 1 day ago
  • Not inviting your future in law to the wedding?

    I have a very legitimate reason as to why I don't want to invite any of them and my fiance fully understand. I'm not going to go into that long detail. I told him that I was going to have to break the news to somehow, but he doesn't want me to. He suggest we send the invitation "late" so the... show more
    I have a very legitimate reason as to why I don't want to invite any of them and my fiance fully understand. I'm not going to go into that long detail. I told him that I was going to have to break the news to somehow, but he doesn't want me to. He suggest we send the invitation "late" so the invite will arrive at their mail box after our wedding, and claim that there was a delayed at the post office... how is that even going to work? Don't ppl send out invite like a month or two ahead. Their not going to believe this. Should I just tell them that they are not invited, bc this just seems like a cowards way out.
    29 answers · 3 days ago
  • What is the protocol for the Bridesmaids at a wedding? (UK)?

    What I'd like to know is who pays for the Bridesmaids dress?! I have heard that Bridesmaids are supposed to pay for their own?! However to me this seems very bizarre. Since I have been asked, to a event that isn't mine, even though it's amazing, I'd have thought those paying for the Bride and... show more
    What I'd like to know is who pays for the Bridesmaids dress?! I have heard that Bridesmaids are supposed to pay for their own?! However to me this seems very bizarre. Since I have been asked, to a event that isn't mine, even though it's amazing, I'd have thought those paying for the Bride and Groom's wedding, or if it's themselves paying, then they pay for all suits, dresses - whatever is required for their day?! It's like going to a party and having to pay to be there, or paying towards the catering, balloons - whatever the person wants at their party, guests have to pay. Seems odd and doesn't sit well with me. Also, if the Bride wants a dress that is way out of someone's price range and something they'd never wear again (likely, as a Bridesmaid dress is different to a general guest at a wedding + it's something that the Bride is choosing, so it's not like I am choosing a dress for myself, with my own taste in mine) if all of the above applies, it's very unlikely I'd be OK with footing the bill for dress I don't like at all, and know I will not wear ever again. Final reasons why I am asking this is because Bridesmaids also have the role of organising the Hen Do with the MOH, so there inevitably will be costs to that too. Paying for our own part of it etc... and the same for having the buy the B&G a wedding present. So a lot of expenses - surely all of this can't be expected!?
    17 answers · 2 days ago
  • How to have fun at a wedding being an introverted who doesn't get along with family?

    I'm a guest at a close relative wedding. Thing is I'm an introverted who has been living a very isolated (no complaints mind you)life for many years, I have no experience with weddings and parties. I don't like dancing and actually suck when I try. The worst part is that I'm invited just for being... show more
    I'm a guest at a close relative wedding. Thing is I'm an introverted who has been living a very isolated (no complaints mind you)life for many years, I have no experience with weddings and parties. I don't like dancing and actually suck when I try. The worst part is that I'm invited just for being a very close relative, my parents will be there too, but I don't get along with anybody else since my nuclear family was always isolated from the rest of the bigger family and when we interacted, it wasn't good, there are too many long dated resentments. I was at two other relatives weddings prior and had a dreadful time, I completely avoided the dance floor and even small chat with my older relatives were a drag. I naviagted through the ceremony and dinner because everyone was sitting but the moment the dancing started i didn't know what to do, must of the people left to dance and even my parents standed up to chat around, in a moment I was in my sit completely alone in the big dinner saloon and I felt like a failure, situations like that drove me to never try again but I cannot avoid this wedding. I cannot drop out since I already confirmed my presence and it would make my mum happy, but I don't want to have a bad time particularly because I think it's rude to the grooms. Sorry for the long post. Please, help. thanks!
    10 answers · 22 hours ago
  • Guest complained about her bf, a groomsman, going out for the bachelor party, now I hear shes attending the reception but not the wedding.?

    Best answer: Okay, this is a lot of drama that you don't need to deal with. Did you send this woman an invitation? If so and she has not sent in her RSVP card, then you need to call her to find out if she is in fact attending the reception. If she can't give you a direct answer, then you don't put her on the seating... show more
    Best answer: Okay, this is a lot of drama that you don't need to deal with. Did you send this woman an invitation? If so and she has not sent in her RSVP card, then you need to call her to find out if she is in fact attending the reception. If she can't give you a direct answer, then you don't put her on the seating plan. You might discreetly mention to her that her boyfriend will be sitting at the head table and that you will seat her at a table that has the girlfriends/wives of the other groomsmen. That should rattle her nerves a bit. But, she might not say that she is attending the reception and save you the time of fitting her into the seating plan. Don't worry about her not attending the wedding, some things you just cannot control. If she is rude enough to pull a stunt like this, don't dignify it with a response. It will look bad for her when others see her at the reception and know that she didn't attend the wedding. Hopefully they will ask her why she wasn't there. You have enough to worry about and take care of with the wedding planning. Don't spend another moment worrying about this situation. Find out if she is going to attend the reception, that's all you need to do. All you need is a yes or no and that's it. Let this insecure nut case fend for herself.
    8 answers · 4 hours ago
  • What would you do?

