Should i go back to my ex or should i move on???

About a week ago my bf decided to break off. i was devastated and broke down and that same day I decided that i was going to move on. I continued talking to him thinking it was over. However, his interpretation of the break off was not having a formal relationship with label of gf/bf but that he still wanted to be... show more About a week ago my bf decided to break off. i was devastated and broke down and that same day I decided that i was going to move on. I continued talking to him thinking it was over. However, his interpretation of the break off was not having a formal relationship with label of gf/bf but that he still wanted to be with me. A few days ago I started talking to another friend who is interested in me and realized that I really enjoy talking to him. I told my ex about him and he has been really but hurt about me moving on so fast. I really love my ex and I know he loves me too. On one hand I want to get back with him but I am scared that our relationship will go back to the same, although he claims that he is wiling to put the effort to change. One the other hand I am ready for something new and want to get to know other guys but I don’t want to lose my ex. I want him still part of my life and I want him to be my friend. my ex is making me chose and i am just confused.
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