Why do i keep having recurring dreams of i & my Ex getting back together?
The thing is, i just went through a very tough breakup. My ex-boyfriend broke up with me because he believe he wasn't making me happy any more. I had fought to get us back together but didn't succeed. He always appeared indecisive. At a time he would want us back & at another he would say i am better off without him. So at the end i gave up. We were in a distance r/ship.
6-7months before our breakup i had recurring dreams of him hurting me so bad. 3 dreams in a week. He was cheating on me in those dreams with other girls. One of the dreams was so real. My heart bled and i cried. When i woke, i discovered i was crying out and my left hand was placed on my heart as in the dream. My heart was hurting. I did not tell him about those dreams because i didn't want him to think i didn't trust him as that was not the case. When we broke up, the pain was as they were in those dreams. His reaction was same as in the dreams. well, in the end i discovered those dreams foretold what was going to happen and as usual i had ignored them.
Now i have accepted our breakup but yet i have had 5 dreams (4 in a week) of us being together. In one of them, he was apologising in a video chat. In the other, we were in a gathering and i was telling my gfs that i was glad we made up. I was happier than ever in my life. The others were him holding me in his arms and apologising that he was sorry for all he put me through. One of them was so real that i could smell his cologne.
I so hate these dreams. I try to overlook them but they keep coming. It ain't also easy based on the fact that i'm so used to having my dreams come true: the recurring ones especially. This makes it a bit difficult to completely move on. I don't wish us to be back together any more. He was the one guy i loved so deeply but i have decided to turn the page.
Any help on why i keep having these dreams?