I actually have been doing that for a few weeks now and feel better than I ever have.
I asked myself if I would do this same job if money was no longer a concern. I would not. I would much rather do something I LOVED such as writing or research.
I asked myself how I can have a better relationship with my mother, because I love her so much and know she loves me. We just have issues in communication. I am working on not being hyper sensitive to what she says or does.
I asked myself what I would do if he ever came back here and called to tell me so, I asked if I would listen to his reason for leaving. I would listen to him and try to understand. Everyone has a life to live, choices to make and people they care for. I realized, I am ready to be his friend and if more grows from the friendship, it would be a win/win.
I asked myself how I can make my kids relationship with their father better because he only sees them a few hours every other weekend. I want them to have a better relationshio for THEIR sake...he is an adult and capable of making adult decisions. I decided, all I can do is offer support to my sons. When they are old enough, they will tell their father how they feel. Just like I did.
I am ready to move to the next level.