BF and I are practising celibacy but I have caught him masturbating?
We have begun practising these things for a week in preparation for a retreat in the new year and already I have caught my him masturbating! He had an old pic of me in his hands and came all over it.
When I confronted him and demanded an answer he said that he was very sorry and that it would not happen again.
How can I police this and make sure that it does not?