Is a wife's use of "toys" for her self-gratification every bit as bad as her husband watching porn for his?

isn't she cheating on her husband by not saving her desires for him?

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It depends on how her husband feels about it, some men love women using toys... so no. Everyone has different ideas of what cheating is and isn’t. I’d say no, because porn is another real life person. Although both aren’t a big deal unless it gets to an addiction level

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Neither of those things are bad though.

Groovy_Unicorn · 4 months ago

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maybe her husband's sex drive can't keep up with hers so no there is nothing wrong with it.

Bobster · 4 months ago

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Buddy... Buddy. It's 2017. It's only sexist if men do it. Doesn't matter if women do it too. This is the terrible world we live in. Dildo = empowerment. Latex puss = Pervy virgin. Vibrator = progressive. Porn = objectifying.

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It's only bad if there is a strange man attached to it!

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Neither is 'bad'. Both are fine (and fun). A person may "gratify" themselves as much as they desire. It's the "gratification" of or by others, that may cause a problem.

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Most sex therapists think that a womans using toys is perfectly normal and healthy, as is a man watching porn. There are now many toys for men, and porn for women as well. Perfectly acceptable in MODERN healthy relationship. I had a female partner who saw naughty male dancers, similar to the Chipendales, I was glad because she came home feeling horny as hell, and was gasping for sex.

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He should ask to watch so he can learn how to please her better.

Making a girl *** while you're railing her and holding a vibrator on her clit is awesome.

President Michael Vicks Dog · 4 months ago

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neither one of them is cheating

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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qn_YbiqBeFs

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