How to deal with an ungrateful brother?

My brother is moving out. His Plans: 1. moving in with a friend 2. no money 3. no job 4. no transportation 5. apparently the girlfriend can visit any time He moved in with his friends family today, he even took his bed. I'm asking him how this will work? Before he left my Dad said don't go... show more My brother is moving out.

His Plans:
1. moving in with a friend
2. no money
3. no job
4. no transportation
5. apparently the girlfriend can visit any time
He moved in with his friends family today, he even took his bed. I'm asking him how this will work?

Before he left my Dad said don't go here's a plan:
1. find a job
2. I'll help you get a car for transportation
3. once you have established your finances you can move in with your friend
4. you can only have your girlfriend over 3 times per week and she needs to leave by 11pm

Can someone explain to me why he didn't listen to my Dad?
I just broke it down this way so it's not long and easier to digest.
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