16 year old girl struggling with alcohol, drugs, boys and school?

Hi. :) During years 7 - 10 of secondary school, I really didn't fit in at all; in fact I was bullied all throughout year 7 due to my weight. This didn't last long as I lose weight during year 8, found a close group of friends and had my first boyfriend and my first kiss in year 9. However, I still... show more Hi. :)

During years 7 - 10 of secondary school, I really didn't fit in at all; in fact I was bullied all throughout year 7 due to my weight. This didn't last long as I lose weight during year 8, found a close group of friends and had my first boyfriend and my first kiss in year 9. However, I still rarely socialised outside of my little group of friends and I was nearly 15 before I attended a party with alcohol.

I decided year 11 was going to be different for me. I haven't done any coursework or homework at all so far this year as I've been exerting on my energy on trying to lose weight, which includes eating only one small meal under 500 calories a day and exercising like crazy. I've even started throwing up after the meal recently because I just can't keep any food down anymore.

In the past two weeks I've been drunk four times, and I've smoked weed twice. I've also kissed four different boys - one of which made advances towards having sex with me but I was sensible enough to realise I'd only known him for just under a week and we were unprotected. I've met up with him several times since that night and we've gotten quite close each time. He's 19 and a frequent smoker of weed.

I seriously don't know what to do. I don't know if this lifestyle is normal for a girl of my age, and I certainly don't know how to deal with it. If someone could just give me some guidance on each problem I explained I'd be so grateful. Thank you. :)
Update: I'm not overweight anymore, my BMI was about 22 last time I checked. I just don't have much self-confidence hahah
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