I prefer my children to be straight, that makes me a homophobe?
If my kids happen to be gay I'll love them, accept them for who they are.
But hypothetically if I could have it my way, I would prefer my kids to be straight.
Apparently, that makes me homophobic to many people.
I also prefer my kids to be tall not short, does that make me a Heightist?
I prefer my kids to be able-bodied, does that make me an ableist?
I prefer my kids to be tanned skin with black hair to look like me, does that make me racist towards white people?
Since when does preference mean that you are phobic?
STOP, it's not sexist or hetero sexist to have a preference. Am I racist for wanting my kids to be brown like me and not white? If I happen to have white kids I'll still love them.