Is it common for the bride and groom to invite more " friends" than family to their wedding?

This wedding only has 60 people from family on both sides invited to their weddingand the rest is made up with friends. total has blown out to 150 people they wanted 140. having problems with the bride and groom to allow gf and partners of family to be invited the excuse is that they don't know them. I find... show more This wedding only has 60 people from family on both sides invited to their weddingand the rest is made up with friends. total has blown out to 150 people they wanted 140. having problems with the bride and groom to allow gf and partners of family to be invited the excuse is that they don't know them. I find this attitude to be unfair, there is no way anyone could have 90 close friends! is there?
Update: BTW everyone, I'm paying for the wedding, so be careful with what you post. Some of you have already offended
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