What makes men interested in a woman?

As pathetic as this is, I'm lost... I'm not some hideous hell-beast with no personality, but yet I get zero interest from guys. I've been single over a year, I've dated three guys but two were via a dating app (slim pickings on apps currently) and one I picked-up in a club (a rare night out, I... show more As pathetic as this is, I'm lost...

I'm not some hideous hell-beast with no personality, but yet I get zero interest from guys.

I've been single over a year, I've dated three guys but two were via a dating app (slim pickings on apps currently) and one I picked-up in a club (a rare night out, I was drunk and didn't think I'd actually get him).

Before I was single I was in a five year long-distance relationship, I wasn't looking for anyone but being on my own most of the time it meant I did notice that guys didn't seem interested in me during that time either.

I just don't seem to meet guys, there's no opportunity for me to meet guys...let alone get to a point where they'd get to know me, and guys don't seem to approach women any more either...I'm at a loss as to how to find a boyfriend, and what I could do to try to improve my chances of getting guys interested in me.
Update: Some of you seem to be missing the point:
I can't talk to guys or be inadvertently shooting guys down if none talk to me to begin with!
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