Since death of Father-in-Law Wife has Mother-in-Law around ALL THE TIME?

My Father in Law was killed at his job 7 years ago and since then my wife has had her mom around with us in everything. We go out to eat she is there, We went on a vacation to Las Vegas just us and she came along, we went on a cruise to Mexico and she was there to whole time. She is at my house and my wife even... show more My Father in Law was killed at his job 7 years ago and since then my wife has had her mom around with us in everything. We go out to eat she is there, We went on a vacation to Las Vegas just us and she came along, we went on a cruise to Mexico and she was there to whole time. She is at my house and my wife even got her a job at where she works. Now she will not have sex with me because her dad is watching from Heaven. We have been married 22 years and I want it to last forever but I am not sure how much more I can take. I don't want to be a jerk about it and we have talked about it but all she does is blow up on me and tell me how I should understand and not say anything. I don't know what to do it effecting me, my kids and our marrige...Please Help!!!
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