BF and I are practising celibacy but I have caught him masturbating?

My boyfriend and I have been thinking seriously about following the Eastern religion of Ecism (its a mixutre of Buddist and Taoist teachings). It advocates periods of abstension from sex, meat, TV etc. We have begun practising these things for a week in preparation for a retreat in the new year and already I have... show more My boyfriend and I have been thinking seriously about following the Eastern religion of Ecism (its a mixutre of Buddist and Taoist teachings). It advocates periods of abstension from sex, meat, TV etc.
We have begun practising these things for a week in preparation for a retreat in the new year and already I have caught my him masturbating! He had an old pic of me in his hands and came all over it.
When I confronted him and demanded an answer he said that he was very sorry and that it would not happen again.

How can I police this and make sure that it does not?
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