As an honorable person of good character, you turn the other way when you find new sexual attractions and soulmates because you honor your vows over your selfish, fleeting desires. Soulmates and new attractions come and go. Protect your heart and your spouse's heart by guarding your mind against fantasizing about how good it feels emotionally, mentally, sexually, physically, & spiritually to be with someone other than your spouse. You made a commitment. Put your self aside enough to realize what a favor you will be doing to this new person to let them go because they don't deserve your fleeting love/commitment just for you to hurt them and dump them for your newest soulmate in ten to twenty years from now. Love your spouse. Put verbs in your love. Choose the actions and the feelings will follow. Jesus loves you. Seek Him. Encourage your spouse to seek him. He will put good desires in your heart and will fill you with joy and peace when you seek Him. Picture a triangle with God on top and you and your spouse on the bottom angles. As you two individually draw closer to Jesus, who is God, you inevitably draw close to one another. God loves you. Find a good Bible believing church, such as baptist. Turn from your sin and ask Jesus to forgive you and ask Him to live in your heart. Open your heart to God. Beware of churches that reject Jesus as the only way to God. Also avoid churches that don't believe in the Bible. May God bless you with faith and knowledge of Him.