    My boyfriend’s brother is getting married. He was asked to be the best man and I was asked to be bridesmaid. Bride does not want children at the event except her own and two of the bridesmaids young girls.... AND the flower girls. So my boyfriend has two girls and I have a girl and a boy. Bride and groom came over... show more
    My boyfriend’s brother is getting married. He was asked to be the best man and I was asked to be bridesmaid. Bride does not want children at the event except her own and two of the bridesmaids young girls.... AND the flower girls. So my boyfriend has two girls and I have a girl and a boy. Bride and groom came over one day with gift bags and asked boyfriends two girls to be in the wedding IN FRONT of my daughter. They were excited and of course asked if my kids were coming too. My daughter looked at me while everyone was silent and I had to tell her no. She was hurt. Now in our his girls still don’t understand why she can’t come and are upset but don’t talk about it in front of my daughter. They have caused a division of our family. I also believe my son would not be welcome as he is special needs and can be distracting. I want to opt out at this point considering how much money I am expected to pay and they can’t respect that we are a family of six.... we stick together. My boyfriend doesn’t support the wedding but is going along for his brother. I have not seriously brought this up to him yet but it’s beginning to eat st me.
    22 answers · 4 days ago
  • My fiance and I want to save sex for marriage, but it s so hard. How can we make sure we don t slip up before we re married/?

    My fiance and I are strong Christians and believe in waiting until marriage for sex. We re going to get married in May. However, waiting that long is so hard. As time goes on it gets harder and harder to resist temptation. We ve had so many close calls. What can we do to make sure we control ourselves so we make... show more
    My fiance and I are strong Christians and believe in waiting until marriage for sex. We re going to get married in May. However, waiting that long is so hard. As time goes on it gets harder and harder to resist temptation. We ve had so many close calls. What can we do to make sure we control ourselves so we make sure we save ourselves for marriage?
    13 answers · 3 days ago
  • How do i tell my fiance' that I found out he's cheating on me?

    So he text me that he was leaving our place and when i get home and log into my computer he had this chat screen up and pretty much said some harsh things about me... like. "I will lie and tell him (me) that you are a lesbian and ill have him meet you so he can trust you to come over" another one... show more
    So he text me that he was leaving our place and when i get home and log into my computer he had this chat screen up and pretty much said some harsh things about me... like. "I will lie and tell him (me) that you are a lesbian and ill have him meet you so he can trust you to come over" another one said, he was waiting for me to leave and even had the times i would get off from work. so now I'm really confused because he had someone here that i don't even know. What do i do? How do i confront him about this?
    12 answers · 3 days ago
  • A honeymoon vacation in the mountains or on a beach?

    Best answer: Beach. Bathing suits optional. ;-)
    Best answer: Beach. Bathing suits optional. ;-)
    8 answers · 3 days ago
  • Is there a game out there for soon to be married couples to get to know each other?

    So I’m wondering if there is a game (card game maybe) with guestions that an engaged couple can play before they get married. Questions that can range from what is your favorite color to who was your first kiss/sexual incounter, sadest moment, worst fear and everything enbetween. I have a few friends that are... show more
    So I’m wondering if there is a game (card game maybe) with guestions that an engaged couple can play before they get married. Questions that can range from what is your favorite color to who was your first kiss/sexual incounter, sadest moment, worst fear and everything enbetween. I have a few friends that are getting married I think a game like that would be fun for them. And not going to lie I think it would be for me to play as well.
    6 answers · 3 days ago
  • Best location for a honeymoon.?

    Best answer: Bora Bora, French Polynesia
    Best answer: Bora Bora, French Polynesia
    5 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is there rings that are diamond like but aren't engagement rings or promise rings etc?

    Diamond rings are appealing but i feel its more just of a engage/promise kind of thing..
    Diamond rings are appealing but i feel its more just of a engage/promise kind of thing..
    12 answers · 5 days ago
  • I really want to do this center piece at my wedding but does anyone have any insight as to how to make this happen?

    I really want to do this center piece at my wedding but does anyone have any insight as to how to make this happen?

    I cannot find fake blue orchids that are this vibrant and I've heard that real blue orchid bleed in the water because they are dyed. Yet many weddings show a centerpiece like this I just don't know if there is some secret I am not aware of. - Pic Attached
    I cannot find fake blue orchids that are this vibrant and I've heard that real blue orchid bleed in the water because they are dyed. Yet many weddings show a centerpiece like this I just don't know if there is some secret I am not aware of. - Pic Attached
    14 answers · 1 week ago
  • Does my bacherlerrette party in Vegas have to be raunchy?

    My maids are arranging strippers for our hotel room they say it’s normal in Vegas but I am not happy with it. The whole thing has snowballed into raunchy suggestions of what will happen. Is it normal?
    My maids are arranging strippers for our hotel room they say it’s normal in Vegas but I am not happy with it. The whole thing has snowballed into raunchy suggestions of what will happen. Is it normal?
    17 answers · 6 days ago
  • What kind of gray suits is out there and why?

    It's for a wedding in spring or summer
    It's for a wedding in spring or summer
    4 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why is my aunty being nasty is she jelous what is it?

    Ok we invited our aunty to our wedding abroad in indian she could not make it we understood. Before my wedding she wanted to come and visit us but i was ill and also we where very busy we did give a option of another day but she started to act funny when we rang her and said oh im very busy sorry to come on a... show more
    Ok we invited our aunty to our wedding abroad in indian she could not make it we understood. Before my wedding she wanted to come and visit us but i was ill and also we where very busy we did give a option of another day but she started to act funny when we rang her and said oh im very busy sorry to come on a certain day. After the wedding she said congrats on the phone and soon after she rang saying id thought id let you know we are also going to india, we said okay we will pop round and she said sorry i am busy its ok and after asking never even told us what date she flying on just said in the christmas holidays why is she being horrible? Or weird like that i have known her to be jelous in the past. Also after my marraige she was commenting on my sister in law saying she looks awfull and her clothes on the wedding day looked disgusting! And saying horrible things about my brother in law who is so nice looking and kind but to her judgement is ugly! And i have heard that she might see a wedding in india aswell from a USA family abroad. She never spoke alot on the phone ended the conversation quicky why even tell us you're going to india! What is wrong?
    4 answers · 2 days ago