We kissed, made out but no email reply?

I met a guy at a disco and was a bit tipsy flirted with him. I left the club telling him I will email him. He followed me out of the club leaving his friends after which we kissed and made out. It carried on more than an hour whilst we walked thru the city. Kissing every now and then. During which his breath got... show more I met a guy at a disco and was a bit tipsy flirted with him. I left the club telling him I will email him. He followed me out of the club leaving his friends after which we kissed and made out. It carried on more than an hour whilst we walked thru the city. Kissing every now and then. During which his breath got heavier and although I kept saying I had to go during the kissing I did mention to him about probably I couldnt go is I found him very attractive, and he admits it too.

He did ask me to go home with him and spend the night with him as he was due to fly out of town the next day. Nonetheless I had to go home as it was 3:30am and I just was not prepared to spend the night with him.

After I teased him a bit, I got into a cab (i think he thought i wasnt going to leave), and then he opened the cab door and reminded me to write to him. Even the cab driver freaked out was worried that I didnt know him with the fear of being attacked. He apologized to the cab driver. Also he sent me some blow kisses.

I mailed his office email, I only sent him a very brief email on my email address and number without any emotions and feelings. Is that wrong? I don't think is right to flirt in office email addresses?
- It's been 2 days and he has not replied my mail, does he like me or he is just a player?
- By me holding back and not spending the night with him on the first night is it bad? Would the guy value that the girl actually holds back?
- He is back in town end of this weekend, should I write him another email about catching up? As I do feel bad that the whole night I have been teasing him, he mentioned that is what kept it very interesting and challenging for him.
Update: Apologies for missing the details. Actually both of us refrained giving each other our names / contact info. Finally he gave in with his name card. I suppose could be the role he has hence he avoided the contacts. The tease I made was at least I had his contact details on my hand and was up to me to contact... show more Apologies for missing the details. Actually both of us refrained giving each other our names / contact info. Finally he gave in with his name card. I suppose could be the role he has hence he avoided the contacts.

The tease I made was at least I had his contact details on my hand and was up to me to contact him. Hence I wrote him an email the next day with my contact address but he has not wrote back.
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