Am I a horrible, selfish person for never wanting children?

I'm a 29 year old single female and am finally becomming more comfortable with the fact that I may never want children. There are a few reasons why: 1. I find the routine of taking care of kids boring, mundane and frustrating. Especially if it's to do with taking them to school. 2. I may never be able to... show more I'm a 29 year old single female and am finally becomming more comfortable with the fact that I may never want children. There are a few reasons why:

1. I find the routine of taking care of kids boring, mundane and frustrating. Especially if it's to do with taking them to school.
2. I may never be able to give birth because my insides are smashed up
3. I hope to get into a relationship with a female (I'm bi)

I don't hate children. I love playing games with them and talking, but I couldn't mentally cope with the 24/ 7 responsibility. I would need a lot of support, including finances, if I were to take that step.

It doesn't make me horrible or selfish, does it? I just worry that I, a female, am denying my most primitive function - which is to be a mother. It's a bit messed up right now.
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