I have no freedom.?

I am 14 years old and I have no freedom at all. My situation is really quite simple. I am not allowed to go hang out with my friends. The reason for this to my parents is since all my friends are older being 16 and 17 that all they want is sex. They think I am going to get raped or murdered. I am a lot more mature... show more I am 14 years old and I have no freedom at all. My situation is really quite simple. I am not allowed to go hang out with my friends. The reason for this to my parents is since all my friends are older being 16 and 17 that all they want is sex. They think I am going to get raped or murdered. I am a lot more mature than my age suggests. I asked to go to the movies or out to eat with one of my guy friends. I said that I had absolutely no issue with them meeting him like they do all my friends.

They said I was not allowed in the car with any boy. This to me seems a bit ridiculous. They have an app to track me on my phone to see which streets and area I am on at all times so I don't see the problem since I'd be in a public place the whole time. This really upsets me that they don't trust me to make the right decisions. I've always been a good kid, I don't act out, I've never really gotten in trouble maybe sometimes for an attitude that's it though

They said they trust me but not boys. Nothing would happen when in a public place. My parents said they could drive both of us to the movies, then sit in the parking lot for us to finish. But I don't wanna be babysat.

All I am asking is for some freedom. I know they'll always see me as their baby. They don't want to see me grow up. I get it. But at the same time, you can't keep your kid sheltered their whole life it leads to resentment. How do I make them see that I know they mean well, but that I can make good decisions myself now?
Update: I know they are just trying to protect me. Telling me that doesn't help my situation I already know that. Them trying to "protect" me has resulted in me having no social life whatsoever. I just want to hang out with my friends just like everybody else.
Update 2: And what is even more unfair is that my little brother is allowed to hang out with friends outside of the house. As well as my sister had the freedom to at 16 and was allowed to go to the mall with friends at 14, which I am not even allowed to do.
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