I found my soul mate on mate1.com But be careful on any site, there are predators of men and women who want money, are extremely desperate and will settle for anyone, or their profiles are a lie. You have to read between the lines, listen to your heart and gut reaction to someone, and look at half of a person's picture. That will tell you if a person's smile reaches his/her eyes. There are some real strange people out there and cyber-dating is not all that is cracked up to be. The first guy I met, well, let's just say he was a lying, cheating, abusive, needy, blaming man. I got that on the first date. The second one I met, was a dream!! I must warn you though, you can get burned out if you sign up with too many cyber-dating sites. You get tons of e-mails that you have to answer or delete.