Does your husband really get turned on by lingerie?

When my husband and I were dating, he seemed to really like when I bought sexy lingerie, and wearing said lingerie always led to sex. Once we got married, he confessed to me that lingerie really did nothing for him, that he preferred to see me as I am. He even spent the better part of an evening ignoring my sexy... show more When my husband and I were dating, he seemed to really like when I bought sexy lingerie, and wearing said lingerie always led to sex. Once we got married, he confessed to me that lingerie really did nothing for him, that he preferred to see me as I am. He even spent the better part of an evening ignoring my sexy lingerie to prove his point.

So here's my question: are men really turned on by the lingerie or by the sexy attitude that comes along with wearing it? Have we just been programmed to believe that men like the lingerie by the companies so we will buy it? Or are all men different on this one? Just want to get some different points of view on this one :)
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