Can my husband be in love with another women?

6 years ago I got married to a loving man. In these 6 years we have accomplished a lot. I thought we had the perfect marriage. We both graduated university together, and became parents. Yes we have bumps in the road but we have managed to get thru them. 4 months ago he developed a relationship with another women.... show more 6 years ago I got married to a loving man. In these 6 years we have accomplished a lot. I thought we had the perfect marriage. We both graduated university together, and became parents. Yes we have bumps in the road but we have managed to get thru them.
4 months ago he developed a relationship with another women. Started off just texting, and went from there. Lunch dates, gifts, ... their relationship seems to be as if they are a couple. But how so if he is my husband? I have read the emails, texts, ... he let’s her in his up most personal feelings. As does she. He tells her he loves her and loves me. ( from the texts she found out about me 3 months into their fling.) I have not told him I know, and not sure I want to. Can he really love her? Can he really love me? I hold him accountable for his actions. Even tho as a women I would expect her to end it, I hold him responsible. There’s so much more to this story, but this is a quick short version. Can my husband be in love with another women?
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