Well, from what you say, it sounds like she's the one causing the problem, not you.
Just wait for a few days. During that time, think about whether you really want to spend your life with someone who's going to be a raving maniac once every month.
Personally, I say don't call her. Let her make the next move. She's the one who needs to apologize, and who needs to say that she wants to get back together. If she does, don't make it too easy for her. You're right that communication is a two-way street.
By the way, how were you supposed to know when the game would be over in 10 minutes? A few people could have gotten hits, and the game could have gone on for a long time. As Yogi Berra said, "it ain't over till it's over."