Why is this guy I met online acting all weird?

So I met this guy on an online dating site called okcupid, we messaged a little bit and then started texting. We found out that we lived pretty close to eachother so he wanted to meet the next day. The thing is, he's 25 and I'm 19. I told him I'm feeling skeptical/hesitant meeting someone just the very... show more So I met this guy on an online dating site called okcupid, we messaged a little bit and then started texting. We found out that we lived pretty close to eachother so he wanted to meet the next day. The thing is, he's 25 and I'm 19. I told him I'm feeling skeptical/hesitant meeting someone just the very next day through the internet but he replies he feels the same and said i seem to be a safe person. He also said he will have work on the weekdays so he wanted to meet tomorrow since it's sunday. For the age part, he just said he doesn't discriminate friendship based on age.

So on the day we met, he's offered me a ride to the place and talk and so we did. We talked but most of the time, he was asking me questions such as what do I look for in a guy, why haven't i been dating, and what do i think of him. He also suggested that we hang out next weekend again. However, when i ask him the same questions back and questions about his dating history, he seemed dodgy and desultory. I'm a 19 yr old who's never had a serious relationship before b/c school is my priority, so i really hope i'm not being tricked.

I also told him I like older men, men that are more mature, men who can cook, and a traditional guy as well and he's been trying to make hints/indirect signs that he fits those types.

He's a dental graduate student and looking at his facebook, he seemed like a decent guy. But when i looked at his dating site profile, his test questions reveal that he has a really sex-driven personality.

I really don't know what to do. Should I meet him again, or should i call it quits? If do calling quits, how do i nicely say it? Thank you and I really hope for those of you who dated before/is experienced with this topic can help me out. Thank you.

One more thing: I texted him I was hesitant to meet a guy online & the fact that why would a 25 year old wanna meet a 19 year old? I also told him i hate guys who just want sex and ditch as well as that I practice celibacy.
He replied back saying that he respects my morals/principles and asked if meeting him as broke the stigma. He also said he doesnt like girls who "just have fun" & completely destroy the other person's emotions, as well as saying "nothing wrong with having fun, just not that type of fun, if you know what i mean"


Thank you again I would really want some suggestions/advice of what's going on and what to do!!
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