Hey. I know how you must feel. I myself, am going through a break up. He used to look into my eyes and make me feel like i would melt. He changed suddenly. I have had a hectic week, trying to figure out what i did wrong. For 2 weeks i have been crying etc. He told me that 'it was not me, it was him'. At 1st he said we argue too much and i go on and on about things...i guess he realised that was an unreliable and silly excuse, so he kept on saying it was him not me, and he just needed to be alone etc. he wasnt sure of anything, at 1st he suggested a break. I asked him what the conditions of the break were and he kept on saying, 'i dont know. I would ask him, 'Are we going to get back together'? He would say 'i dont know'. I finally confronted him asking if he wanted a break up, he would say 'I dont know'.etc. Finally after getting advice i called him and aksed if we could work things out or break up and he said he didnt want to work things out now. i was DEVASTATED. We had made plans to see, i was so upset.
But hey, my luv, men are complicated. There may be 2 reasons why he has not introduced you to his parents. One may be because he he does not want to marry you or is not sure he wants to just yet. The second may be that he does not feel it necessary to start introducing you to his parents just yet. I mean, some men just dont want to tell thier parents everyhting just yet till they are sure of their plans.
I understand how you feel, you have to be patient. Give it 2 months and see if he contacts you. It will be hard but give it some time. You could text or call occasionally but dont pressure him about the relationship. After 2 months things should become clearer. If he is still so unsure, you need to have at the back of your mind that he may be trying to gradually withdraw from you. Nevertheless, men have periods when they just want to be alone. So dont be too hasty, 2 years together is meaningful.
So, dont pressure him too much at the moment. OK? Just be calm, occupy yourself with things. See if he comes back to you, if he doesnt have a chat with him...and then from this you have to deduce whether or not you feel its over.
Please note that men can change. So goodluck. Just leave him alone for some time. Give him space. If after 2/3 months, he is still acting up, then just move on. Still you dont need to insult him etc. Just stay low. He may come back, he may not.
Just be prepared for anything. ok?
Goodluck. plus, iv been thru this,its hard. If its meant to be, it will be. watever is yours wil surely come back ok?
ps- read stuff online. eg type in google..' my ex is acitng distant'..etc. A lot of helpful stuff.