Aquarius ex-boyfriend quit talking to me out of the blue?
Background info. We dated July-September. We slept together and he started acting different. Distant, taking longer to respond to texts/calls and we saw each other only once more a week later and the last thing he said was,''I love you, talk to you soon.' Then he never spoke to me again, ignored my calls/ texts. I only made one call because I am not a stalker.
So three weeks ago, on February 10, I sent him a facebook message. He immediately replied and it was like the first time. He said he was really sorry and he's been wanting to talk to me but felt too bad about what he did, basically hitting it and quitting it ha.
It was good, we're hanging out every other day, till 2 weeks ago I slept with him again. I regret it because the same thing happened as the first time. He said it would strengthen out communication and I should learn to live in the moment.
The problem with that theory is: we quit communicating. He again became a different person. It's like he's one person whom I love, then after we have sex he becomes someone else. His truck broke and he works 10 hour shifts alot, that was his excuse for not talking to me much last week. We saw each other last Thursday for like 45 minutes, I went with him to get a tattoo, he said he would see me Saturday cause he was off that we would have an awesome day together.
Now here's what happened:
Friday I called him and said I would like to hang for an hour or so before I work. We live 15 minutes from each other. He said He's at his dads, sorry baby. So i texted him and said to leave and come see me, I wanna see him. No reply. I told him goodnight that night, no reply.
My last move:
I called him Saturday and said he made plans with me, and if he does not call me back or see me soon we are broke up cause this is just ridiculous. No call back.
I have not contacted him since, it's been a week since we've spoke. He obviously does not want to talk.
I am so confused. Why would he tell me all that, then this?! Maybe the relationship started too fast and intense.
I have deleted him from my phone and facebook. SHould I contact him in a few weeks and tell him I would prefer to not lose him as a friend, and we'll move very very slow this time starting on a friendship level?