Why should someone have to pay alimony?

Like I don t understand it. Basically, someone wants a divorce and usually the woman asks to get alimony. Why should a grown *** woman (or man) be entitled to money for living expenses? And usually they get this on top of child support too! You want to be all independent and have a divorce, yet you still want... show more Like I don t understand it. Basically, someone wants a divorce and usually the woman asks to get alimony. Why should a grown *** woman (or man) be entitled to money for living expenses? And usually they get this on top of child support too!
You want to be all independent and have a divorce, yet you still want money from the other person?! All while the person having to pay is killing themselves working and having to pay everything on top of their own stuff. Do you agree or disagree and why?
Btw I m a girl...I just think its wrong.
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