Should i believe my Husband or should i just move on.?

My husband of 17years. Wants to seperate from me due to endless arguments,my attitude and trust issues. He said that he wants to move on to his on place so that he could be more independent. He feel that he didn't get to experience being a independent man living on his own being that we were together since the... show more My husband of 17years. Wants to seperate from me due to endless arguments,my attitude and trust issues. He said that he wants to move on to his on place so that he could be more independent. He feel that he didn't get to experience being a independent man living on his own being that we were together since the age of 18 years old. He refuses to go to marriage counseling, because he work too much. I asked him would he like to save our marriage and he answered yes; but only if i make those changes in my attitude and become more independent. He fell out of love with me because of the way i get angry and handle different situations. He tells me that im still a beautiful woman to him and that he want a year living apart from me to see If he would miss me again. He say that his heart is blocked from loving me he just cant seem to get pass all the hurtful situations we both put each other through. I Love my husband and I dont want him to leave me. Please I need helpful advice.
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